 What's going on you guys? Welcome to the single guy channel. My name is Lloyd today We're gonna be talking about how to get over a girl a lot of guys I would say 90% of the questions that I get the email DM whatever is Lloyd I have this problem with this one girl and blah blah blah they tell me like this huge story And then in the end my answer to them is almost always the same. I'm like Stop going after this girl that's giving you so many problems and go after other girls who won't give you these problems And I say this advice and I know a lot of times they know that this is the answers to their problem They're just not ready to just not ready to move on and so in this video what I'm gonna be covering is I'm gonna be covering all The steps that I use to make sure that's very easy for you to move on and you don't have to like have all your emotions Tied to this one person because typically what happens and this is what my tips are gonna be for They're all based around this is if you have a good foundation Meaning that before the girl came in life was pretty good If you have a good foundation, it's not gonna be that big of a deal if she leaves Like if you already have a great thing going and then something good come it comes along and then you lose That good thing. Well, you still have a great thing going on so it's like, you know It's a shame it didn't work out But I still have a great thing going on here But if you don't have a great thing going on like you're kind of down here like life's not that good You don't have a lot of things going for you Then if a little piece of happiness comes in some girl some woman it is pretty or whatever She comes in your life and you will do anything that you can't to hold on to that happiness You'll do really needy. You'll do really loser low value behavior That's just not gonna help you your life or the girl in general So if you want to be able to get over a girl, the first thing is you need to have Good friends and family. Okay. Have a good circle of friends have a good You know close family that you can connect with and look man Not everyone can choose their family. In fact, no one gets to choose their family, but you can If you do have a family, that's like it's all right. You can Contact them more talk to them more spend more time with them. You know, that's one thing I'm fortunate to have a good family So anytime that I feel like I'm separate from them I try and keep in contact with them a little bit more and I feel better I feel more connected with people Also, too for a close friends groups, especially this is important If you don't have a good close family that you can count on is having a good set of close friends Spend time with them put effort into them if you're the type of person who expects your friends to support you No matter what well you need to be putting time into them You can't just you know aimlessly think that oh if I Ignore my friends and then after my breakup or after this girl leaves me They're just gonna come coddle me and support me if you've not been supporting them Then they're probably not gonna support you back So this is a good time for you to start spending more time with your friends and that way you have a good Foundation so that the next time a girl leaves you It's not gonna be that big of a deal. Okay thing two is to be on your purpose Be on your purpose. Okay, this is a paramount for a guy This is a paramount for I think people in general is to find out what you like doing find out What you want to be good at and keep doing it be competent at something a big reason why people have such a they have such a Horrible like feeling when someone leaves them when someone goes away is because they don't feel important anymore They placed a lot of importance on that person and then when they leave they don't have that anymore But if you already have something that you place importance on that you're good at that you're doing that you're passionate about a career Or maybe you're you're good at a sport or whatever it is Have something that you're doing That's your purpose that you're that you're on and at the end of the day Even if a woman or whoever leaves you that's gonna be the most important thing in your life And so it's not gonna be that big of a deal. You're gonna be able to move on a lot easier Okay, and the third and final thing is have options You know you probably thought that I was gonna put this first because I talk about having options with women all the time And as a dating channel and I've definitely been there before where I've tried to you know sleep with a bunch of women to get over another girl and It can help for the short term You can feel fun. You can feel good in the moment But usually after they leave after they go, you know, they go home or whatever You're back to the way you felt before and sometimes you can feel even worse So I recommend that for the first two things that those are the most important and the third one is obviously having options You know, it's not gonna be that big of a deal for girl leaves you if you have a lot of other girls that you can talk to as well too that are interested in you That's typically what happens is that you know guys just want to go out and they want to replace the girl that left them Well, that's gonna be pretty hard, especially if you had strong feelings for that girl You're probably not gonna find a girl as good as her immediately like 99% chance You're not going to but if you improve yourself in the future, you may and so having options sticking to yourself Going after your goals your purpose spending time with your friends and family All of those things are gonna really help you move on and if you have a good foundation of that Then you're not gonna have too many problems when it comes to ditching a girl who's giving you a huge headache And too many guys because they're not in a good position are pursuing women that just aren't interested in them And that's like one of the neediest most low-value lucid things that you can do So have a good foundation guys, and if you're wondering how to get that Send me an email the single guy 2017 at gmail.com you probably a good Candidate for my coaching program. I have a few spots opening up for that right now So send me an email a little bit about yourself your age your name Where you're from where your goals are with women and we'll see if we can work something out So also too I came out with a new Facebook group Which is gonna be for all guys that are serious get a community of people that you can talk to on I respond to questions faster there and I'm ready to keeping up with it So thanks a lot for watching you guys if you made anything consider subscribing. Good luck out there