 If she smiles at you, it's interest. If she starts asking you for help, that's interest. Requesting help is another great sign of interest, yeah? Like, oh, could you help me out? My purse has come off my wrist or whatever. Oh, my shoelaces need untie. I don't know what the fuck girls need help with. Whatever they need help with, they are the things. They're the key elements. They're gonna help you out with that. You know, another good, if a girl whispers to you, do you know that's a really good sign? If you're talking to a girl, you know, how many of you guys like, I can't hear what the girl's saying. And so they're like, so you know, so I'm gonna lean in. Like, I much prefer leaning back and then saying to them, dude, I can't hear you, come back closer. And the girl moves into you and she whispers. If she will come close to you and whisper, that's a great sign. You know why whispering feels good? This is another thing when I'm from body language. This is absolutely great. So check this. Your ear has three bones in it, for those of you guys that don't know that. Those bones used to be part of your jaw, right? When you were a reptile, slash fish, slash, never worked, reptile. You had these, these, and what they would use is reptiles sent vibrations in the ground with their jaw. And so these bones would vibrate and let them know what was around. And then it became a lot more efficient to just move them up into our ears, add an amplifier over it or whatever and pick in sound and send sound vibrations instead of ground vibrations. Are you all with me so far? Did I lose anybody in that? I'm not good at teaching anatomy or whatever, but that's basically how it works. So, have you ever noticed that when someone strokes you, it feels good? Thank God for that. And when, because that would freak me out. After the whole, the guy that couldn't tell if a guy was smiling, she was stroking me to irritate me. I'd be like, dude, we're in trouble. Yeah, it feels good. But if someone punches you, it doesn't feel as good. It's a harsh hit. Well, in the ear, if you whisper to somebody, it's a gentle vibration. It feels good. If you scream in someone's ear, that's like a punch, it's the equivalent. So these sound vibrations, it's a big deal. If a girl is willing to whisper, she's triggering that in you. And if you're whispering back to her, she's allowing you to trigger it into her. You know how you'll know that it doesn't work? She will move the fuck away and will not let you whisper in her ear. No, you'll find that, thank you very much. Keep talking from there, at distance. I can hear you. I can lip read at you. I don't even need to hear what you're saying. I'm not even listening. I don't even care. That's what she'll do if she does not want to talk to you. If she wants to talk, she will accommodate, she will listen. Now here's the fun one. And this is the best. You ever heard that three signs a girl likes you and that's it, you're in or whatever? That's not necessarily so true. When you start to see these things, you'll notice that what happens is they increase in frequency. And so what happens is you can literally, you can almost time it and you can be like, oh, there's a sign. Oh, there's another sign. Oh, there's another sign. And another one, and another one, and another one. And as the pace of these signs increase, the girl is more and more attracted to you. You'll see her knee will move close to you and try to make contact. She'll try and touch you. She'll lean in, she'll listen more. She'll flick her hair behind her ear. She'll smile, she'll laugh at the wrong moment. All of these signs start throwing at you and they speed up. If you do not do anything about it, when they start speeding up, you know what happens? The momentum goes, they slow down again. And you just missed out on that opportunity. Maybe you can build it up again and build it back up. If you don't, you miss out on that opportunity. That is how this shit works. I've sat there with one of my instructors analyzing this. We just watch it and I'm like, watch on the clock. She's roughly every 20 seconds at the moment. And you see it, tick, tick, tick. Just ticks over one after the other. And then I'm like, oh shit, it's speeding up. That was like 10 seconds there. This guy better make a move. And then you'll see me. I walk by, I've got like the app blurb. You guys seen the app? So much fun for teaching. It's like a scrolling banner across your phone. And I'm like sneaking behind the girl, trying to get the student to see it. And it's like, escalate now, fucking now. And I'm like trying. And then the girl looks at me and I'm like, oh my god. Yeah, that picture was so good. Now, motherfucker, escalate, fucking do it. Oh, that's a good picture. What do you think of the picture, man? It's so good. I'm like, dude, stand over there. Let me take a picture of you. Now, now. And of course, the student didn't see it. He doesn't escalate. And then the girl, you see her. She starts losing interest. And you know what happens then?