 Hello Virgos! We are back! Welcome back! Welcome back! Welcome back to my channel! This is Kelly from House of Virgo. You guys, I hope that you had the most amazing New Year's Eve, an amazing holiday season. And for those of you who were struggling to get through the holidays, I hope that you fared well. I know some of you probably had to deal with some family members that you didn't want to deal with, or maybe some of you didn't have anybody. My condolences, if you felt like you were alone through the holidays, I trust that 2022 is going to be a year of partnerships, harmony and peace. It's a 2-2-2 year, and especially with the year of the tiger coming in February, things are going to be on. And I feel like the overall message I'm just intuiting here is that everything is going to be okay. There's going to be peace. There's going to be a sense of things working out for you. Things in moderation, the number two is a number of balance, partnership, choices, can be opposition but also reflection and for some diversity. But I feel because it's a 2-2 that there will be an energy of equality and reciprocity. And I want to give you some reassurance that this year coming up for you guys, I know it's been difficult for everybody, but be hopeful. Be hopeful. Don't lose your desire and drive ergo because you know there's one sign in the zodiac that will be persevering and keep going and see things through. It's you guys. Okay? So happy holidays, happy new year. Thanks for all your patience and support and waiting. Bookings are now open and available. If you want to get a personal reading with me, there's a link in the description box below to do that. Also, if you want to be part of my sole tribe and join my channel, I've reduced the price to $9.99 per month. So those of you who recently joined at the $24.99 price, I reimbursed you all and we're back going to do starting in this month, $9.99. So all you'll have to do is just join and then once you join, I'm going to go live every week and do an answer and question where you can just ask anything you want and I'll pull cards and answer any questions that you might have and give you some messages regarding that. It'll be a lot of fun because it'll be live. So it's members only live chat. So you'll be able to watch the video but if you want to ask a question, you have to join. Alright you guys? So I'm so excited that I just can't hide it. Alright, let's take a look here. Please do hit like, share and subscribe on my channel. Thanks for hanging in there for the past two weeks. I'm truly grateful I came back and I actually wound up gaining more subscribers and just had so many views on the last video. I think it's up to like 30,000 which is totally awesome. Alright listen you guys, I got a new deck of cards called Love Oracle cards that I'm shuffling right here. I'll try to leave a link below so you can purchase these if you're interested but we're going to start with these now and see what the love messages, what drama might show up for you guys. Oh my goodness. Alright let's take a look. What's a spirit want? Virgos to know. Hello to all the moderators and everyone in the chat. Alright let's see. What messages spirit do you have for Virgo for January 2022? Okay. Healing heart. What did I just say? Healing from heartbreak. Freedom from toxic relationships or addictions. Beautiful. So there's just an energy here of somebody healing from some type of a heartbreak. Maybe in the past or something you're dealing with right now. Okay but you're finally in a place of freedom. If you were in a toxic relationship or you found yourself to become toxic in relationships or there's some type of an addiction issue or if somebody was addicted to another person and couldn't let go. That energy is happening here but it's not like toxic letting go. It's actually letting go and healing the heart which is amazing because you know there's people who do the toxic let go where you know sometimes it's like the let go out of revenge. They're angry and maybe people will post things and take the revenge out on social media or say nasty mean things and you know I'm not judging anybody here for doing anything like that. Some people just do the toxic let go where they give you the silent treatment. They don't explain themselves. They just abandon connections. The healing heart is like healing that energy where there's possibly apologies or there's some type of recovery in some sense after a great loss. There's even physical healing. If there was physical you felt physically affected or somebody became physically ill from a toxic relationship. This is a beautiful card to start out with. I hope Virgo that if you've had some kind of heartbreak or there's a divorce or a sense of loss or you're feeling depressed about anything just understand that there's recovery is coming. The healing is coming. This is basically like saying the three of swords in the reverse. So some of you might be getting an apology from someone or you're giving one. But there's a sense of freedom and I was saying that 2022 the first couple of months is going to be all about healing. It's going to be all about going into the cocoon if needed. Kind of like just withdrawing and taking some time out to rest. It's very beautiful energy. What else do you have here? Oh hand of cards taking a chance a risk doing. Oh no being strategic options not showing your hand. Not showing your cards gambling. Okay. That's interesting. So there is definitely a chance or a risk being taking here and being strategic about this. It could be another person. It's somebody. Okay. There's some options but somebody is not going to show their cards or show their hand. Okay. Because they don't want to risk losing something again. Okay. So they're keeping their cards close to their chest. Especially during this healing time. Especially during this cocooning time. Thinking things through. Restrategizing and being strategic in the next moves. Okay. What are the options? Someone is thinking here. What are my options? What do I have to work with? What can I do? What can I not do? I'm taking a big risk in regards to this right. Because hey when you're gambling it's always a risk right. Let's take a look and see what else is going on here. Oh the phoenix. There's a new phase coming here Virgo. There's a rekindling. There's a renewal. Transformation. Growth. And a changed mind. Wow. This is amazing. I feel like right now somebody's in a position of needing to just disengage to heal to rethink things. Somebody wants to rekindle a renew a relationship but with growth. Changed mind with the phoenix like the phoenix is rising. The changed mind energy feels mostly like a brainwashing. The way somebody was doing something before in the past just was not working. And so somebody kept doing the same thing over and over again expecting different results. And that is always an energy of insanity. Right. I mean if whoever is in the past doing an up until this point doing the same thing over and not seeing results then it's time to change things and to do things differently. But right now this is a period of healing and holding cards close to the heart to try to feel feel feel the energy of like okay what options do I have what can be done here. Okay. And not telling anybody what the plans are because the intention is being set here to renew a connection to transform a connection to have growth to start a new phase. Okay. Now that could be for some of you this could have something to do with a partner this could just have something to do with your relationship with self. Okay. Some of you might just say I'm rekindling self I'm renewing self I'm transforming self and I'm taking a look at how I'm going to do that and I'm disconnecting from everyone and everything so that I can mend and heal and begin again. I love these cards. I just love love love these cards. Let's see what else. Okay. There's passion. Wow. Insane chemistry liking each other. Equally having fun. Hmm. Okay. There go. What do you got going on here? Are you communicating with someone right now where there's like insane chemistry and there's like this reciprocity this passion this physical passion this heart passion going on here. Some of you are regrouping and healing from something in your life and you're preparing yourself to start your life over and to go after your passions and your dreams. There might be another person that could be in your life. It could very well be somebody else is feeling this way about you and they are they are liking you for some of you. I feel like you may be talking to someone at this point or you are involved with someone and they are feeling for you Hergo what you are feeling for them. It's there's it's equivalent here and their emotions and their passions and a lot of fun to be had coming up. All right. Let me see here. This could be also somebody from your past who's quite passionate about you. Okay. And the reason I say that is because there's a sense of rekindling and renewal. So there could be a relationship here that perhaps you've let go of or that you both let go of or one person let go of and there's an energy of healing that passion begins to stir and come back. You know it just comes back in your heart really. For you you feel it. Somebody else begins to feel it. Let's see. Okay. Yeah. Heartbroken, deeply hurt, sad, their separation. There was a breakup. A feeling of like a lost a loss. You have a healing heart and a heartbroken grieving and mourning. Okay. So Virgo I just feel like with these cards you're going through something here or maybe you were or something happened during the holidays. I know I wasn't here and I don't know what was going on with you. But there was just this energy of like two people who like each other a real lot and have a passion for each other. Okay. So we're talking about if you went through some heartbreaking situation in the past two people really like each other a lot but something couldn't work. Okay. There needed to be a renewal of the mind. A new phase for some I feel like whatever this heartbreak is, it was a necessary thing and it needed to happen in order to transition the relationship onto a better level. And or for some to transition you onto a better level because we're reading for Virgo here. Okay. And I that's why I feel like what I was seeing in the beginning partnership is so big in 2022. It's just so important. You know, I feel like people who have done you wrong in the past Virgo I feel like healing can happen but you got to speak up Virgo. You got to tell people you have to call people out on their shit. If they're being a shit stain you just can't be stifled and just remain silent. But if you've done that and you've done that over and over and over and over and the person still wasn't hearing you Virgo. I hope that you left because that's on them. They have to fix themselves and I hope that you got up the courage to walk away and go within and get your healing time. And if you haven't done it yet you need to and get that time alone with self and have get that self love back. You know, because that love that you give out, it doesn't just disappear. When somebody rejects it, it comes right back to you. So absorb it. All the love that you gave another person. Just let it come back to you. Let it flow back to you. Okay. So a lot of you are healing from a heartbroken situation. Okay. Is there a possible rekindling? There could be. Okay. But there's definitely a leveling up that's happening here for someone. All right. And it's really, really important that you take this time to yourself, put up your boundaries and make yourself first this year in 2022. Because if you can't love yourself, nobody else can Virgo. Okay. And if you were loving yourself and somebody wasn't loving you, that's because they don't love themselves or they just don't love you. Okay. And sometimes it's a hard pill to swallow, but it doesn't mean that your value goes down. Okay. Okay. I've got camera. Wow. Reminiscing, keepsake, perception, learning from the past and making memories. Okay. So I don't know. Some of you might have your face out there somewhere. Someone has keepsake of you, pictures of you or you of they. There's someone here that's got pictures and they're reminiscing on someone's reminiscing on old pictures or keepsakes that might have been given. Seeing someone differently. There's like a perception is like kind of like looking and trying to perceive, understand, also learning from the past as well. I feel like somebody wants to make new memories going forward. This looks like doesn't this looks like the Instagram camera a little bit. Maybe somebody's using a camera at this time. Taking pictures, professional pictures using like an, I don't know, like a real nice camera. Okay. But there's definitely an energy of reminiscing happening here. Somebody's reminiscing about someone from the past while healing their heart at this time. I do feel like there's transformation. Somebody does feel heartbroken, but they're not really showing it and they're not saying anything. Okay. They're definitely thinking of taking a risk to try to renew this because there's a very strong passion. Okay. Somebody has a very strong passion. Now just remember this could be reversed. The roles could be reversed here. It could be two people at the same time. It could just be an energy where it's all about you. Let me see. I love these cards. Okay, talking the talking card interested. Maybe there's more communication. There's some communication coming in. An awaited message arrives. There's a text, a phone call, an email. And for some of you, it might even be hoovering. Okay, hoovering. And you know that word is only used in a particular community here. So some of you might know what I'm talking about. Some of you were in a relationship with someone who was malignantly selfish. Okay. And some of you decided to leave that connection. I don't care how long ago it was to heal and to rise up again. Take a risk on self. Okay. Heart feeling heartbroken, but getting your your passion back. Somebody here is kind of like in between in between, still have passion for the person but like is healing from all the abuse. Right. Some of you I just heard are taking look at if you're involved with someone who has just had a lot of demons they were fighting and pushing them on to you. Some of you are separating the demon from the person. In other words, you see the person and you're like, wow, this person's like possessed by some kind of demon. And I'm not saying that you are I mean, you are you have your empathy and you you have that sense of like, you feel bad for them. But at the same time, you've got your boundaries up because when someone has that that demon spirit in them, where they're, you know, causing anxiety and their their suspicion and jealousy and and verbal emotional physical abuse, you know that you're able Virgo that's the one thing one of your gifts, you're able to look at how this person maybe there's drug addiction or alcohol, you're able to look at this person and see how they are being ruled by these things. They're allowing it to happen or they're just kind of like possessed. I don't know like the exorcist. I don't know. I mean, your person's like vomiting and they're green and spinning their head on the bed who the hell knows. And you're kind of looking at them like, wow, that's a shame, but I'm out of here. Some of you definitely and that's what all this healing energy is. Okay. And rising up from it. But I do feel like there is going to be whoever there is going to be an energy of somebody reaching back out again. Okay, and I did say that there was going to be some kind of renewal here. Some of you might be waiting to hear from someone even though you shouldn't be. Okay, and others of you might actually be wanting to hear from someone to see if they're okay. This is like family member or somebody who was struggling with an addiction or going through something that really destroyed a relationship. Okay. I feel like, but I feel like somebody wants to talk to you. Okay, hoovering is here, but I also have somebody wants to talk to you if you're involved with someone who was very abusive. And you know that this person is going to be reaching back out to you again and you have your guard up. It doesn't matter if that person's hoovering you quote unquote, because if you're not getting the message, you won't know and it won't affect you. So if you need to go ahead and block people and remove yourself from receiving, I mean, even still you can shield yourself as much as you like, but what's important is you take that healing time to get your boundaries strong, right, so that you just become untouchable. So that no matter what anybody says or does, you don't have to block them. You're just like, nah. And when you get to that point where you're past the healing and you're good and you're grounded, you'll be indifferent and won't matter anymore. But some of you, I feel like you're still struggling with that and that's okay. That's why some of you need to go into that cocoon and kind of just pull yourself in, relax, get grounded, think logically, not emotionally and write Virgo do as much writing as you can. When you start writing about some troubles that you've been through or things that you've had that were difficult, you'll find you'll go through a lot of different stages of writing. If you keep writing one minute, you'll write, you'll find yourself to be very angry and the next minute you'll be very forgiving and then the next minute you'll be calm and wise and then you'll write again and then you'll be angry again. You got to get all that out. Okay. But I definitely feel like someone is interested in talking to you. So look out for a text call or email or or a possible Hoover. Oh shit, engagement ring. Oh my gosh, engagement partnership, commitment, eternity, completion, union. Okay. So here's the thing, right, Virgo? I want to just say this to you because I have to say this to you. Yes, there's a witch hunt out there for narcissists. Okay. But actually, someone who's got malignant narcissism, that's usually someone who's like diagnosed, you know, it's in the DM, the DSM. I'm not a doctor. I don't know who you're dealing with. And I, I would rather just say that whomever you're dealing with was just really on the high end of selfishness. Okay. Because before the DSM DSM even coined it, that is really what it is and selfish people have been throughout eternity. Okay. If you can honestly sit there and say, Oh, my person was diagnosed and I know they are. There you go. But if you don't know for sure, just coin it because I feel like there's such a witch hunt with the narcissism that everyone's a narcissist. And I'm not saying there's an uptick in that. But it is definitely an uptick in self centeredness behavior. But like in just a very people aren't connecting anymore. Anyway, you've got engagement ring here. So you're going to have to be very discerning because I feel like somebody's going to come in and make a proposal or an offer to you. Okay. For partnership and give you a gesture to want to have some kind of partnership for you. You have to be very discerning. I can't be there with you when that happens. If you feel like somebody is coming in here and they haven't healed, like you got to be able to make sure that this person is coming back healed. Okay. And I'm not talking about Oh, enough time went by now. I miss you. I'm talking about Hey, I cut the I cut my leg off right below my knee. I'm bleeding. I'm walking on stubs. I got crutches. Here it is. I'm ready to walk with you. Show me the way and I will do whatever it takes to make this relationship work. If somebody's not coming back in with that energy, keep it moving Virgo. Keep it moving. Okay. Because that will take you down and drag you into the ditch for years. Okay. Now for others. Okay. If this isn't if you were, you know, this might not be someone from your past coming back. Okay. For others, as you begin to heal, right, and you start getting your passion back for life. And you take one final look back at somebody and you have a keepsake of that person. Okay. But you've learned from the past and you're ready to make new memories. What did I say 2022 is going to be a partnership year. Okay, there's going to be some type of communication coming in. You're going to meet somebody if you're not already talking to somebody right now. There's going to be a lot of conversation. And somebody wants to get to know you're very interested. And this is something that could lead to engagement, partnership, commitment. Happily ever after eternity, completion, union, you name it. All right, Virgo. So I know, and I have faith that whatever you're going through, however difficult things are for you, if you're feeling up and down, you're, you're in one minute, you're out the next, you're confused, you're lost. That's all part of the process. Trust the process. Don't beat yourself up every day because you're having some bad days and then you're having some good days. Just say, yep, this is where I'm at today. Talk to yourself, label what you're feeling. Say, okay, today I'm not feeling so good. So I need to give myself a little bit of a break. Maybe tomorrow I'll feel better. But just understand that it's like a roller coaster. Healing is never comfortable. I don't know why anybody would ever think that, okay, healing is going to be a freaking breeze. It's not. Do you ever slice open your arm? That healing, it's itchy, it burns, it's sore, you can't move your arm. You might get an infection. Healing is very, very uncomfortable and if you're feeling very uncomfortable, that means you're on the right path. Okay, so take care of yourself, self-care, self-love, very important. Whatever you're going through right now is going to birth a beautiful blessing. There's a reason for all of this. Okay, whether this is a rekindling and a healing of a relationship begins to happen through the grace of spirit and, you know, you guys start talking in a very positive way and you sense and they sense that you guys are able, like you've come through something pretty serious and you've learned lessons and none of that lip service was like, oh, I had a week of call. Fuck you did. Right, show me. No more, we're not accepting these fake apologies in 2022 and don't be giving fake apologies either, Virgo, to anybody. Mean what you say and say what you mean. Right, so let's get one more and then we're going to move forward. Paradise, beautiful, happiness, expansion, joy, playfulness, oneness, enjoying each other. Virgo, you're on your way to paradise. Don't you dare give up, Virgo. Don't you dare give up on yourself first. I'm not telling you to put yourself aside and then not give up on the other person and, you know, keep your focus on the other person. No, first, self, second, other person, but always be, you know, true to yourself, always, every minute of the day, every second, because you know, Virgo, you know, you have a tendency and we all do this. Virgos are martyrs of the zodiac. We want to help other people, we want to make other people feel good because that makes us feel good, but then when those people aren't around and we can't nurture anybody, then we're just kind of like, well, now I feel empty and lost. No, no, no, no, no. Nurture yourself, especially if you deal with codependency issues and things like that, that might be part of your healing for some. Okay, if you're in a toxic relationship, anybody who's toxic is going to be codependent, at least from my understanding, and that's what I'm picking up here, okay, and someone who's codependent can make another person codependent if they don't have strong boundaries or even if they, they get sidetracked, right? So some of you might be healing your codependency, right? And I hope that you are. Some of you bought a book or you're purchasing a book on that or you haven't heard of it and you're just hearing it now and you might decide to do that. Virgo, I just feel like you want to be in a healthy, happy relationship, okay? I feel like you don't want to have anyone gaslight you and you don't want to gaslight yourself anymore. You want to just be able to speak the truth, see the truth, know the truth, feel the truth, and to it and vibe with the truth, that's what you're all about. Okay, let's take a look here. But Paradise is coming. Oh, I just heard that song. It does be just like living in paradise. Isn't that Van Halen, David Lee Roth? Okay, we have palm trees and water. So, all right, yeah, they just said give you a couple of different messages. Okay, I know some of you are sitting, some of you might be actually at your laptop listening to this video or you're on some kind of computer. Maybe it's your phone. Okay, but I'm feeling like these palm trees, sunny, maybe an island water vibes here. So, there could be somebody that lives near palm trees or lives near a beach or in a sunny climate, very warm climate. As some of you might be listening and shuffling a deck of cards or you were playing with a deck of cards, maybe on New Year's Eve, you played a card game or poker or something. Somebody's got a dragon tattoo. I just heard. Okay, wait. And somebody is or was working on some kind of stitching project or stitching something or maybe you're working the medical field and you gave stitches recently or somebody got stitches. I just heard. Okay, and some of you have like a teenage daughter somewhere around you. Okay, and also they just said somebody needs to get their eyes fixed or go get some eye, something done with the eyes, maybe a new pair of glasses, something done with the eyes. Alright, let me see here. Oh, and also somebody's looking at jewelry. This right now, they're looking at jewelry. They're looking at their eye and up a big ring. Now it could be you for yourself or maybe for somebody else or somebody else is doing this for you or they have their eye on the prize. Alright, I was shuffling this deck but they just said no. Don't use that deck. Alright, you know what? I really just wanted to give the reading with these cards and you know what? They just said keep doing it. Keep doing it. Okay. Alright, let's see how it goes. Alright, coffin, endings, spring, new beginnings, growth, change, liberation, transition. So some of you had finally put the last nail in the coffin. Haven't you? Some of you just decided that's it. Forget it. I'm done. Nothing else they can do. I'm moving on. Sealing it shut. Rest in peace, mother effort. Not moving forward anymore with this. I'm on to growth. I'm on to change. I'm freeing myself. Freedom from this toxic relationship or toxic relationships. You know, I'm making that transition. I'm burying this and putting it to rest once and for all. And some of you with the hand of cards here, you're not saying nothing. You're just leaving. You're walking away. You're not showing your hand. You're not showing your hands. Now some of you might have had somebody that recently passed away. I know Betty White passed away. Oh my gosh. It was so like, you know, I have to be honest. Like it didn't feel deeply sad. I was kind of like, got my fingers moving. My fingers like freaking out. Spazzing right here on the talking card. That is so weird. Look, my fingers having like a little spaz attack on the talking card. Okay, they're telling me to go back to this. This talking. Somebody's really nervous about talking to you. Wow. That's what I was just feeling with my finger. Is it going to do it again? It's not. Somebody's so nervous. They're jumpy. They're jumpy and they can't get themselves together. They can't think straight. They're so afraid to to reach out and talk to you that they're afraid they're going to like fumble their words or sound like a fool or not say the right things. And somebody who's not communicating with you right now because of that, because they're trying to be strategic and what they want to say. It's almost like they're they're writing out. I just see somebody is like, they're text they're writing a text or an email and they're like scripting it out. And then when it when they do reach out to you, they're going to be reading from that script so that they don't mess up what they want to say to you. So weird. So, so weird. Okay. Wow. You've got love, unconditional love, self love, oneness, passion, affection, attraction. Virgo, you're like so into yourself. Okay. They just told me Valentine's Day is going to be significant day. February 14th, 2022. Or maybe that's somebody's birthday. I don't know. Some of you are going to go out and buy yourselves a really big Valentine's gift. Like instead of being depressed if you don't have anyone because I know some of you are like I don't care if that MFR is too nervous to talk to me or whatever. I've moved on and I'm I'm going to keep it moving. If I don't have anybody by Valentine's Day, I'll buy myself a bottle of wine and a box of candy, box of chocolates. You do it, Virgo. Go buy yourself a big beautiful bouquet of flowers and set the standard. Okay. Well, there's definitely self love happening here for you. And I feel like you're finally going to get to that place where you're like, damn, I'm amazing. Because I know a lot of you probably already are, but I feel like you're like, damn, I'm amazing. And what this person didn't see is their loss. And it's not my problem. No, no, no, no. And I'm not talking about self love in a narcissistic way or a selfish way. I mean, I'm talking about like just caring for yourself, loving yourself, giving to yourself what you've been giving to somebody else or you've been giving to others. That's attractive, Virgo. But there's definitely somebody's going to try to be very affectionate with you. You know, in the next two months, definitely a lot of passion and somebody becoming extremely attracted to you. Definitely, they're just telling me February, something's going on in February. There you got a love call. Okay. Someone expresses their feelings for you, Virgo. There's a message of love thinking of you and letting you know, I would expect something around there's going to be a very strong love call. Definitely around Valentine's Day. Just save this video so that you'll remember. I do feel like with this talking card that there's somebody here who actually wants to ask you to marry them or be their significant other, but they're so nervous. It's going to take them a real long time to actually reach out and say this to you. They might email it to you, which okay. I don't know the nervousness and the fear seem to be real dominant in this person right now. And it might be I feel, okay, I just thought they could be writing a story for you. I feel like around Valentine's Day is when they're going to do it, which okay, Virgo, you know what that means? Whether it's a past person or a new person. Take January and February, the next six weeks to just fucking heal, heal, rest, start doing you. Put yourself first. Work on your physical self, work on your mental, go back to church, learn your spiritual stuff, get that spiritual healing in, learn that, learn, like get yourself educated about what you need to do for self, rewrite the manual of who you are. You know when you buy a car, always comes with a manual. Whenever you buy an appliance comes with directions, how to use it. Virgo, write a manual for self. How to work me? How to work Virgo? What does Virgo need to operate at the highest and best efficient level to be happy? Right? So take these next six weeks and do that and figure out who you are and what you want and what you're doing and what your plans are. Be strategic, like it says here. Okay? Don't show your cards to anybody. Take a chance on yourself. Strategically write down what are your options? What do you need to do? And don't tell anybody building silence, Virgo. Take this time. Take a gamble on yourself, Virgo. All right. I love it. Okay. Girl with a snake. Okay. Did I say somebody has a dragon tattoo? Could be somebody's got a snake tattoo? All right. Here we go. My gosh. Empath and Narcissist paradigm. Being charmed or used, enabling boundaries. Okay. Listen. I feel like this is going in a particular, I'm trying not to go down that road, but the word Narcissist is here. So I'm just going to say some of you left a narcissistic abusive relationship. Okay. I don't care whatever it was. It doesn't matter. All you know is you walked away feeling worse than when you went in. It for some of you destroyed you. Okay. For some of you, you nearly lost everything, if not your soul and your spirit. And some of you, like I said, you buried that MFR. You said that's it. You're done. Girl or a guy with a snake. It doesn't matter. You were, you, you liberated yourself from this thing. And this person, you know, I don't know if you know. And like I said, I read a lot of stuff, but I'm not a physician. So I don't, I can't confirm. But I've read that narcissists are very codependent, believe it or not. And it's just, it's just a real deep form of insecurity. And this person, it doesn't surprise me with the nervousness to reach out because some of you caused a narcissistic injury where you said, don't want this shit and just broke off the relationship. You might not have even told them you were leaving. You, some of you just had absolutely no contact. Some of you did tell them that you didn't want to speak to them anymore and you were done, whatever. You caused a deep, deep wound in this person who was already wounded. But they were expecting you, they needed you to carry them all the way through. That's why they kept holding on to you. Okay. And the empath empath and narcissistic paradigm is generally the push pull relationship. It's the chaser runner, you know, but it's the karmic twin flame connection. Okay, this person, maybe they were someone was a year of the snake or you're the year of the snake. This person I do feel is going to try, they're going to, they're going to make a bold move. Because what do they have in their arsenal? This is it. The one thing that you wanted at one point was to be in union with this person, like forever, never, never, happily ever after they knew it. And because they knew that you wanted that, they withheld it. They weren't going to give you what you want. But as soon as you're cutting it off here, and I'm just going to put this out there, here comes, here comes that very thing you want. And that's why I said to you in the beginning, you need to vet the fuck out of this person. Cut off below the knee energy. I'm telling you, you need to vet this person and make them prove it. I'm going to tell you what, don't tell them for how long because these people, they'll come in and they'll prove it for a little while. But then you'll start noticing that once they get you to where they want you, they start slacking off. And then they blame you. Oh, it was your fault. And then you feel bad. And that's where the soul destroying because they do the love bombing and then the devalue and then the discard. Now, let me just give you a piece of advice here. Don't don't allow anyone to come back in if you're not feeling like if you're not if you're not going to be indifferent to them. If you're not going to feel indifferent to this person, if you get a call or a message or a text, they show up some way somehow, and you feel triggered by that, you are not done healing. So be honest with yourself. Okay. Don't let this person stab you in the back and then come in with the band aid and say they're trying to save you from all your hurt and pain when they're the ones who caused it. Do you ever see like, you know, like a physician, if they make a mistake, like a surgeon, if the surgeon cuts into you and screws up, they bring other surgeons in to make that fix because something's wrong with that surgeon. If he means like such a big screw up like that, like Nick Denardery or something, you know what I mean? Don't let the person who hurt you come back in to rescue you ever. That's a game. Okay. Now some of you, this isn't the situation at all. Okay. Alright, they just told me some of you do have somebody who is, who has good intentions, but again, at the end of when this video is over, you have to be the one to make that call. Okay. Because you got a vet for yourself, right. I'm just giving the messages. They only align when you do the work and find out this person could have been in a relationship with a very manipulative person in the past. And you either you already know them or you will meet them and they will tell you they're very nervous and ashamed to tell you that they went through that. They're humiliated and they're trying to heal. And they want the true love and they want that, you know, healthy relationship. But there's an energy of like, I get just a very melancholy feeling about whoever this person is. They were with, they were with someone who was like an absolute snake total snake in the grass. Oh, you know, I heard, I heard a lyric the other day and I have to tell you what it is. Did I write it down? I hope I did. Hold on. It's from a song. I don't remember Hold on. Give me a second. Okay. Oh, all right. So it's lyric from Ario Speedwagon. I think it's called, the song is called I'm gonna keep on loving you. But the lyrics go, you played dead but you never bled. Instead, you laid still in the grass all coiled up and hissing. Okay. So that's basically somebody who pretended like they played dead but they never really bled. They pretended they were hurt but there were no visual signs. There was no actual bleeding. Okay. They just hid like a snake in the grass. Okay. And some of you got hooked up with someone or somebody got hooked up with somebody who was like that who cried wolf but there was no wolf. They were just a liar. So if that's your story Virgo, I'm here to tell you. You better keep it moving. We are not doing shit stains in 2022. If somebody can't come in transparent and open and proving themselves and they have not healed and they're just coming back to take more and if you meet somebody who is recently going through this and is still having a hard time, give them time to heal because that's going to be a rebound and you're not doing rebounds. And don't tell me that you are because I'm not about that on this channel here. No rebounds. The grim reaper. This relationship is over. No second chances. Grow and transform your life Virgo. Look at this spooky thing. Okay. No second. No third. Listen. The way I see it is if somebody cheats on you once, fine. You want to take them back? Okay. They made a mistake. They want to go in. They're like I'm ready to heal. I'm ready to heal. Good. But if they cheat once and they want to come back but they're not ready to do any work, you need to let them go. You need to cut them off and not give another chance. Okay. So if they do something that upsets the apple cart that causes a toxic wedge, puts a toxic wedge in a relationship and they want to come back and fix it and you see you like call them out and you call them to their attention and turn that grown boy or grown girl into a grown man or grown woman. Make them do the work and tell them this is what's going to cost you. And if they don't do it, no second chances. Relationships over. Call it Virgo. You've got to call time on something here. Okay. Unbelievable. Stabbed in the back. I just said that. Heartbreak, pain, separation, deception, shocking attack. All right. Some of you, I'm going to warn you. This feels more like a warning. But listen, let's keep it real. You're going to start 2022 on a new footing. Okay. Somebody's being stabbed in the back and the only way I feel like you could be stabbed in the back is if you just back up into somebody and say here you go. Okay. If you're going to let somebody back in and give them another chance and they're not going to do the work or they're not trying to do the work to earn your love back. You're not making them earn it. You have no one else to blame but yourself and this person, they will, they will stab you in the back again. They will do it to you because you let it. Don't allow it. People can't hurt you unless you allow them to hurt you. Right. It's a decision you have to make Virgo. And some of you have already been stabbed in the back and you know you're moving on. And for those of you who have just you're done with that relationship, you definitely have someone here where you start talking or you already are and the chemistry is off the charts. You like each other a lot and you're having fun. Just be go slow Virgo because I do feel like somebody you both I feel like you're going to meet. You're going to like say, wow, I went through similar things but still slow it down. Go slow because that toxicity needs like you know, when you have like you have something in like a splinter in your skin, you got to dig it all out. If it stays in even a tiny little piece, it could get infected. It's got to all be cleared out. You got a saline wash that shit. Clean it up. All right. One more. Okay. Separation. Okay. Sadness. Someone's missing you Virgo. They're thinking about you a lot. They're yearning. They're unsure of the future. A lot of you have just you've just left it and you didn't leave any clarity for somebody and you if somebody was abusive to you, you don't know anybody's shit. You don't know anybody an excuse. You don't need to be. Well, let me do the right thing and that's because that's who I am and let me tell my abuser that I'm leaving. Fuck that. No, you don't owe anybody anything. You don't need to tell this person what they did wrong. It's not your problem. You're not the counselor. You're not the therapist. If you're with them for a long time and they don't know or they didn't realize that they were hurting you like over and over again, the things they were saying, whoa, that's not somebody. That's not the person for you Virgo. That is not the person for you and you got to keep it moving. All right. Heal that heart Virgo. Keep it healing. Let's see and I don't mean just a lover. You know, we could this is a love reading, but we could be talking about family members, friends, coworkers. Some of you need to get restraining orders on people or you already have one on somebody. Let's look at. Okay. So for somebody who's a Libra Gemini or Aquarius this person is okay. Not specifically this person, but somebody here might be unmarried or divorced. Okay. Focusing on their career. At this time, it's like a kind of a beautiful distraction. Somebody might be very judgmental, but there's an energy of releasing situations or people that no longer serve for the highest good of a relationship. Okay. A lot of decisions and options being made, weighing options. Um, some of you just with the nine of ones I'm telling you, you got your boundaries up. Nine of ones, keeping and maintaining those boundaries and being persistent with that. Very, very important. You might have been dealing with someone that was a juggler or you might just be trying to like stay afloat right now and that's fine. You're just trying to balance things out. There's just a lot of roller coaster energy happening here and you know, your emotions, maybe in your career. I'm not predicting this for the future. I'm just looking at right now here. I do feel like somebody is going to try to come back in though and they are going to pull, they're going to pull the big one. Here for you Virgo, they're going to pull the big one on you and it's going to be unexpected. It's going to be pretty shocking. Okay. I don't feel like I feel like somebody here is not willing to let you go. They're not going to be wanting to let you go. Okay. Couple of charms. Okay. We have a seahorse. So maybe somebody has maybe have seahorses, seahorses in a fish tank. Okay. Seahorses meet for life as someone coined the phrase before. And that is weird because it kind of, it's weird because it fell right next to the phone here. It's one of those old-time phones, you know, from like the 90s. It looks like a phone. Somebody's going to call you, tell you like they want to be with you forever and I feel like that's just confirming what I've already said. You have the Homsa here. So this is for protection. So somebody here definitely needs to get that, get in protective mode. Protect yourself, protect your boundaries. And seek peace. You've got a tough here with a shamrock. So no, I'm sorry. A clover, four-leaf clover. Maybe somebody has a picture of that somewhere. Or they have pressed clovers, dried pressed clovers. I just feel like I'm going to get another one. I'm not going to do initials today. I'll get back into that tomorrow. Okay. So we have a gold flower with a diamond in it. Somebody, maybe you've got a gift like that or you will be getting a gift. This is also fireworks. I just saw a big plume of fireworks. So maybe you're still seeing fireworks today or you still hear them outside. Or you were like the fireworks. If you saw any yesterday or New Year's Eve or beautiful, like the best things you've ever seen. Like you were a beast. Okay. It's interesting. Oh my God. You have two unicorns, but they're very different. So all right. I don't know. I just have to put this out there. There might have been something you were connecting with that had longish black hair because this unicorn, I just noticed. I've never seen it before. He's got kind of like a long black hair mane. Oh, you can't really see it. And someone's got very curly lustrous hair. Okay. So that could be either you have black hair or this person. Or there's long, or there's curly hair, a lot of curls, but two opposed matches. I feel like this was a match that was just, it was like a unicorn. It was like some of you, I feel, felt like, I just heard they said, this is not the person I usually go for. We're not even we're not even evenly matched. But for some reason there was a very strong draw to one another. But it was a very, it just feels like it was a karmic. It was a karmic relationship. Very unhealthy. It became very toxic. Okay. But it will be safe for you to love again. At some point, Virgo, open your heart when you're ready to give and receive the highest energy and love of all. Right now you don't feel safe. Right now you're not feeling safe. And that's why a lot of you are going into like cocoon mode. You're wrapping yourself up in blankets. You're not going out as much. You, or even if you are, you're kind of keeping yourself like you've got some kind of distance. And that's good. Okay. Because that's what you need to do. You need to get, some of you just need to get some distance from something. You don't have to, some of you, I know you put the final nail in the coffin. For others of you, you're not ready to do that just yet. And that's okay. You don't have to just give yourself some time and get some distance. Tell everybody you're on vacation or whomever. You don't have to tell them why. You don't have to explain yourself. You don't have to say shit to anybody. You don't owe anybody anything. Just yourself. Okay. List your kids then, of course, you know, or if you have like, well, I just say your kids. Right. Self love is first. Right. You tell your kids what's going on. But it's also safe for you to love yourself right now, Virgo. So remember that. Okay. Open your heart to yourself. Just give yourself some hugs every day, Virgo. Right. And then kick your own ass to get yourself into gear. Get back up on the horse here. When you're ready, get back up on the horse, make a decision, pick a lane, and just fucking ride that lane until you get all the way to the end to your destination. Don't flip flop. Don't go back and forth. Just make a decision and stick with it. Perseverance, stay in and stay out. That's where success comes. True love. Okay. Romance of a lifetime. You will have true love again. And like I said, for some of you, there is somebody in here whom you may be connecting with and they just gave me this other message. There is someone. Okay. Now this part I didn't say and I'm glad you're still here. There is someone here that you are going to be connecting with and it's going to be a beautiful new beginning. And I just still feel like February. But you're also going to have someone from your past who's going to be, you know, someone who's very toxic and unhealthy who's going to try and interfere. Are they going to try and come back? I'm not saying you're going to have a decision to make because I feel like a lot of you are not going to fall for any love bombing. Okay. And I don't feel like you're going to be like sinking back on the past and choosing a past person. By the time this new stuff starts happening, which I was feeling like February, by the time new things really start taking off in your love life, anybody else that tries to come back access or access for a reason, anybody else that tries to come back, you're going to look at the past and you're going to look at the present and the future and say, what the hell? If I go back to that, I must be insane because look what's right in front of me or look what's coming towards me. You know, or look what I'm starting to talk to or connect with. Anything Virgo will be better than that toxic relationship or someone that was addicted to you or just put you on a shelf or treated you and took you down whenever they were, it was convenient for them. No good. No good. No good. So I'm actually very happy for you because it feels like you have a lot of good energy coming in, but you have some residual leftover that you got to like saline and wash out. Saline and get rid of that. Okay. I think I'm going to end it there for now. I hope that you enjoyed that reading. I hope it's a better 2022 for you. Like I said, I do feel partnership, but there's one last thing I want to say. Okay. I when I said it's a two year, a two, two year, I heard this little voice in my head that said, well, two, zero, two, two is three twos. And that made me feel like third party. So they're there for some of you, there is going to be an in a third party interference in a partnership. Okay. And as soon as you're done and you're healed and you get back on the horse and you've got somebody new that you're moving towards, I don't know how a past person is going to know about this. Somehow they're going to know. Maybe they'll feel it or they'll sense you're gone or they'll see you somehow, some way or they're watching you or thinking about you. They are going to try to come in with the everything you've ever wanted. So I'm just putting that out there. I just want to put that out there for you. Okay. And I want to leave your reading here and I hope that you got some good guidance from it. Remember, it's a general message so it may or may not apply to you, but take with fits. Leave the rest. Leave comments below. You guys if, you know, or in the chat, of course, if you are resonating with this reading and don't forget to join the membership $9.99 per month and you can just pop in to the live chats. Members only chat. Just hang out and ask as many questions as you want. We'll chit chat. I'll pull some cards for you. It'll be a lot of fun. All right, you guys. So I hope you have a glorious 2022 and you know I'll see you here tomorrow as we are back going strong in Virgo fashion and yeah. I love you guys. All right. Take care. Bye.