 So it's very common to experience judgment. So when we talk about how to handle judgment, I think first and foremost, is to come from a place of understanding where this person perceives the world compared to how you perceive the world. Now you might find that your ideologies, your perceptions of the world are so vastly different that it creates a caustic or contentious relationship between the two of you. See, these days, most humans are experiencing a casual type of dynamic in their dating experience and because it's casual, it doesn't have the deep roots of trust to sustain a relationship long-term. You have to recognize that men may not be driven to fully commit to someone.