 Beside the pursuit of happiness, the dream of most young boys is to figure out how to make themselves likeable by ladies. It is one of the most pervasive thoughts that young people entertain. All ladies are generally beautiful, but for guys, beauty is not something they excel in. Ladies typically find guys attractive for their muscular features and voice rather than facial looks. How then can a young man tell the things that girls find unattractive to avoid them? According to Business Insider, there are things that make you instantly unattractive and only a few of them are related to your physical appearance. So for those of you fiddling over belly pouch, there is so much more to attractiveness than physical appearance. In today's video, I am going to share with you 15 things girls find unattractive in men. 1. Always obsessing over the gym. Maybe it's hot to gym every day and look like Brad Pitt, but no woman wants you to look at her like she is getting overweight or not eating a proper diet just because you are. It is natural for guys who gym to want their girlfriends or partner also to be fit, but it is not something that your partner has to decide. Using direct and indirect means to coerce any girl to readjust her lifestyle to suit your taste is oppressive. Women find it very unattractive. They will feel like you are interested in them only because of their body and nothing If you go down that path, it is not easy to come back from it. According to heart, sometimes a girl just want to eat pizza in her PG's in peace without judging stairs from her boyfriend. Don't make your girlfriend feel uncomfortable. If you do, you will be alone pretty fast. The sad part is that we live in a small world. What will spread if she leaves you because she thinks you are only interested in her body? She will tell her friends. They too will tell their friends. Having low self-esteem Low self-confidence is something women do not like at all. Imagine a guy who is pushed around by everyone and listens to everyone. Such people do not often have opinion of their own. How then will they protect a lady when something goes wrong? Women want to be with successful men and people who don't have confidence cannot be successful. They can spot this right away and will avoid you. On the other hand, trying to build confidence to impress a lady is lame. It is better to build confidence towards your dreams than to impress anyone. As you grow, your interest in such a person will fade and if that was your driving force, you will lose them. But if you pick up your interest and decide to make something out of your life, then you are on your way to success. People come and go but the purpose is something that stays with you for the rest of your life. Whoever didn't value you has no place in your life right now. 3. Having a poor sense of humor No one wants to be with someone who is serious all the time. Imagine going on three dates with someone and nothing made the two of you laugh. It is probably going to be a boring relationship if you guys ever start one at all. Being able to make your partner smile is the key to a very fun relationship. What will the two of you do if you get married and don't have kids yet? Talk about boring things all day? One of you may become unfaithful. As a young man, it is easy to get a sense of humor. Watch a lot of movies and hang out with friends. Don't be a loner. You will learn different types of humor. The best part is that you don't even have to make a conscious effort. You learn simply by interacting with people. Don't make bad jokes though. They can also make you unattractive. It will make you come off as insensitive. Imagine making a joke about a girl's gait. Even if she works funny, how is telling her dad supposed to make you guys friends? If you don't know what to say, just smile and say hi. The rest will work itself out. 4. Having a lazy attitude The right attitude to work and life apparently doesn't apply only to personal self-development. It applies a lot in relationships. A girl who thinks you are always lazy will not find you attractive. Imagine dating someone too lazy to wash his clothes by putting them in a washing machine. Or dating someone who is too lazy to work hard for a promotion but just want to remain in the same apartment. Eat the same type of food and watch the same TV shows. While there is something wrong with watching your favorite TV show, women don't like men without ambition. Ambition means that you have a dream and you are willing to work towards it. It also means that your current status quo is not permanent. A hard-working girl who works 10 hours a day at McKinsey will not date a 40-year-old man who has worked for 10 years and haven't even saved enough for a car. 5. This honesty No one likes this honesty. It is very easy to lie but no one enjoys being lied to. The position is the same with women. Women finds lies unattractive. Please don't lie to her half for any reason. If she finds out, they usually do. She will never trust you again. 6. Heavy smoking and drinking Drinking is a big problem in the world. According to medical news today, at the global level, the team found that the total volume of alcohol consumed per year increased by a smarge of 70% between 1990 and 2017 from 20,999 million liters per year to 35,676 million liters per year. There's really nothing wrong with a bottle of beer once in a while but consistent intake of alcohol has adverse health consequences. It can lead to liver failure and numerous brain-related diseases. If you always have a bottle and a stick of cigarette, she will find you unattractive. Men like this typically hit women and rape them. Why would a sane woman do that? 7. Not having good manners Laughing loudly at a bar and coughing bottles off the bottle of beer is not going to win you any awards. No girl will want to hang out with you if you behave this way. If you meet someone for the first time and start making sexual advances, what kind of man are you? You need to behave yourself, staying on your own at a party, or just observing the scenery can get a girl's attention faster than screaming on the top of your voice and being a menace. 8. Throwing cash around Some men have already met their financial goals and like to throw their money around. That type of behavior will not get you any girlfriends, only people who want to suck you dry. You need to understand, people like good things after all. It is not a good thing to do, it is a bad thing to do. You need to understand, people like good things after all. It is better to meet someone and get to know them without revealing your net worth. That way, you know your real intentions of being with you. Spending money on expensive dinners and boasting will just make you more and more unattractive to serious people. 9. Taking longer to get ready Women take a long time to get ready. If you're like this too, it can make you unattractive. They expect you to dress up faster and then wait for her. Also, taking a shower for hours and spending over 30 minutes dressing up can be annoying, especially because you are not working on makeup or other beauty rituals that usually take time. 10. Always talking about your previous dates Women actually prefer men that have dated other women. They are more sure of themselves and are waiting to work on their new relationship to not end up like the old one. The trouble with this is that sometimes the guy can start making too many references to his other relationships. This actually makes you unattractive. 11. Too much ego Men have a lot of ego. But then, there's a standard of expectation that most women have. One of them is that the man's ego should not prevent him from apologizing when he is wrong. If the man's ego is too much, women can find him unattractive. No one wants to be mischeated because of your ego. 12. Being too clingy and needy It is okay to need help. Women need help too sometimes. But women do not find men who need help all the time attractive at all. They are like babies and no younger wants to play model to a boyfriend. As a man, you shouldn't tell the woman all your problems. Just work on them and only tell her what she needs to know. If she fuses your lack of strength, she might leave you. 13. Being a mommy's boy Imagine a 30-year-old who requires his mother's opinion to decide his dress, shoes, food and even the girl he would date. Women don't like those type of men at all. 14. Costing all the time People who always swear at the slightest provocation are beaten stoppable and women find them very unattractive. What if his swearing is no more sufficient? He may actually go ahead and hit her. Women look after themselves and will not be with such a man. 15. Always complaining No one likes people who complain. Women do not like men who complain. People who complain carry negative vibes and no one wants to associate with that. It is not easy to be positive when things don't look good but you have to try.