 Hi, she was seven. I'm back. Okay, so women y'all gotta stop They'll have to stop Stop what? Giving men money if you give men money you lost Your you just lost you lost the game you lost your power You lost everything if you give a man money you lost straight up you lost Why because now he's your child, okay? Now you're his mother Okay, you cannot give men money. I'm sorry. You can't give them a loan You can't let them borrow money. You can't give them money Because you want them to stay with you. No You can give them a gift card for their birthday or Christmas, but that's about it Women who are given men money. You're making a huge mistake that you're gonna regret later on I Have so many people writing me talking about how they gave their ex Money or paid for this or gave him that and then they broke up and now they can't get their money back And they're just upset distraught betrayed what that's your fault because you gave him money, okay? Women don't give men money. Okay. It's supposed to be the other way around if you were not smart enough To know that I understand we all make mistakes, but don't repeat the process over and over, okay? For example, this was a learning experience if that happened to you if you gave a man money and he left you Didn't pay you back moved on. That's a learning lesson. That means no don't ever do that again ever so if You're in this situation and you're focused on getting your money back You're focused on the wrong thing, okay? You need to be focused on learning the lesson at hand and Understanding how you got played And why you got played and why you can't do this or repeat this ever again If you ever want to be taking taken seriously as a woman, okay? So ladies, I know a lot of people will say oh, well, we don't all look, you know We're not all beautiful. We're not all this and we're not all that so we have to do it We have to do to keep our men, but that's not true, okay? The type of men that you're going for are the type of men who require you to pay Change your type. Okay. There are plenty of men who will date you go out with you without you having to give them anything Okay, same for men men. There are plenty of women who will date you without you having to give them anything, okay? The problem lies within what we're attracted to, okay? Men are attracted to women that want money Women are attracted to men who are not in their league the same as men who are attracted to women They're not in their league. Okay, we all know this. This is where The balance comes in, you know, if you know The man you're with Can do better than you and you said giving him money Expect never to see that money again Expect him to not care when he breaks up with you and that I expect that okay Men if you're dating a woman who's way out of your league and you're giving her everything and but you don't have enough to sustain or Maintain her but you know, you're giving and giving and giving but you don't have enough to maintain There's a difference women of some women will use you even though you don't have much and some women won't even Entertain you because they don't want to take from you because they know you don't have much Okay, and there are some guys who will Say well, I want this person. I need this person so bad I do all these things for her and she still cheats on me or goes and sees other guys because she's draining you and she doesn't see How you can keep up? Okay a lot of women Feel guilty or feel bad about taking things from men who they know cannot afford the things that they like So they will start to see another man who can and then eventually leave that like Leave that person who was struggling to you know, keep up with you know a little designer handbags or Nice shoes or you know carnotes because it was putting a strain on them and the relationship. Okay, so men it's not that women are Evil and you know out for your wallet. It's just that Some women just like lifestyle and they need a man who can provide it for them. Okay, it's not it's nothing personal and For example, I know a few women that I talked to I'm never gonna name names But they have these great guys, but they just they're just upset because these guys can't do things for them They can't they don't take their career or life serious enough to like be a go-getter and you know Climb up that ladder or start their own business or start getting money, you know They're focused more on going out hanging out friends and da da da and Meanwhile You have all these older gentlemen or men with more money Constantly hitting on women every day saying hey, I got what you want, you know, let's go. Let's go for a trip Meanwhile, you know, you're with your boyfriend who's struggling But you love him he's cute da da da, but you have also this other man over there saying hey I'm gonna take you to Paris, you know, or I want to Take you away for the weekend. If you know if you if you're not on that level, you know I want to take you away for the weekend to you know Wherever wherever doesn't have to be Paris gonna be to the beach, you know So you're having like all these things in her ear and then you know The guy has no clue. He's just like I just want to hang up my friend to be happy But meanwhile the girl is looking at you. It's like he doesn't take life. Seriously. He just want to hang out You don't want to he's not about that life, you know, I want this lifestyle So a woman will Leave that guy and the guy who has it, you know Even if they're the same age doesn't have to be an older guy It's just the guy who has more potential and tangible assets is where the women go now some women Okay, I don't say all women because not all women are materialistic Women place their value for like women love differently. Okay, some women love what you could do for them how you can make their lives better some women love you because You say they I mean some women love you because they just love you and and no matter what you do No matter how much you bring them down, they're not gonna go anywhere No matter how many times you cheat on them. They're not going to work Okay, there are those type of women and that's the type of women most guys are looking for But the sad thing is those type of women have low self-esteem They're mentally imbalanced and They don't understand when they're being exploited, okay, so If you're one of those type of women they call them ride or die If you're one of those type of women who will stick with a man after they have dragged you down, you know Taking your money Cheated on you Have you living, you know poor and all that stuff? That's a mental problem. That's not a ride or die. That's called mental problem That means you don't value yourself Same thing with men men if you have a woman who's constantly dragging you down make you lose your job All your friends you're broke. You got to go back home live with your mama That's not that's not right either, you know if she's gonna be draining you if she's gonna bring you take you backwards She's not good for you, you know, you might as well release her To go find someone who she can drain without bringing them backwards in life, you know a lot of people Will drain someone that doesn't have anything, you know, they will say oh, I'm gonna I want to get with this guy He'll give me anything I want, but the guy doesn't have anything and he's draining his assets, you know Losing things running up his credit. Don't do that If you don't have to spend don't spend get a girl that doesn't want that same thing with ladies ladies If you have a man Our boyfriend, you know that you can't You know splurge with go all out, you know the lifestyle that you're used to don't date him Don't drain him, you know go find someone to train and then you know Don't drain the people that don't have it that's the whole point a lot of people get mad about gold diggers, but Most real gold diggers the ones that go for the real money. They don't drink They don't try to get money off the little, you know people with the nine to five jobs and stuff like that They go for the millionaires The very rich guys that don't mind spending money So if you think you're gold digging ladies and you're gold digging somebody that works at Sears, you're not gold digging Okay, what you're doing is just draining someone who is probably thirsty and Will give you the time of day until they were not a money So you don't want that and ladies don't give money to men because they're draining you. Okay, I Have so many people writing me wall. How do I get my ex back? How do I get my ex back? They're your ex for a reason you should move on and if you really want them back They're not gonna want to come back to the same thing. You've got to change you got to change something You got to be better than you were when they left you for them to even want you back So stop looking at the ex and look at yourself and say, okay, I'm gonna make him regret leaving me What can I do, you know a lot of that's when a lot of women like hit the gym lose weight get a new hair Color hairdo new job new friends Travel that's when they do all that stuff and then when their ex finds out or sees them they're like, oh, man I want her back Because you're different Okay, you're not the same person that they left you're just new Reinvented version better version of yourself and exes tend to come back to women who have Done Better, you know what I'm saying? So if you're still the same person he left the nagging You know a person that left in the same position the same outlook online. He left you because you were that Okay, so you have to change yourself for the better Not for him but for you as well, you know Because most of the time you're gonna meet someone better than the ex that you want back And then you're not even gonna want that ex back because you have improved yourself for the better, you know And it has nothing to do with money people live Average poor rich every day. It's how you value yourself what you will accept and what you won't accept You can be the poorest of the poor, but you don't have to accept How men treat you or how women treat you? It's up to you to allow them to treat you like that Okay, the whole point of the video is Don't don't underestimate your own value by giving other people too much and you don't get anything in return Okay Even if it's time or attention like for example If a woman met a man who has a lot of money He's trading his money for her time. Okay, a lot of people say well, that's prostitution. No, it's not Because she could be with anybody else for free But this man over here knows look I can't get no woman that looks like that To give me the time of day if I if I don't have money and that's what I like pretty women And so just the same as a car, you know, I know I can't get this nice sports car and drive around if I don't have money Yeah, I can go drive this car over here and nobody's gonna pay attention to me or look at me in it But if I got this nice sports car over here, you know, that's what I like So it's all about preference, you know, men know who gold diggers are they don't mind them Okay, so all you may who are complaining about gold diggers. This is not for you Gold diggers are not even paying attention to you because you don't have any real money Okay, the real gold diggers are the ones who know that these guys don't mind Okay, if you mind if you mind and you don't want to be with a gold digger Don't worry. You're not a target because you're worried. That's that's that's clue number one that you're not a target for a gold digger Okay, if you're worried about money because real Millionaires thousand years whatever you call Men that have constant money flowing in they don't worry about that. They're just like, okay Well, you get whatever you like, baby. Get whatever you want. What do you want? What do you want? What do you like? They're not like, oh, she's gonna drain me of all my money. I'm worried or that's not a man with real money Okay, so if you're worried about Being exploited like that You're not even messing with a gold digger. You're messing with an amateur woman who is just trying to drain Anything that's not a gold digger. Okay gold digger go for gold. You don't have gold You know not real gold anyway. You got fools gold Basically, so you're dealing with amateurs if they're after you to drain you Okay, and I don't blame a lot of guys for saying I'm not gonna pay for this this net because This girl's just trying to drain me. She's not seriously trying to date Okay If you don't have any real money if you're not driving a luxury nice car if you have to worry about money every time Go to the gas station or you know to the grocery store or whatever Then you're not a target for gold diggers. Okay. I'm just saying and a lot of men will get up on my Facebook or Not my Facebook the comments and say well, I make this this is much a year And I don't do this this and that yeah, right? Whatever if you make that much you wouldn't be sitting here on YouTube Getting upset at women who like the finer things in life because obviously you like the finer things in life, too, okay? Real men are out working trading stocks bonds buying real estate taking women out to eat Going to dates with women And stuff like that. They're not sitting on YouTube getting mad at women who like nice things. Okay, they're just not they're not getting mad They're not on here. So if you're commenting, I don't trust you I don't believe you that you have anything because most men that I know that have money are not trolling My videos, okay? They're too busy with more important things. Okay, and they find it hilarious that men get upset about that, you know, they're like That's just funny. Ha ha can't imagine. Okay, so I Know a couple people right now who I'm help who I've helped who are dating rich men dating millionaires Because like I have done a few Consulting phone calls and we've talked I've led them They're dating millionaires now. They left losers Da da da and no offense to people that don't have a lot of money But this is just what they want. This is just what these women want and I and I do help them get to that point Okay, even if they're not millionaires, even if they just have you know a half a million dollars still that's a good lifestyle, you know so These women these type of women that consult me they know what they want, okay? Then I have other women consulting me About men who aren't doing anything for them and they're asking me for advice and sometimes I can't Really give them the advice because I my only advice is to leave them and to find a man that can benefit you because if you're if you're so bent on helping someone and helping someone and helping someone who can't Ever be helped you're wasting your life your time your youth your years your beauty on someone who's not Ever gonna be what you want them to be so I always suggest moving on Getting rid of excess baggage that does not benefit you or enhance your life in any way get rid of it You don't need it. You want suffering you want to help you want a project You want a charity case and that's exactly what you're gonna get. Yeah, that's gonna be your whole life, you know so if you're a strong woman who knows what they want and You're smart enough to go for it go for it and ladies You don't need a man to be happy in life either, you know Shoot, you know, there's plenty of women who got married divorced and like that was not for me. I am done I just want to be free and fun. Okay. Good. There's lots of women who you know Feel like if they don't have a man, they're they're no one and that's good, too Because they're very dependent and they need someone to depend on and you know They meet the right type of man who also needs a woman been perfect But you don't need a man a man. You don't need a woman But it's fun. It's fun to date fun to have, you know fun together Fun to have fun together. How many times I said fun? It's entertaining. Okay, so if you're gonna be with the opposite sex, and you're gonna be with the same sex It doesn't matter. Make sure it's benefiting you in some way and not draining you, okay? That's the whole point of a relationship You know if if a man has all this money and this woman is shopping and spending his money And he has more coming in continuously He's not being drained. He's not being drained because he doesn't worry about it because he has so much But if this woman is trying to drain this man who lives paycheck to paycheck That's a problem and ladies don't go for those type of guys Because you're just gonna hurt them. They're gonna make them angry. They're gonna turn into MGTOW and Bash you because you stole their little paycheck. So please don't do that Go for the men that don't mind spending. Okay, don't force people with nothing to make something out of nothing You can't do that. Okay, you gotta put your eye on a bigger prize Okay, ladies and men same thing Don't try to get women. That's out of your league You know, they're gonna want to spend money because that's what they're used to and if you can't keep up Then you need to go and find someone in your own league. I know a lot of guys are gonna get on here. What I do Whatever, okay, young women under under 23 don't count. Okay, those are they're very vulnerable They'll make mistakes. They're they're learning they're watching videos like this to learn how not to repeat the dumb mistakes that they've repeated I mean that they've done so Any woman over the age of 25 26 27 They already know not to mess with certain type of men because it leads to nothing in nowhere But you know Problems and if you've already made those mistake ladies You already made those mistakes Keep going. Don't worry about it. Just keep moving on from there, you know, do what you have to do You've already made those choices now deal with them Okay, so we all have to make decisions and Choices that are gonna affect our future. So don't lay down with anybody you wouldn't want to wake up to okay? Everyone. All right. I'll see you later. Bye