 I'm single, I'm such a loser, I'll never be happy, and I'll never be able to serve God. Yeah these are three lies that singles need to stop believing. Hey guys what's up, welcome back to the channel today, as I said we're talking about three lies that singles need to stop believing. I'm single and I sometimes believe these lies and I need to stop and you need to stop if you're single too and I think we can all grow from this and continue to follow Christ as we seek to. Yeah honor God with our singleness so let's jump into three lies that you need to stop believing if you're single. The first lie is that you'll never be happy when you're single. Only true happiness comes when you're in a relationship. Dude stop believing this, you're wasting your life. You know you can get into space like oh I'll only be happy when this, I'll only be happy when I get a you know a secure job, I'll only be happy when I you know have a girlfriend or a boyfriend, I'll never be happy until I finally retire, I'll never be happy until I have kids, I'll never be happy until stop, just stop. God didn't create you to just lazy around or just you know just like get ready okay I'm almost gonna be married soon okay a couple more years hopefully it'll happen, hopefully it happened and then eventually it happens and then just like God's like okay you did it okay now your life can start I got all these plans for you that I've just been waiting on because you haven't been married unfortunately so God's like okay I'm just gonna you know you're gonna be happy now that's not the way it works that's not the way it works and for me yeah it could be easy to think you know what when I have somebody that's just like you know loves me and I love them and you know it'll be fun and it'll be you know happy and joyful and I'm not saying that time of your life isn't gonna be happy and joyful or maybe more so than this time of your life maybe but what I'm saying is don't discount this side of your life this part where you're single right because we can get in this space like oh my goodness you know I got nobody man I'm just kind of on my own and just kind of boring and lonely and sad but dude there's stuff to do there is things that when you're single are awesome okay when you can just like do things without having to talk to anybody about what plans you're making if you're just like I want to do this tonight and maybe you know you just do it and you just go and that's fun I think a big piece to this is actually realizing that look all the happiness doesn't come once you're in a relationship it can actually be found you can find joy here in midst of being single and once you realize that I think there's a lot of places that you begin to see oh look hey this is kind of fun this is really enjoyable and you can actually begin to enjoy the season of your life as opposed to just be like I can't wait till I'm engaged or dating or married or all this kind of thing because when you are you're gonna be able to look back or you're going to look back on this time you're gonna be and think I take advantage of that time that though that flexibility that I had that just that kind of autonomy that I was just able to do different things did I take advantage of that you want to be able to say yes I took advantage of that and you know I enjoyed this time lie number two I wait that's a three lie number two is that you can really only serve God when you're in a relationship like God is just you know like I said he's just waiting he's just okay getting Isaac come on get in the relationship man come on I've been waiting for so long I had so many plans for you so many areas where I'm gonna use you but you need to be in a relationship that's not true like yeah God's gonna have different things for me and for you when we're in relationship but that doesn't mean that God doesn't have stuff for you right now areas and opportunities that he wants you to serve areas and places where you can just dedicate your skill to and benefiting whatever it is ministries churches just individual outreach evangelism there's so many areas that as a single person you can just thrive in and yes when you're married or dating and there's other cool opportunities and fun things that you can do and areas where you can serve God and things that he'll call you to but he is calling you to things right now but by you only looking forward and I can't wait till I get married then I'll be looking to God and be like okay what's next God do that now start looking to God now what does he have for you now let's go to lie number three that singles need to stop believing that you are a loser loser is that right is it's in the camera no is it I'm dyslexic I do not know okay anyway you are the loser if you are single as I was thinking about the three you know cuz everything needs to work in threes if I were to say two lies that you need to stop believing as a single you wouldn't click on this video but if I said three then it was like oh you totally click on that video so I had to think of a third thing and so I was just like racking my brain what are some lies that I believe and actually when it came down to it I was like I kind of think I'm a loser sometimes when I'm like yeah I don't I'm not in a relationship it's kind of a loser status it's so done that we think that way because it's so not true it's so not true there are million reasons that you might not be in a relationship well you know what would be more of a loser status is to just get in a relationship without really being committed to it or really actually feeling like it's the right thing to do and so I think we gotta like really start combating these lies that we have in our own hearts that oh man I'm a loser if I don't have a relationship man and maybe some other people can make you feel that way too if maybe they're in relationships or maybe parents or you know relatives would be like are you in a relationship yet no no but nothing yet like that can make you feel kind of like a loser but I want to just encourage you you're not a loser it's okay to not be in a relationship you know what God's timing is perfect and if you're not in a relationship right now that is okay right and maybe God's preparing you to be in relationship soon and you're just kind of building towards that maybe it's gonna be a while and maybe he just wants you to just flourish in the places that you are right now as a single person and that's awesome that is so cool you're not a loser and I'm saying that to myself as much as anybody else because I need to hear that well this was a three lies that singles need to stop believing if you have any other lies or have some additional comments on the lies I had talked about in this video leave a comment down below with your thoughts give this video a like if you enjoyed it and got something from it and be sure to subscribe because I'm putting new videos like this out all the time so I'd love you to be a part of the community thanks for watching guys and I'll see you next 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