 Some people say, they always say, words hurt. That's what they say. You gotta watch what you say, because words hurt. You know, anybody that says words hurt has never been punched in the face. The words themselves don't hurt. It's how you choose to internalize them. English is the only language I speak and sometimes I don't even speak that very well. If you, let's just say you speak a different language. Let's say you speak Mandarin. If you just said something disparaging to me in Mandarin, I had to have no idea what you say. So those words would not hurt me in the slightest because I can't even interpret what you just said. Especially if you said them with a smile and a friendly tone, you could say something incredibly disrespectful. I would have no clue. Because it's you who puts the meaning to it. Take their words, take away the value of the words and drop them to the floor. If you take that away, they fall to the ground. They never get to touch you. They are nothing.