 jewelry. We've all made our fair share of hits and misses when it comes to decorating our bodies. I used to have an entire cabinet of jewelry where nothing inside costs more than five bucks including this wooden owl. I wore this literally all the time. So a couple of years ago when I finally walked by a mirror I guess I kicked the whole OVO knockoff and the rest of the whole buy one get eight free collection to the curb and since then I pretty much wore nothing but a nose ring and studs in my ears. Which is fine but I'm actually a woman who loves jewelry. There is something so divine about adorning yourself with rings and precious jewels and metals from the earth. Decorating your face like Christmas is every day is just the shit to me. So the next stop on my sensual journey was to up my jewelry game. So I found myself a jeweler who understands the simplicity in femininity and because shopping is dull by yourself I brought along my best friend. Say hi Tav. Now I also want you to meet this woman. My name is Desiree Gerlotto and I'm the owner and designer behind Arm Jewelry. Jewelry is women as chicken as to waffles. Both are good separately but when they are together it is a perfect complimentary of savory and sweet and I think women are amazing on their own but with jewelry it's just perfect. So I haven't like essentially worn jewelry in a long time. I don't wear necklaces. I basically just keep it very stable with like a watch and stuff but I really wanted something that was like feminine and in the way. Feminine and in the way. Yeah got you. Well I'm thinking we do a body piece and I'm thinking we do a hand piece for you and then also a leg piece. When you wear jewelry and when I put together a piece I really like to think of the materials. I really want there to be a certain weight to it and a certain feel to it. I like really want to pick something up and like it feel how it's gonna feel. So I think when when put on piece of jewelry first of all it's very visually pleasing but at the same time it becomes like an extension of your body so you want to be able to like move with it. When you put on a pair of earrings or you put on a necklace or a body piece it now becomes a part of your movement and like I when I watch like the Victoria's Secret Runway show and then you see them wearing those like huge huge wings it's like it puts a different step in your walk you know and I think when when you wear a body piece that like has weight to it you're like it's kind of like your armor and you're just like putting it on and you're like going out there and you're like this is who I am. How are you liking that? That is really nice isn't it? Is that right where it should be? Should it be on the bone or? I think I kind of like it there it kind of looks really nice it's like a really beautiful like separation between the two. I think people are too cautious. People are too cautious. People come in the store all the time they're really drawn to a piece and they're like oh my god I love it it's beautiful to try it on they'll like get really involved with it and then their last closing statement is I don't know where I'd wear this and I'm like girl like today's your day like I'm not sure if you're waiting for that wedding like in six months like break out the fine china tonight today because like you don't have tomorrow and my whole motto is like live for right now I mean if you're waiting for a moment to wear jewelry I'm confused like why not go tomorrow to brunch with a headpiece on because like it's very obvious that you can wear this jewelry with a special event or you can wear it fancy but wearing it casually is the best way to do it because no one's expecting it and at that point you're just like you raise the level of who you are on like an every day so I think when women come in here and they're like when would I wear this I'm like you should wear it tonight walking out of the store because like that's the best time to do it. Stephanie I left the store officially armed ready to explore more of my sensuality to me is the idea of being present and engaging with all your senses really understanding and knowing who you are and being able to pick up on things that may not be at surface level but digging deeper and really finding how that makes you feel. My new jewelry makes me feel like I know what I'm doing I think more precisely though it gives me the confidence that I know exactly what I'm doing to you. My body chain is my boldness it dares you to stare at my boobs it encourages you to trace my waistline and dives into your greatest fantasies. My leg chain now this is my mystery where did it come from how does it attach what does it feel like my hand chain is my confidence look at me watch me follow me touch me and fun fact in addition to my armed custom ring bracelet I'm also wearing six hoop earrings from Target that I stunt double as rings. I love how the body's always evolving and it's constantly maturing into something that you couldn't have expected that's the best part about it your body never stays the same I think your your evolution of your own beauty is found out each day and it's just nice to play on your strengths of that time.