 Well, let's look at this at a bigger picture. What do most humans want? I said this earlier when you asked me about love. Most humans that are in a good, emotionally healthy want to be seen, they want to be heard, they want to be understood, they want to be appreciated, they want to be cherished, they want to be respected. That's, everybody wants close to the same thing. You know? We, the minute we divide it up that women want this, but ultimately what do you want most in a relationship? You want trust, you want safety, you want, you want to know that you can say most anything to your partner and you're going to be accepted for who you are. That's what we want. So rather than looking at it, see this is where the challenge is.