 The accusation is that God is a narcissist. When God demands our love, he's not saying to hate everybody else, no, but he's saying that in comparison to our love for him, it could almost be seen as hate because we love God so much. That doesn't mean we hate everybody else. No, we're called to love our neighbor as ourself, but it's the comparison. Still some may accuse God of being narcissistic or full of himself, but my question for you is in a godless world view, by what standard are you accusing God of such things? Why are they wrong? You see, you have no standard to back up your accusation. When you actually take a look at the Bible, you realize God has been so gracious to humanity in sending a son that we could have a restored relationship with God.