 I've been on two dates with this guy. He would plan the next date after each date, but he didn't contact me that much in between. Is this a red flag? No, it's not a red flag. You've been on two dates and you know, he's doing the masculine thing, which is he's setting up the date and then he's going about his life and he's making sure that he doesn't screw things up between the last date and the next date. And that's what I suggest that you do the same thing, right? Because a lot of times what ends up happening and guys know this, especially if they get dating advice from the men's dating side is what they'll find out is that a lot of guys, what they do is they talk women out of going on dates with them by messaging them and talking to them through the week. And so if he's smart, he knows that the magic happens in the meetup. And so what he's doing is he's just setting it up and he's like, hey, let's meet and okay, you know, and if you get to a space where you want to reach out and you want to start talking to him, you can, but I suggest that you keep that to a minimum if he's not reciprocating or he's not doing it as well.