 I'm not saying that's that happens every single time but I do believe and I've heard from many men who feel a sense of frustration when they're in the friend zone. Men who are in the friend zone are trying to get their way out of the friend zone. So what they sometimes do is over given the relationship and the woman is going, I like receiving so that's great. I don't think that's a very fair thing to do to someone. If someone genuinely likes you and wants to explore a relationship with you and that's not what you want and keep in mind real love is when two people love each other and then want to find out if he's married. Oh yeah that would be number one. You know maybe just saying you know I would say would you like to go out for coffee sometime?