 Every day my boyfriend is looking at sexy girls on Instagram dressed in bikinis and things. He follows all accounts like this. It makes me very uncomfortable. But when I tell him this is not nice, he is objectifying women. He says all guys do this. It's not a big deal. I'm not doing anything. I'm just looking. Then he says you're being too sensitive. Ask any guy. Everyone does this. Is this true? Have you noticed if you make a general comment about how men objectify women, all the guys jump in and say not all men, not all men. But if you tell one person, if you tell your partner individually, you're looking at all these sexually dressed women. You are objectifying women. He will promptly tell you all the guys do it. You don't understand. This is just a guy thing. This means nothing. Every single man does it. Guys, which is it? All men or not all men?