 Yeah, it's not like I'm saying, okay, here's the self and I make a diagram and it's look It's a holograph and look there's a bit of you inside of me and me inside of you and we're all evolving together and but I think the utility of of articulating an intersubjective interbecoming interbeing Model is that it validates the logic of the heart because in the hearts we understand that we're not separate we understand that our Personal interactions and our invisible choices are significant That every action has an effect that the person before me is important even if my Received causal logic logic based on Newtonian forces Cannot explain why is it important to visit my mother and sit with her day after day as she's going through the dying process Like the mind of separation does not understand that like well, she's gonna die anyway You know, I should spend my time with the kids if I want to have an effect on the future No one's gonna know ever what words were spoken between me and my mother in those moments the logic that our minds have have absorbed Growing up and being educated in what's still a Newtonian paradigm that logic Does not allow for the hearts knowing that this is the most important thing I could be doing right now So the purpose of this of this philosophy, I think is to end the war between the mind and the heart because when we have this model this other story then It validates what the heart knows So the heart's Communication to the mind is through the emotions through the feelings especially the feeling of care the feeling of love and And it's hard to listen to that sometimes because sometimes it contradicts the logic of separation it could be for example a generous act and The mind's like well hold on I'm not gonna be okay if I do that I can't afford to do that that's irrational that person's just gonna use the money to get drunk anyway Etc etc and maybe they will and maybe they won't and how do you know that that maybe that gesture of? Yeah, go get yourself a drink. Maybe that is that is a violation of that person's world Where everybody's in it for themselves. That is a seed that someday sprouts into Rehabilitation like we don't know how do we know this world is so Complex do we even do we have any possible way of knowing and I think the answer is yes we have a holistic organ that is an organ of a Vast orchestrating intelligence. It's it's a communicating organ So it receives all of this information and then you know through all of its Hormones and things it sends messages and peptides, you know, it sends messages out through the body but it's it's a listening organ integrating all that is happening and communicating it to our minds