 And if you don't heal what hurt you, you'll bleed on people that didn't cut you in the first place. I've done that in my life and I've had it done to me and I think we've all got to figure out where this lands for us. And beware the tendency to live, speak, react, make decisions, make choices. When you're in a wounded, open, wounded condition, it's not going to be a good outcome. Wait, heal, learn, grow. That's the book we want to read. That's the voice we want to counsel us. That's the wisdom we're looking for. It's from people that have allowed it to become a massive act of service to the rest of us that are going through stuff and need someone ahead of us to say, I went through that too. Here's what I learned. Pass it on to us.