 and some people you can lead by example and they still won't come to the table. Appreciation is one of the most critical factors for a solid commitment with one another and coming back to shared passions is that you appreciate doing these things together. You want to do it with this partner. Hopefully that is the case. And lastly, acceptance. You know, there's an old saying, men marry women hoping they don't change and women marry men hoping they do change. I think that illustrates now, I think that's mostly related to their physical body or something a lot or their, well, actually, no, that's true. I think for men, it's like the idea that it's the physical body of the woman and for a woman, it's the emotional IQ of a man. But what that illustrates is a lack of accepting a person.