 My longest relationship, maybe like a month, the one that really comes to mind she chose me and I think that's probably has been a repeating pattern. Those kind of instances in my life or what really prompted me to finally make the call to Jordan, check it out just to see what it was all about. I did have hesitations before coming here. I mean it was a big chunk of money and in the weeks leading up to it I just kept thinking to myself I could just handle this myself why do I have to go all the way down to LA to pay this bunch of money use this time and just you know get ridiculed ridiculed from friends and be judged. I could just keep slogging through listening to podcasts and just being a social scientist myself but I figured I wanted to work smarter and not harder. I wanted to come here take care of this because I got other things I got to deal with in my life too. I think one of my issues in the past has been is that I've hesitated be it about approaching a girl or a larger decision in my life and I've kind of changed my mind and they teach you in school all the time that when you're doing a multiple choice test well if you pick B you got to stick with it because if you go if you go back it's probably wrong so I just I just stuck with my decision. This week has been great just being able to the best part is just being able to find out about myself. Our second video exercise I was sitting there looking at the couch sorry I was sitting on the couch looking at myself and I couldn't believe that that was me up there I was looking pretty confident and it just I guess it gave me a good confidence boost knowing that I've made a great strides since my first video work and just learning a lot from you coaches. I mean this course is about picking up girls like like Jordan says but there is just so much more than that. The stuff that I'm using here I already use just walking to the grocery store you know talking to people making them smile giving them value this is a skill that sure some people may be naturals at but the people that you see as naturals they've had a lot of experience they've talked to a lot of women and they've they probably failed a lot a lot more than they've succeeded if you have if we don't have that experience you can kind of slowly get there yourself really pain painfully but if you if you have a guide like AOC to guide you and put you on a path so you can work smarter and not harder why not do that just invest in yourself it's just money what you can't buy back is time you know what you can you should do is talk to Jordan talk to talk to talk to the guys in the program have a have a chat they'll tell you what it's all about and maybe even hook you up with some other alumni if you don't believe me I can't emphasize enough that you got to do this program