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My name is Lloyd, so I've noticed a lot of problems with my clients and a lot of the viewers of my channel That when they go up and talk to a woman or a girl that they think is really pretty They can't keep her interested and it's a lot of the time because they're speaking in a very submissive tone when they speak to them Meaning when they walk up they talk in a really high-pitched voice, so they'll say something like hi my name's Lloyd Rather than hey, my name's Lloyd nice to meet you There's a very big difference between the two so in this video basically what I'm going to cover is I'm going to cover how to have a more Attractive vocal tonality when you're talking to women because studies have proven across the board that women prefer a man with a deeper voice But really what they're saying is that they prefer a guy who sounds more confident and if you come in with a you know A high-pitched voice you're gonna sound less confident You're gonna sound more submissive and that's not what women want women want a dominant guy rather than a submissive guy So basically in this video where I'm gonna be giving you is I'm gonna be giving you five easy tips that you can use to make yourself More attractive when you speak okay It's gonna deepen your voice and you're gonna sound a lot more confident and dominant when you're speaking to a woman Okay, before I get into the first tip if you guys are interested in getting coached by me one-on-one And I guarantee you we will take a look at your voice and make sure you're not sounding like a total bitch when you talk to these women Fill out the form down below if we feel like you're a good fit. We'll get back to you Okay, cool So the first tip that I'm going to give you is vocal exercises Believe it or not you guys you can change your voice with vocal exercises if you sound really high-pitched You can make it sound lower. You can make yourself sound more confident now I'm gonna try to give you a realistic goal in for this meaning if you sound like a chipmunk You're probably not gonna sound like Darth Vader after only doing these vocal exercises for about a month Okay, that's way too big of a jump But if you do these consistently over a long period of time, you're gonna notice your voice starts to change Okay, so the first exercise that I'm gonna give you is the gugs so I to give this to my students a lot basically it's good good good good Now when you make the gugs out it makes a very low sounding sound and it works the muscles that are going to make your voice lower Okay, so that's one I would do that You know you do that for a minute a day or something like that and notice some improvements The second one is going to be humming. So if you hum Try and get your voice as low as possible. So go Try and get your voice really low This is gonna train your voice again to work those muscles now at first when you do this if you go too low You can it might hurt your voice a little bit So be careful if it hurts go back up and do the level you feel comfortable with but you know pushing the barrier And so when you do this consistently, you're basically gonna be able to go lower and lower and lower And then your voice is gonna sound a lot deeper. The next thing too that I'm gonna give you is yawning Yawning lowers your voice even if you force yawn. So like Oh Okay, yawning is going to make your voice like you see how low my voice got when I yawned That's gonna work those muscles, too So sometimes if I'm about to go shoot a video or go out sometimes I'll do a few of these exercises before I go out, you know I'll yawn a bit hum a bit do a few gugs and those things usually get my voice to where I want it to be Okay, cool. The second thing is to pay attention to your voice Especially pay attention to the way that you're ending sentences if you're ending sentences with an upward inflection Like it's everything's a question And you're a girl from la Then you're gonna sound really submissive basically what you're telling the person is you're asking the person permission Because everything's a question like is it okay what i'm saying is this okay? Hi, my name's loid. No any things more definitely. Hey, how's it going? My name's loid How's that? Oh interesting You know these things are a lot better than sounding with an upward inflection, right? So pay attention to it if you pay attention to it, you'll notice when you do it and you'll correct it It's the same thing like when you work on your posture Like the best way to work on your posture is to pay attention to your posture So pay attention to the way that you're speaking guys Okay, uh the next one is you want to speak from your core speak from lower down I try and speak from my stomach, but in reality it's probably coming from my chest because that's where my lungs are Okay, if you're speaking from your throat your voice is going to sound really high-pitched and you're going to burn out your voice Very very quickly. So speak from lower down Okay, the way that you know where you're speaking from is to do the vocal exercises that I just mentioned And then what you want to do is like put your hand over the areas of your body where you feel like the voice is coming from And if you don't feel any vibrations down here that means you're not using your lower your lower body So play around with that. You know, you can do the humming exercise you can go And find out where the vibrations are and if they you don't feel any vibrations there Well, that means we have to focus on going lower and lower Okay, cool. Also, too, this brings me to my fourth point which is Find your tension spots Okay, whenever we're in a tense situation whenever we're feeling anxious or we're talking to a person They were a little intimidated by whether it's a hot girl or maybe you're at a networking event You're talking to some guy who's really important Our voices will tend to go up really high-pitched. We'll start speaking faster We'll not be as confident when we're talking and then when things with that upper inflection So make sure that when you do this you notice what parts of your body are tensing up And remember to relax those areas whenever you're tensing your muscles up You're restricting the amount of air you can flow through your lungs And you're restricting the use of your muscles in those areas too So if I like I'll give you an example when I talk to a girl, um That I think is really hot like years ago a long time ago I remember I used to flex my stomach because I wanted to look good, right? I want to look like I have a six pack or something like that But in reality what I was doing was I was tensing up my body And I was making my voice sound really high-pitched and nasally while I did it Because the truth is you know women kind of care about what your stomach looks like But they really care about what your voice sounds like So it would have been better if I just relaxed my stomach a little bit Had a little bit of a pooch in my belly, you know If I'd eat just eating or something like that And have a strong confident sounding voice that would have raised my chances a lot more And that's what I do right now So if you find yourself being tense in a certain situation pay attention to that relax those muscles Okay, the more you relax the better your voice is going to sound Okay, and the final thing that I'm going to give you guys is pay attention to your state So a lot of this is kind of observing the way that you talk and also to pay attention to how nervous you get Not just the spots that wear your tense But pay attention to how your voice sounds when you're nervous Pay attention to how your voice sounds when you're really stressed out Do you start speeding up like a lot of people do, you know, I've won a lot of awards You know in speaking competitions with toast masters. I'm actually a district champion in toast masters And I noticed that a lot of people when they go up and speak in front of a crowd They tend to speak a lot faster than they do when they're practicing their speech So I always say, you know, if your speech is like You know seven minutes long you're probably going to end it at around six minutes Or sometimes I've even seen people go to five minutes when they end up speaking And it's because they're really nervous. So notice how you speak when you're nervous You're in a tense situation and then Make a conscious effort to correct it. So if you notice it at first, that means you can consciously correct it So before when I first started noticing this and I would talk to someone like a really pretty girl or something like that Or or a guy that I really looked up to Or a woman that I really looked up to too I would get nervous and I would start to think like I would start to speak fast I would start to mumble. I actually used to have a stutter when I was younger. So I I end up stuttering I end up doing that sort of thing But what I do now is I Know that it's there. I concentrate on speaking slowly and basically everything sounds fine So I sound really really confident although in the moment I might not be feeling that exact way. I might be feeling really nervous But I sound good And so for enough for a lot of people that's enough Okay, cool. So those are the five tips that I have for you guys If you guys have any questions about this put them in the comment section below guys If you're looking to find a group of like-minded guys, please join my facebook group I actually respond to things a lot quicker on there than I will be an email or Further it's posted as a youtube comment. I'm having trouble responding to all the comments these days Just because I get I get way too many messages these days So um and also if you are interested in my live training schedule Like you want to be trained by me in person Dude take a look at my live training schedule if there's a city in there That's not listed and enough people want me to come to it. I will come So put that down there put the dates that you're thinking of coming to um, and then we'll talk So thanks a lot you guys. Good luck out there