 So this upper and lower energy guys Does that make sense? It's like it's like a tree that has foliage and birds and flowers And it's a great masculine energy and you need to learn more of that. That's good. Toastmasters Learn how to be more funny as I bet but if it isn't counterbalance with the roots that go down low Which is your your dark forest your mystique Your desire to bend the world Over if women can't feel that from you if if women can't feel listen you you're cute and your girlfriend's cute I like you And we're like to know your names I would like to meet you again, and if you come near me I'm gonna bend you over that's true, and you're gonna like it if they can't feel that You're a nice guy They need to feel that energy that they need to feel I'll say this and it's not politically correct This one camera is true But take the context of what I'm saying the whole thing if they can't feel your danger the dangerous part of you They'll let you go down on them They'll date you They don't last after you you understand I'm saying They don't think about you like speaking Chinese when you're in their head, and that's the only place to go So all the things like we say well listen I'm gonna talk to this girl, and I'm gonna say this I'm gonna put my shoulders like this and then I'm gonna turn The way like this and go back All that is is a is an approximation of like a real man saying you know what I'm nervous But I want to come say hi you and what's your name? What's your friend's name, and I like you, and I don't know why We compliment a girl on her eyes. How are you or her hair? Oh, you have this beautiful blah blah blah this nice guy Right, right, and then we learn can't do that you can't compliment because it's too needy So we stopped doing that And so we started like knocking them down a bit Right I compliment highly But you know what I complimented women on and it's the truth because the truth is what I see I don't compliment on her eyes She's heard it all her life for her hair or whatever I said Because what I'm attracted to is the energy of a woman and the way she moves She wearing a dress in the way that dress moves around her body, and I compliment that if you guys want to change your Relationship with women compliment her energy. So you know what I'm saying this to you. I don't know who you are I'm Zan you have a great. There's something about you. I was over there with my friends. I Had to come over and say hi to you because something about your energy something about your aura. It's incredible She's never been complimented on that before And that's what it is that's attracted to you or the attractives you I'll say this last thing and then I can take a couple questions. I got a few minutes I said I started out my life to try and understand the energy of men Who women adore? Men who have women in lives all the time women take care of them. They just they love them, right? You know what it is the number one? Well, it's complex, but I'll I'll try and some into a little simple thing the men of all of history Who have women in their lives who love them and take care of them have two qualities