 Isn't it fascinating that two people will have sex together and barely have any trust, any vulnerability, very little sharing of the intimate parts of who you are? And yet to me, physical intimacy, sex, is one of the most intimate things you can do. While Jay Shetty says in his new book, it takes about 40 hours to get to know someone at a base level. I say it takes 100 hours of face to face time just to reach level one of trust. And Jay goes on to say it takes about 200 hours to build a friendship with someone, 200 hours. And that is face to face. That isn't over the telephone. That's a lot of time and yet people will have sex barely knowing someone, barely knowing someone for a few hours of their life.