 Does the narcissist miss you? Do they feel regret or sadness at no longer being able to enjoy your presence? Do they notice your absence? This has more to do with them and their feelings Than it does to do with you. They do not miss your personality or who you are as a person They do not miss your characteristic traits or qualities They miss how you made them feel during the love-bombing phase They displayed a false character to you You gave them your attention and your admiration This made them feel desirable or attractive It made them feel as though they were worth something as Though their false self actually existed you validated their false self and The illusion that they portrayed This made them feel good about themselves. It had nothing to do with you as a person It had nothing to do with how they felt about you It was all about them and how they felt about themselves They were just using you to regulate their emotions To regulate their self-worth self-esteem and self-importance You were nothing more than an object Which they used to serve their own agenda their own needs They didn't see you as anything more than that During the devaluation phase They abused you Emotionally mentally psychologically and Sometimes even physically or sexually They targeted your self-esteem They made you feel as though you could never be good enough for them or anyone else They made you feel as though you couldn't do anything right They projected their insecurities onto you while they were abusing you and Denying that they were doing anything wrong or shifting the blame onto you Gaslighting you Making you question your own memory perception and sanity They had control and influence over you Their behavior had a strong effect on your thoughts and feelings This made them feel as though their false self existed It made them feel as though there was something significant to you It made them feel powerful It was all about how you made them feel They used you like an object and pushed your buttons To make them feel however they wanted to feel They didn't appreciate or respect your personality or who you were as a person They didn't appreciate or respect your characteristic traits or qualities So how could they ever miss anything about you? It was about their feelings They cannot mention or refer to your feelings They don't even care about how you feel. It was all about them It was all about how they felt They miss how you made them feel They miss what you did for them They miss what you gave to them When they needed you You were always there You genuinely cared about them and wanted to help them This is a very potent source of supply for the narcissist If they needed something done If they needed someone to take care of them You were always there You provided them with amusement or enjoyment You gave them your time and energy You paid for meals You bought them gifts You gave them money You were affectionate with them This is what they remember This is what they miss They feel regret or sadness At no longer being able to have these privileges These special rights or advantages That they no longer have It has nothing to do with you as a person They miss how you made them appear in front of other people The impression that you presented to the public How you improved their image They have to display this false deceptive appearance Of being impressive or imposing in appearance or style It makes people notice them and admire them It makes people look at them as something impressive or attractive It regulates their emotions And boosts their self-worth, self-esteem and self-importance But it had nothing to do with them appreciating Or respecting you as a person You are nothing more than an object Which they use to fulfill their need for narcissistic supply They don't miss you They don't miss your personality Or who you are as a person They don't miss your characteristic traits or qualities They miss how you made them feel They miss what you did for them They miss what you gave to them And they miss how you made them appear in front of other people Thank you for watching I hope this video resonated with you Please like, comment, share and subscribe Click the bell icon to receive notifications of my future videos If you would like to donate My PayPal link is in the video description Coaching inquiries you can email me At narcovercoaching at gmail.com Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon