 My boyfriend that I've been with for a year and a half went from treating me like a queen, being supportive, hard-working, family-oriented, talking about engagement and marriage to suddenly telling me he's not ready. Okay, did you have a conversation with him about this? And I have a program out there that's called How to Talk to a Guy. And one of the things that I talk about in there is this idea of a guy not being ready and how to have a conversation with him when he's in a space where he says that he's not ready. And the first thing that you want to do is find out why he's not ready. And most guys will just tell you straight up why they're not ready if he's not ready. And then you want to find out how long it's going to take for him to get ready and just ask him that. Just have a real conversation with him and talk to him about that and ask him how long it's going to take for him to get ready. And usually he'll, he has a good, most guys have a good ballpark figure in their head of how long it's going to take before they're ready. And then you can kind of figure out from there, if he's being all squirrely about the whole conversation and trying to get out of it, it's probably because he's losing interest in you and it's not because he's not ready, but he's just losing interest in doing that with you. And if it is that he's just not ready, it could just be that he's afraid. You know, a lot of guys are freaking out about marriage because there's a lot of things, especially if you're in America where, you know, he could face all kinds of different problems from getting married. A lot of people, a lot of guys are avoiding, a lot of women, a lot of guys and women are avoiding marriage these days for a lot of different reasons. One being that people lose a lot of money and divorce and a lot of people are getting divorced these days. And so you kind of want to figure out what's going on with him specifically and make sure that you're getting yourself into a good situation. And if he's not putting, if he's not willing to put you in a good situation with him, at least the situation that you're looking for have enough self-respect for yourself that you're willing to say, hey, okay, if that's not going to work for you, then this isn't going to work for me either. And that can be really hard and it really sucks when that happens and being in that situation, but it's a lot better than being in a situation where suddenly a guy feels like you're not really right for him and you stay in the situation with him for a long time, just wasting your life with him, you know, only to find out that you should have left a long time ago.