 What's going on you guys? Welcome to the single guy channel. My name is Lloyd We're gonna be talking today about how to touch a girl to turn her on So when you're touching a woman two things can happen either she can really like it She can want more of it. She can be aroused. She can be having fun feeling sexy or she can be feeling creeped out Unsafe uncomfortable and doesn't want to interact with you again You're both probably gonna feel pretty horrible after that situation. Okay now I might be exaggerating a little bit, but a lot of my students and clients fear being put into the bad category So if you'll watch this video, you're gonna know exactly how to be put into the good category Okay, this is something that I've gotten good at doing. I'm a very physical person But obviously when I first started out, I wasn't good at this Okay So you're gonna learn exactly how to touch a woman to turn her on in this video Okay The first thing that you should know about how to touch a girl to turn her on is that the biggest deterrent For being touched for physically escalating with a woman is fear her safety is the most important thing She's worried about you know, she's dealing with a guy that's bigger than her So how do you touch her in a way that's gonna make her feel safe? You start out small Start out with like a high five a hug or something That's platonic where even if it doesn't work out even if you guys aren't planning on hooking up or dating You know, it can still go okay. I high five and hug my friends, you know people that I'm not interested in So that's one thing you can start doing too is add a little bit of physicality to you know With the people that you hang out with and see how they respond to you You always want to see how somebody responds if I give somebody a high five like this and they just kind of high five and move Away that probably means they don't want me to touch them again. That's totally okay. All right now If I high five them and they do this That means they're into me that means they want me to keep touching them Okay, they you know, they're cool with me being in their space if you get that that's telling you that's kind of giving you the green Light to continue talking to this person to continue progressing things forward All right, I would start out with a hand-to-hand thing Then you can go to like a hand-to-shoulder thing and you don't want to linger the guys who linger with the touching Create people out the way you make somebody save or something the way you make somebody Appreciate something that much more is you take it away People don't really they're like if you touch a girl and at first maybe she might be a little bit There's gonna be a little bit of danger It's gonna be a little bit stranger factor in there But then you take it away and she was like, huh, I kind of like that, you know Maybe I'd like for him to touch me again But if you keep your hand there and you just that's gonna be all bad You're gonna creep her out. All right So after you've maybe done a hand-to-shoulder or something like that You can go for a hug or hand-to-waste or something like that again pay attention as she responds to you If you touch her and she moves her shoulder away like that. Don't touch her again Okay back off a little bit and maybe if she's hanging around you and she's still talking to you She still wants to be in your space then probably she wants you to try again She maybe she's more comfortable now. All right, but you have to pay attention the way she acts But if you touch her and she kind of like sinks into it or she's fully okay with being into it Or she reciprocates that's great But usually I just pay attention to the way they react when I when I touch them Okay, so if you're in that position you can you can go to the next stage Which is typically like a hug now if she gives you a hug and she's holding on to you That's great. The next stage after a hug is actually a kiss What I usually do is I usually see how they hug me if they're holding me in if they're squeezing me close And their faces are close and then we back off and then we're Faces are almost touching that probably means she wants you to kiss her Okay, but if she gives you the t-rex hug and a pat on the back and stays away from you Probably doesn't want you to do that again. We're paying attention to the way she's responding to you so whether you're doing this and this thing this is taking place over You know ten dates or whether this is you literally met somebody and within five seconds You're making out which you know admittedly my early 20s. I've done a lot you go through the same process You know for a five-second make out would be something like this You like you see her you make eye contact you extend your hand She touches it interlocking the fingers you bring her in and you go for a little make out and then you know usually Depending on how like well, you know how ready she is or how late the night is you could probably take her home pretty quickly Okay, again, you're seeing how she's responding to you Okay, and the other thing that you guys got to do too And this is probably the most important thing that I see guys mess up with consistently is they hesitate Do not hesitate by the way It doesn't mean go shooting in and go straight for the kiss start with small steps But when you do them don't like be shaking your hand and be like faking people out the more hesitant you are the more Creepy you are basically you're telling her I don't feel confident enough in myself to actually be doing things Don't go in with 99% belief go in with a hundred percent belief And if you mess up maybe she's not okay with it just back off Okay, the way that you know you've gone too far and you don't have a shot is if she If as if she recoils or something like that and she turns her back to you Okay, I remember there was one time where I was on a date where I tried to kiss this girl like Five times and then by the sixth time she was always doing this whether she was like turning her head like no no no But she was always looking back at me She was our body language is always facing me and because of that I knew she was still interested in me and by the sixth time she let me kiss her We made out she hugged my body and then we both went home together Okay, but if I had tried to kiss her she had turned her cheek and then turned away from me and then gone off someplace else Obviously that means she done want me to do that again, and she doesn't want anything to do with me Honestly, okay, so if you mess up just apologize and move on to something else Okay, all right you guys that's how to turn touch a girl to turn her on if you do this right you guys You're gonna be getting women who want you to touch them more But you have to respond to the way somebody is acting towards you You got to go in with a hundred percent belief if you do those things Then you're gonna be ahead of like 99% of guys out there because most of what I've seen when the clients that you know Not just my clients but guys in general is they just don't know how to do this So for the guys that I've seen doing this doesn't matter how good-looking they are doesn't matter like that source I've seen the best-looking guys Completely mess things up with women and I've seen guys that aren't that good-looking Get girls that are way above their mate value because they understand this All right, thanks for watching you guys that come up with videos like this every single week If you're interested in getting coached by me there's a link down in the description box below. Thanks a lot y'all