 When I Evaluate whether I want to be close to somebody or allied with them Whether or not I agree with them isn't the most important consideration people tend to divide Humanity into my side and their side and use opinions as the sieve to divide Differences of opinion obscure a common humanity What are the different opinions come from they come from a different experience of life? But people can have a very different opinion then than I do on Pretty much any social or political or philosophical topic, but in their daily conduct In their relationships and their general comportment they could be Really beautiful generous people I don't need to establish that we agree on some social issue in order to appreciate that and in order to Support and celebrate that and to bow to that