 And then my dad was very strict, and I would say he was very protective. Okay. Hei, wei hei, I think kuna, kuna mabija na karimu wa tatu wa mengizu wa ndani jiyangu. And I will never ever forget, there was a time when I was in KBC, ya. So, tulikwana owago, you know, owago, yes, so we had gone to, you know, kuna bitukotuna discussa za job and all that because he was also used to work in KBC back then. Hei, my dad had a story. Yes. Ati, msenoku alipatikara na ukijana, inu owago alishikwa, for two days and na na na na na. Eyo, dad is there, what? What's up, good people and welcome to yet another episode of Bars with Stars right here on SPM Bars. Now, when you see me here, you know I am sitting down with a star and we're just about to have a conversation. Now guys, today I am talking to the beautiful Dorea Chege, aka Magi Maria. Sende yo, do people still call you Maria by the way? Oh, so Magi Raza, hey, they still call you that. Yes. Mmhmm. Now, we have so many titles, there's Magi, there's Tess, you don't know about Tess. I don't know about Tess. Ya, there's a program I acted in Nero. Oh, okay. Still ongoing. Oh, really? Oriro Avedo. Ah, ya? Ya. I mean, guys, have you seen, now I'm even some, I don't know what to call you Dorea or now, but people have started calling you Dorea now. Sende yo. Yes. I don't know. Have you guys watched her on, it's called what? The other Oriro Avedo. Oriro Avedo. Guys, have you guys watched it? Let us know how she's doing there as well. Now, you know Dorea would really like to know. Where were you before Maria series? Ule kwa wapi? Wow, before Maria, ya? Yes. I was directing, I was a director in KBC. Yes. Ya. And then I was also doing, after KBC, I left Nkakahom Kiddogo and then I joined a logistics company called Afri Asia. Ehe. Yes. So what were you doing in KBC? I went for my internship in KBC for three months. And then after three months, I requested my boss, at least nipe time ni, ni extend kut nili feel bad o, siyuk si jahiva benye nili kwanataka. Oh, ehe. So nika pewa time, makani ambi, okay, you can extend for six months and I was like, ya, cool. Ya. I wait for one ya. Yes. Yes. So I was directing a program called Good Morning Kenya. Aha. Club Word Extra. Okay. And another program called Gear Up. Ah, I can relate. I also, whether I did my internship at KBC. Oh, yeah. So does it mean you did media? Ya, I did. Oh, which institution? I did NeuroBitroBitro Studies. Oh, okay, okay, okay. That's nice. I didn't know. So do you plan on, you know, now practicing media, amma, what's up? After that, hidoga hiltoga hidoga. Buona, buona. What was the experience? Kwanulio naji yuka change mind? You know, in KBC, I did volunteer. Yes. That's a lot. Yes, for one year. And I'm like, you know what? This girl needs some money. So I left, I joined logistics company called Affiliation Kiklimani. Ya. So nikandaku patadou, nikapatadou. But still it was so hard for me. Neurologistics is about documentation. Ya. You know, importing things from China to Kenya, the bulldozers and all that. Yes. So I had to do online classes. Okay. Nikazaku jidipia online classes. And I still I felt, ah, this is not my area. Yes. I left again. Ya. I left. And that's when I started my own company. Ya. Oh, you have your own company now. What does it do? Oh, it's beauty. It's beauty? Yes, beauty. I used to deal with nails, massage, you know, all that. Ah, just to mention your makeup looks. Mmm, top notch. Thank you. Mwenyame kupaka. And we take his or her time. Uwe toka photoshutama una enda? No, ni we toka mark, they are doing a launch of pink stubs. Ah, yes. Ah, okay, okay. Ayasawa. Now una joka ingia Maria. I would really want to know, how did you get into it? And you know, what was the process? I know, I know nisto rea kitambo, but I mean, some people would actually like to know. Ya. So before I joined Maria, nili kwa inoro, like for, nili kwa nimi actuwa around like two years. So, I used to give my 100%. Ya. Don't make kikui was not that good. So nili kwa na jifonza and all that. Ya. After that, that's when I went for auditions. Yes. That Maria. Ya. I mean, na uredu li kwa reo media. Ya, uredu li kwa na jua, you know. Ya, ya. Ah, that's really good to hear. Now, do rea looking at your journey oka ingia Maria. Eh, you became now famous. You have a huge following. How was that transition? I mean, I would like to understand from, you know, the doreya that you were, to this star that people are looking up to, your, their role model. How was that transition? It was mind blowing. Ehe. Because I remember the first time we linked the first episode nili kwa na kwa TV. Yes. I was around 20k followers eh. Mm hmm. He, the following name kwa de kwa 50. Are you serious? Ya. It has that much effect. Yes. And I was, oh my god. Wow. People from shag started calling me. It was, it was mind blowing. Ehe. Yes. I can imagine. So how did life change, you know, the pressure of seju doing things? How? I wouldn't say life changed kusana, because, you know, we're still in media. It's just that people didn't know. I think, seju come out. No, but you're this famous person, right? You know, then, I mean, usha kwa am famous. Even the people who never used to call you on the road are now calling you. You're a familiar face. I know. Lazi ma kuna kituili change. Ya, a lot changed. Ehe. And definitely the lifestyle changed. Yes. You know. Ehe. Nothing much really. Ya. Nothing much. And how was it adapting to know, you know, a different lifestyle is not easy, you know. Now, if you are comfortable kupandamat, now it becomes a problem kidogo. I know, oh yes. Coming to think of it, like kungipandamat. I mean. I remember there was a time niki toka job, kwa toka shoot yama riaya. So nika pitiapo archives. And then the street kids started saying, Uwani magi. Oh. Magi, oh my God. So alishkana water. And then I was with my brothers, my two brothers. So alishkana water. And my brothers were like, what? What is happening? What is happening here? So I ran. Yes. She said, I want to bring your task kids. I want your task kids to go opposite. Kaya, can you go to that situation? I went there, I will never forget that thing. I went there. Ya. At least umtungi. Pataw kondani mnye likuwa. Mnye, koni ena kuku, alini pili kuku kujuku electronics. Ya. Akana bena. What you need to do, kaka kapa diwa tundie, ala kumituake. I stayed there for almost an hour. Awa tundi wa tukia, gizai kaingia. No nika toka. And then you have a fun moment that you can remember. Kus that's a crazy fun moment. It was just crazy. And I was like, you know what? I know. I see easy. In lifestyle, so see easy to me amata too and all that. Guy. So I had to buy a car. I mean, but you sound that it was like so easy. I had to buy a car. How did you go about that? Buying now a car, because this is something that you didn't consider a necessity per se, but now you, I mean it's important. No, I would say it was in the process. Okay. So it just started, the situation made it quick, you know? Ya. Ya, for sure. Ya. Okay. So what is that one DM you've ever received to call? Eh, people are crazy. Out here? I think I posted it on my stories. Yes. Ya, I would love to share it, but it's normally crazy. You know, we get like a thousand DMs in a day and all that. Yes. But some men are just Pavats? Yes, that's the name. You know, some men are just Pavats. And they would say all sorts of things. Ya. And they think I posted it. I posted it. Okay. Every time I post something on my stories, like this one guy who used to, he was very consistent. Eh. I want you to show me, eh, I want you. Eh. And I was like, oh my God. So I exposed him in this store. That's an obsession. An obsession now. Ya. Okay. And how was it working, you know, with Jifi Pictures? You know, it's like a family thing. How was it? It was amazing. Eh. It was amazing. Getting to meet new people. Ya. You know, new directors, kwa likuwa inoro. Eh. And it was just an amazing and beautiful moment. Ya. You know, I mean when you get on set and you're shooting for clothes, I mean more than a year, right? More than a year. And you meet people, you're talking to them every single day. I would like to know if there's someone, you became so close unexpectedly. Like your first experience, you know your first instance mulipatana, labdata kupendaana. But eventually you became so close. Ya. And who is that person? It was Silas. Oh my God. Oh, he had, it had to be Silas. Ya. Vigaf my guy. I mean this guy, it was the first time I met him when he was on set. He was in a kwa mendelea kidogo. Yes. So when he came after, he was in a kwa mendelea. Ya. The first day, you know when, the first day when you go somewhere, you always is quiet. You're trying to watch this all over. Surely. Ya. You try to keep him up in my area when you're kuko. Yes. So this guy came. He was like, hi, how are you? Yes. Fine. You're going to be my girlfriend. Okay. Oh, okay, really? Ya. So to shake your lines. Okay. Fine, cool. Mm-hmm. To shake your lines. And then we, our, our, our nimi since we were very intentional. Ya. You know that the love, it's our love story and all that. Uh-huh. So we became so close. Uh-huh. So close. Ya. To an extent so, niki fika humi na mubilizomu. We became best of friends. Ya. Outside the set. Actually, no outside the set. Uh-huh. Best, best of friends. So I would say he's the guy who really welcomed me. Ya. Ya. So warmly. Ya. And I felt at home. Ya. And also we became, we became so close till to date. And that was very good, you know, because I mean, he made it even easier for your chemistry to just be a little bit easier for you even to act. Ya. So it comes off natural when you guys are friends. It was so natural. It was so natural. And you guys did a good job there. Thank you. You guys did a really good job. How was it, you know, just getting on set and being told now you're, this girl from the ghetto, this is your role. Was it like a struggle kwa dogo stati na maha was it? Very. Ay. Yes. Very because before sikuwa ikwana dem, okay, I wouldn't say from the slums and all that. Uh-huh. And I was told, you know, this is your role. Yes. So I had to look for Deras. I had to look a bit shaggy. Yes. Something that is, this is not you. Ya, this is, this is not me. Ya. At all, at all, at all. So I had to, hei, lasimani kipuliyo karakta vini inafa. Ya. So a lot of things had to change. Oh wow. And now towards the end of, you know, towards the end of the, you know, the last, whatever of the shows, now we saw that you got close to someone else. You know, and we could see that you are close to Ronald Ndubi. Ya. Yes. Yes. And you know, people were speculating that you guys like for real dating, is it true? Ya. I mean, atu juwi dorea. Tu ambi eleo. We are here. I saw that coming. So, ya. Actually, when tu kiyoko set, Yes. had to kwaikwana sinfamoja. Ya, I think so actually am kwaipatana. We had never had to kwaipatana. Actually, I think nili mwana thrice. Ya, kus bide sinzenu za ki za gato, ziko kando, za easy siding in it, za different actually day and time. Ziko kando, and we had never. Ehe. So, what happened? The only time to kwaituna mituki and probably kuna meeting. Yes. Yes. And actually, your meeting nili. Hai, hai. Ehe. And that's it. Yes. Ehe. How is it guys? So. Okay. Before you tell us if it's true or not, what was your first impression of him? Um, the first impression of him. I remember the first time I saw him. I told him, you look familiar. Okay. I don't know. Wait. You guys were like already on set. Ya. You guys were, the program was running when you met him. Yes. Yes. Then you told him you look familiar. Ya, I told him by there you look familiar. Ehe. Oh, ehe. So, kwa is probably kwa ni metuka Saidiya Geto. Ehe. Kwa waza Saidiyao. Ehe. We had a meeting ya. Ya. So he came and told me, hi, how are you? I said, it's fine. Akanya bia. Welcome to set. And I was like, thank you. But I told him, but you look familiar. He told me really, so I thought like, umzit me kwa na eka pas moja, kwa he really, he was so familiar. Ehe. Prior before. Ya, prior before. But I couldn't remember, couldn't recall where I saw him. So, he told me really, na sure kaisiya mo. Ya. He went his way, I went my way, and that was it. Yes. So, and then? These went by, and Shueika Isha. Yes. So we had this project. Ya. We had a project. Ya. Where we used to do high school motivations and all that. Okay. So he called me. Mm hmm. And he told me, ehi. Hi. Apparently he was one of the, you know what one, organizer and all that. So he called and he told me, hi. Hi, he was like, fine. So are you busy today? Mm hmm. I was like, no. So. Natakupatia gig flani, uneza kam. Ya. I was not doing anything in the house. And I was like, cool, fine. Sure. Ehe. I went. Chuka za kupiga job. Yes. Kawahida. And it was, and then we became best of friends. Yes. Ehi, kido gwa replace Silas. Ehi. We became best of friends kwa now we are working together. Ya. We are always together every day. Ya. You know, all that. And so we became best of friends. He used to give me stories and then I used to laugh and I was like, this guy is so funny. You know? Ehi, ehi, ehi. Ukusha skapitua bambua. This guy is funny. Ehi, ehi. Ehi. Ehe. Ya, so. That's it. Okay. Now that's it what. We saw you guys, you know, giving out flowers. We saw you, like just with sort of some intimate moments on social media. What are you telling us, Dorea? Flowers, well. Ya, there's a clip that was going round. Which one? Sometime back over. Ehi, ukumbuki. Edu, edu. Ioka video utatwekeya. Ehi. Ehi. Ehi. Okay, ya, so. So you're just saying you guys are just friends. No, nimi na wajua. Ni ni watu na wajua. But so we became best of friends. Yes. We became best of friends. Okay. I thought we started hanging out. Job imaisha, weekend imaikam. Ya. Tumenda kupati ni ni ni. Yes. You know, I always have to call him. Uko, come to me. Akiyana piya uko, come to me. So we started enjoying each other's company. Yes. Ya, till today. Oh, till today. So you guys are still close? Very close. Do you still guys hang out and just, you know, do jubles? Ya, we really, we really, we do. And he's that one guy who really keeps on pushing me to to do something. Ya. Like Doreya, you have to do this, you have to do this and... Ya. Ya. But that's really good to hear. Now, given a chance to date him, would you date him? And why? What is that one character that you feel? I mean, he has and I would consider dating him. Guys, I've put Doreya on the spot today. I hope Ronald is going to be watching this. I think one thing I love about him is he's a pusha. Okay. He's a pusha and then we're both in the industry. And I find sometimes our goals are, we have the same goal. Yes. You know, we're in the same industry. He really understands me, you know. When I wake up in the morning and feel like, sometimes I wake up and feel like, I don't want to do this. Ya. I'm so tired for doing this. He pushes me. Yes. He pushes me a lot to do it. And he's a big, oh my God. He really supports me. Ya. You know, come up videographer wangu, ajashikasimu, he will wake up as chukwa simu yake. Mono shiki simuza Doreya, you know. Ya. Ya, so he's really a pusha. Ya. And also he's Godfaring. Uhum. Ya, I think to keep an eye on him, lekuwani me legea legea kido go. By the way, that is a pastor. Oh, okay. Hey, pastor's daughter. I know. That is a pastor and then my mum interprets. Yes. Oh, okay. I can imagine. Ehe. So lekuwani me legea legea kido go. So we met and he really used to give me, he gave me his story about how he got to Maria and I was shocked. Ya. You know, he fasted for 22 days and I was like, oh my God. Oh, wow. Ya, look who is this. Ya. So, ah, it was, I don't know. I just, we had so much in common. Yes. And I mean, we all need such a person in our lives. Whether romantic or just, you know, platonic. We definitely need such a person in our lives. Guys, do you have someone like what Doria has in her life? Tell us down below. Now, Doria, I mean, I, um, you know, looking at, now he just told me you're a pastor's daughter. Wow. How was it growing up in a family, you know, prayers, nini, nini? Why? How was it? Hey, my dad is daf. Ehe. You know those dads, like he's a pastor and he wants you to be what he wants you to be. And you are on top, he's an African father. I know, I know. Tell me about it. I know he's going to watch this, but I really appreciate because he bolded me to who I am today. Ya. He's a pastor and I remember we used to wake up every Saturday at four, pray from four to six. Yes. You know. And then the Bible, ah, and then not. Morning glory, lazima msome verses. Lazima, lazima nai, lazii, it's a must. Me, I can do that. My parents were not pastors, but we used to do that. So I can imagine yours. You can imagine mine is by force, by fire, like you have to do it. And then my dad was very strict and I would say he was very protective. Okay. Hey, wehe. I think kuna, kuna mabizuna, karimu watatwa mengizwa ndani jiyangu. Ehe. Ya, wehe. When campers, like I used to, he used to, if I did, does it try and date somebody? Yes. Hey, he would come to school. Kwa ni ulu kuna mwambia? Ah, ah, ata sketun study. Ako na sisi tvia meweka tamwe. And then we came to home, paleka estate, nuneka na timna, ujoyla ekuongi akumalabala, akin na ulu kua na semana, awaza zewa. I know. Una kwa bako na information. Iote. And then they gave me the number of that guy. Where? No words you do. No jokes. Ya. You have to give. Of course. Yes. And I will never, ever forget. There was a time when I was in KBC, so to li kuna wago. You know wago? Yes. Yes. So we had gone to, you know, tukuna bitukotuna discuss the job and all that, because you also used to work in KBC. But then. Hey, my dad had a story. Yes. Ati, ati, senokwa li patikana na ukijana. You know wago alishikwa? For two days. Wow. Hey, your dad is the... What? She's the eldest. I know wago is gonna watch this, but he can... Oh my God. Are you serious? Alishikwa. Alishikwa. Sharo to your dad. He's the baddest. So, Akulizu, what are you doing with my daughter? Are you afford to pay her school fees? Oh. Okay. Well, so I became so... I really didn't... li lukuna ugopwa na ume. Ya. Sana, sana kus I couldn't want that a babangwa skating li lukuna kijana mahali. Yes. You know, and then, kafiutai milikua six home. Hai, tutomstia na na patikana kwa gizambo, na what? Na zima ofiki, na kama ume chelewa six imefika inje, you have to text. Yes. Hai dad, I'm gonna get lit because of ABCD, the Astrophic or ABCD. Yes. So, I grew up nikia ugopwa na ume sana kus. He? Ya. Now, I'd really like to know the transition of now you moving out and now just having your freedom and making your decisions and just dressing up the way you'd like to dress up without just the fear of your your pastor's child. How was it? Did you guys some friction with your parents? Amma ilikuwaji. Amata sayi, but do you go? A lot. We really, we really mean him a dad. Yes. We fought. Not physically. No, not physically, but yeah. Yeah. Bye bye. You wanna, if you wanna, and me I have, I'm here trying to question him. Bono na ne. You know, it was a lot of... I'm a grown up woman, you know? Yeah. Let me do whatever. Plus, okay, honestly speaking, I felt like he's really pushing us to, you know, waking up at four to pray. Yeah. Probably that's not me. Yes. You know, that's not me. But at some point, my, my shocho intervened. Yeah. And I kawangeleshwa and you know, he was told she has a life. Yes. Let her be, let's, you know, let her be to a point I didn't even have a home. Yeah, because you couldn't stand without a ziwa anymore. Yeah, like, I couldn't stand. Yeah. But I'll you know, I'll you know, I'll you know, I couldn't fit in this. Yeah. Gradually. Yes. Like any bado I can bet, there are just things when you, you have a second thought before you do like what is my dad going to think? I know even today to have to be very, I have to be very keen of what I'm doing. Yeah. I have to be very keen of what I'm doing. I have to be very keen of what I'm doing. Okay. Okay. Mm hmm. Mm hmm. Ronda nani. Ronda nani. Okay. We already nani to naskia. We already naskia. We already naskia. We already naskia. We already naskia. I have to be very keen in a strategic of, and showa of what I'm doing. Yeah. Yeah, I'm able to say and I'm able to answer. Yeah. And just explain us. Of course at the end of the day yes you are grown up but these are your parents so respect is constant for showa. Yes. Okay. Hey that's good to know. That's a story. You guys, did you guys know that? I mean that's newt and it's actually very good to hear from you. Now what is it actually that you'd like to tell? Parents who are very strict to their kids. You know? Now that you're older you can make your own decisions. You could even have your children and bring them up. What you do like to tell those parents that actually very strict to their kids? I think what I would say is parents need to understand their kids first. Understand who they are. Understand they are what they like, what they don't like. You know? By the end of the day you are the parents fine but you also need to consider your kid. Yes. You see? And don't be too strict. Get to understand what your baby wants as well. It's not all over. You know? Sometimes it's never all about your parenting. Last month when you A, B, C, D, E, F, no, no, no, no. Also listen to me. Do I really? How do I feel about the rules? You see? Yeah. Like we can have a conversation that day ok, ni sawa nita kwa nga ingia 6 but ni kichelewa ni kubalisha nga ingia 6 30 because kuna trafi kuna ni usini usini push sana. Yeah. You know? Yeah. Listen to me as well. Yeah. And I feel like we didn't really get such a chance growing up. You know? We didn't get a chance to have a voice. We didn't have a voice. Like it... Juhaki itulukuatuna kwanza siitulukuatu na mkasu bimadiana sama aya moge tuna nda usiago akyu kukumu kama na nda sujuku vuka magi mutwe viya tu sijui eh Acha you did not sleep knowing psychologically wuna nda usiago. You know? And I feel like we are not really blaming them because they also probably didn't know any better. But personally I think I would prepare my kids for such things and just place them in a position to make a decision for them or just give them options. You know? Muna taka kwa nda kwa sho sho this weekend ama next weekend. Exactly. I manisha tu ta nda but wuna feel you can make a decision. Eni we hei mi simza zi but eh ni experience took it logo. Now Doria you came up one day surprised us with a poster over Politico aspirant. Nairobi women rap. Because why not? I mean why not? Why not? You know I was asking myself the other day I was asking I was talking to my videographer and I asked him. I mean everyone explained me to start from being an MCA or an MPE or just you know You know people felt like this is a big seat for you too. You know to be you know for a start is a very big seat and I felt like why not? I mean I mean Yeah what do you what does everyone else have that you don't have? Exactly. Yeah. Ku jamimi ya no kichu nashina kwa ni kia mibiawatu jamimi ya I mean you women rap seat nia na nini yangu Yeah. Eh nini yangu si lasma nia zekwa MCA I mean yeah if you feel you can step into the shoes then why not? Why not? Now what went into your mind by the time you were deciding you want to do this? What went through my mind? Yeah because I'm sure you did not just wake up today I want to be women repapana What pushed you to make such a decision? Because I've been to I've been doing high school missions Yes. And man we normally have this Q&A session you know we are just right whatever you feel in a kusumbwa and don't write your name Yes. Then place it here then we go through all those questions Yes. And oh my god girls are really going through a lot I can imagine a lot the same thing kru di nyumaki dog about our parents we don't I think nowadays parents are so busy we are okay not really parents everybody is so busy to look for money and to pay bills and all that and we lack that time to listen to our kids and I felt like wow kids are really going through a lot a lot and I felt like our say was kizuna nani you know also teachers to yatakwa kuna they're so busy they are they're busy as you can see the curriculum has changed everything has changed they're also in a run you know then they move every time they don't have that time to listen to the kids no yeah you know you know guidance and counseling sessions zilienda api hey I think but departments in a kuanga just not so sure they're just there it is just a formality it's just there and that is very sad bearing in mind how we have so many mental health issues in this country right now a lot yeah a lot and I felt like you know what I need to study this gap and protect our girls yeah you know and protect women they need someone at least I have that kusmol you know at least muneza niita mamu tu mingina niite what if of someone minyakwa poinje they have some they want something to share you know they have some that they want to share but they don't have an opportunity but I do yeah yeah the small opportunity that I have let me let me use it yeah and I protect our girls and protect our women in the society yeah what to hear I mean it's a very it's more less like a manifesto that is it's a vision that is pushing you to do something yes and that is so good to hear now Doriya I would like to know as well what are some of the challenges that you first since you decided you were telling your fans that you're vying and you want to get into this what are some of the challenges especially being a woman in politics also being in my position like in our celebrity I get so many DMs in a day yeah like so many names na kuja na kwambia oh my god I have three kids we haven't eaten for three days that's heart breaking like we haven't eaten for three days and I felt like out of all that I felt like like what's really what can I do what can I do I as Doriya what's up kwa invovun to mingine mimi kama Doriya what can I do people are really going through a lot women I get DMs and I'm always like Jesus and by then of the day the ways to make him to do ways you can because at the end of the day you also need to do your things and also sometime kwa mimi kambia jaku launafakum patia food bashtapatia watu wangapii na de piawa mimi nia wajad jweza villia tiyo desa sa idea watu inginesana you know and I decided why not I decided to come up with this thing of going to the roads jukamu mimi ona your project tango yeah and I wrote if you're feeling low and you need someone to talk to come hug me yes I went yeah it was not easy it was hard I can imagine kuna imagine wwe na mimi na mese mama pale alafu na shika akimdu na apuja jatu anona some people used to look at me like are you serious yeah what are you doing you think it's helping I know any kuna mitua liniuli zanga kwa DM so mitua me kuja me wkambia jaku la alafu na patia hagi na msi dana mini and I'm like goodness why haven't you started your own yeah when of what she had in food you know that's the worst thing with people you know out here the kibbut warriors you'll always find someone ilasmapa te kamakosa mahali apuja kitu and I'm like oh my god why don't you just see the little things that someone has done yeah and they go a long way trust me a long way they go a long way yes I saw I started that project yes kuna kwa bara bara yeah and let me tell you it's been so heavy on me like I remember the first time when you na pali juja and a guy came if you watched a guy came talked to me akimbiya bai the way as I was walking kwa na modem I'm selling my house items oh my god you know he hasn't eaten yeah he hasn't paid rent he's one who takes care of the families and he's in school so na huza hi modem and all that and I'm like huja kula it's like here I haven't eaten I had to give him something at least for him to eat at least that's the day asiku fete nanja asiku hag tupe kiake and then mama came with a kid yes akana embedoria you know I haven't eaten for three days my baby hasn't eaten anything I just need something to it's not money just something to eat I remember I had something in the car I gave her and she oh god she was so happy and you could see it on her face you know and I was like god what is really happening in the society what do hawa na kazi kazi sasasu na jo an employment rates in this country are very high yeh nitu na kuja kwa diema na kumbebe I have this talent but see na door she didn't answer wapi and I'm like we have so many talent out here but it seemed to have come to a kusanyaawa to water and then we start something yeh you know yeh umsekiya na deka projecti ake zyu kubaliwa kweli kus you find out the same same people lakwa gana project nuwao to the same witaru diwa tena na tena na tena one hour swing ina wasi bati opportunity and yeh we I mean come to think of it we need someone who can actually just help us do the small things and you know it might sound so it might sound like a fictional story Doria is telling us atikunam tuwa kwa na chakula ali la lanja eh iyo chakula una take for granted atim kwa na skuma na ugali una shinango kiki complain na muna nyama lemi tell you kuna mtu monya kipatio skuma na ugali ana appreciate yeh nyata ni chafu atakula you know so some things we take for granted really I mean please learn from this story and just learn to appreciate the small things now Doria atikim ali zia iwo musho musho you know being a women rep you need this money you need money to campaign you need millions I know what are the plans wuluku mewa kakwa bank kukini ni ama where are you planning to get the finances I don't have money yeh I don't have money I know someone will come through eh you are manifesting as po nyo yeh I am not sure in the political yeh you are a sponsor who can partner you know and just give you money exactly ehe I don't have money and I said it last time yeh jika mo list kiza nilisa wa misinado yeh I don't have money yeh but I know we have nice people out here yeh I know we have amazing people out here people who come through people who can believe in your dream and your vision yeh yeh yeh yeh guys and I'm very optimistic about it with no doubts yeh yeh ok despo nyo that is out here that believes in Doria's you know vision and dream please come through you know go to her DM and just talk to her and make you know her vision come to yeh now I also like to know would you actually forgive cheating wow let's join him and skip from this to this would you forgive cheating yes you would how come because I believe every human being needs a second chance ok yes because I mean God forgive us 777 times I mean why not but are we a gods we are not gods are we able to do 700 I believe we need second chances yes and uh not because that yeah because na believe even when they would cheat no no no no life happens yeah sometimes when you get you get yourself in situations like and you're like you didn't know what to do yes you did not know how to get yourself out of that situation you know it's true it's true and come you say maa come I mean as a jipata your situation yeh I expect you come when you forgive yes you know yeh I want to forgive aha but do you feel like because we all know for men it's a bit hard for them to forgive yeh but women forgive every now and then what is it that you'd like to tell a man that actually has the heart of Mimi I would never forgive a woman if she cheats on me I don't know where that notion came from yeh but you all men are allowed to cheat women can't the society the africans do you what what what what where they me only say yeh nivingo una jipe baka dem yeh okiji beba tiyo anezen na chituhu na rudi kuako then that would be atakwa inga tuivo yeh but okiji beba vene like you don't you cannot hey let me tell you if you dare cheat on me yeh it's done but you know Doria sometimes women want to live yeh but you have three kids or four kids they are in school you're not financially stable now you decide am I taking these kids to the street or I'm just going to stay don't leave to impress that's what I'm saying sometimes you know a human being is a second chance yeh bachaki zoe apia afaiku zoe just ones okina merudia tiyo na tiyo na na yeh yeh then we encourage a woman who's in such a relationship maybe it's even abusive but because she's not financially stable she's unable to live just encourage that woman today I think what I would tell you is sila zima by the sila zima na umse umse jaku bebe alaisiyako you know you can wake up and start doing something you can wake up and create something and you you know you're able to raise your kids with that thing you know but sila zima if actually you're in an abusive relationship aki mi what I would tell you is toka sa easy toka as in if you're in a toxic relationship toka sa easy because yeh unaskewia tawana wana yeh yeh wana wana day in day out yeh if you see if you just spot a red flag I mean baby girl toka na wukinbia save your life yeh save your heart what I would say is just save your heart kwa sisi aki sisi hei hat zetu na pangafragil kabi sa kabi sa and you know actually people don't know what mental abuse amata you know it does to a woman yeh you know cheating itself it does a lot wana chukulia have you ever been heartbroken? hei I have character develop men how long will they take you to heal it took me a long time it took me years to heal because I had invested my feelings I had invested literally everything in that particular relationship you know but I healed at the end of the day it is all about perspective if you set yourself that I'm healing I you will imagine imagine you will it is not the end of the world yeh I always pretend heals yeh it does it's just a matter of time for sure yeh my last question yeh would you keep a man who's that man is struggling lakini aki anapute effort na anafanya kazi tu semeza samambu aki agendam zurifu like 3 years nime unam shugulikia rent nini would you actually do that for a man yes I come and what's the motivation behind that because my mom and dad they started off from like my dad was selling mandizi yeh like ali kwa na uza mandizi wana afizana kukuchu kwa mandizi wana kwa gari yeh ali kwa na fanya yo job and my mom was in campus so when they got me she was still in campus she was still in school and she always gives me their story and when I look at them right now they have achieved almost like what I would want to achieve you know and I always look at them I admire them you know sometimes he's never about money nia it's never because I think this society people when they hear kanga like it's it's money it's about money you can have all the money but you don't have peace nia for sure a hundred percent you see you can have all the money but you're not happy nia and I believe happiness comes first nia it does happiness comes first peace comes first nia hey let me tell you pesa nibwerere like hey nukweli by the way it's true nia pesa nibwerere and I would say I can you can as long as I see your your visions I can't and actually you see they are putting in the work see at tp and all that exactly nia because me I believe in you know growing together nia so beautiful you can imagine from nia to something and such reminding you know reminding people or your kids telling them the story like how we started it's such a beautiful thing so I mean ustegeme do yamze nia I really like how positive you are about that but also do you do you feel like we women are not the same as our mothers and the men right now are not the same as our fathers do you feel these agap these are difference these are big difference nia the society has really changed nia not everything is about money nia kama na do simtaki you know you rather take someone who is so old because they have money and you don't care about they don't care about happiness you don't care about you please you don't care wana liya kwa range but what I always say the moment umengia hapo nia that's when you realize haia when it's never about kwa grounds literally different kwa kus na patangasa amyansa kwa cheat nia and it's nothing you can do because it's exactly exactly controlling you so when would you put yourself in such a household not worth it it's not worth it nia kus piyama wana zitof tiyana of kus exactly you can nia I always encourage women just get your own money the men get your own money ya let's meet together and do something just good you know raise a family anyway that's a that's a topic kenya watu wawa agriwe you know an agriwe but it's so good na Rorya please let talk to your fans your last words what I would say is to all my fans first of all I just wanna say thank you from the bottom of my of my heart thank you for always supporting what I do I really I really really appreciate you guys so also hey watu wengi wama come up bayae hey watu wama come up saying it's good it's good by the way it's good and congratulations but what I would say is so many people are coming up but nijokes so on atma piya sistitu kai kama mi nijoka nijoka exactly so by the way I'm very serious about this watch me do this watch me do this and I what I would say my last words is always put God first in everything that you do because without God nothing is possible wow now also tuki malizia by the way me kumukas kukuliza wale watu walu kwa na kutreten messages nini wali wacha ama hey waya zia chaa siwa nu na nimi kambibaya waya zia chaa badu wako badu wako how you taking it hi he haa haa haa haa haa laifiyangu of kusama I'm afraid of my life yeah but things will get better yeah I hope yeah I really like how positive you are plus I mean I can see you already have a team behind here yeah e umansok teme na bodi gad mape ma now na hee hee hee siya sagara mape ya but anyway thank you so much Doria yeah we really wish you all the best thank you during the nomination we are coming through just to see where you are we document we give our fans yes utuambie manager manager kwaapa utatuambia sindio make sure you keep us informed guys Doria is working with our whole team eh anyway nimi electriki kwa onesha ne uta wa onesha next time thank you so much for coming through to us kambas thank you for having me as well and just talking to us thank you so much all right that was Doria chege orata Magi Maria please make sure you follow her on our social media platforms so that you can get informed on what exactly she's up to her political aspirations and what exactly she's planning on her manifesto my name is Miss Kithingi and until next time this was Bars with Stars right here on SPM Bars goodbye