 We can win this war. We can win this war? OK, well joining us from Orlando, Florida is the man in that clip, Anthony Dream Johnson, who says he wants to abolish feminism and make women great again. No, but it also says, with the trademark, make women great again for women. Always great. Make women great again. But they're going to do a three-day seminar for women led by all men. In mansplaining news, a three-day conference for women led by men hopes to make women great again. How the 22 convention will make you the greatest you ever. Raise your femininity by 500%. First of all, how is a man supposed to tell a woman how to be the ultimate woman? A woman needs to be taught how to be great again. Oh, yes, we do. How to land a husband. How to lose weight. How to pump out a bunch of kids. Why do men think they need to fix the problems of women? Well, it says the world's ultimate event for women. Yeah, Orlando, Florida, that's going to be the scene of the crime. It's mansplaining platoosa. And say no to the toxic bullying feminist dogma. Taught by men to make women great again. Taking the stage now is the founder of the 22 convention you're in for a treat, Mr. Anthony Dream Johnson. Anthony Dream Johnson. The first president of the manosphere. It's run by all men, which promises to, quote, make women great again. This course is guaranteed to raise your femininity by 500%. Together, we will make women great again. Excuse me, I'm mansplaining here. She said there's nothing wrong. Boom. Welcome back to the 22 convention, 2021 of Orlando, Florida, being held to make women great again at the 15-year anniversary of 21 Studios at 21 Summit. Our next speaker is the first-time speaker to the 21 convention or 22 convention. Excuse me. Do a lot of these here, right? An amazing woman. I heard a lot about her from a very good friend of mine, an author named Bob Lewis, paralegal. And he raved to me about this woman for years. And I was very skeptical. He told me she was the most savage woman on the planet, all this stuff. And I'm like, is she really be that great? Well, I had the chance to meet her earlier this year at CPAC in Orlando. I was blown away immediately. Picked up the Mwaga hat, pink one immediately, taking photos with it, interviewing. I loved it. She's been a men's rights attorney for 15 years, super savage, and also has experience as a trial therapist. So without further ado, let's let me welcome for the first time ever to the 22 convention stage, Melissa Isaac. Thank you. Thanks. Thank you. All right, that was a great introduction. The bar set very high, so I'll try to be savage. Won't hold back at all. So I've been a men's rights attorney for about 15 years. And I want to go over sort of what led me to be a men's rights attorney. And then I'm going to go forward with some of the issues that I see and some of the problems in litigation and some of the issues in the law. Unless you're tied up in that court system, you don't really know how horrible this system is until you get into it. You think, well, you know, I've heard that the laws are based upon the best interests of children, has nothing to do with the best interests of the child in my experience. It's all about what's the best interest of the state, what's the best interest of money flow. More money flows through family court than it flows through any other court, medical malpractice, personal injury. It's an industry. So we'll talk about, again, how I got here and then how do you divorce feminism? Whoa, there we go. So how did I get here now? But I was raised by a single mother. And when you're in that situation as a child, that's your normal. That's what's normal to you. It's normal that men are unnecessary. That's normal. Obviously, we don't need a man, right? Because we're existing. We're still here. We're alive. Might be poor. Might be on welfare. But we don't need a man. Men are unnecessary. That's the message that was given to me. Was reinforced by my mother, who had all the control. Was reinforced by society. Was reinforced by social workers. You name it. Society reinforced to me as a young child. Men are not necessary. We don't need them. And what do fathers do? They pay their child support. You know what? Your dad's a deadbeat. He didn't pay his child support. Your dad doesn't pay enough child support. If he really cared about it, he'd pay more child support. When the reality is, if she really cared, she would have allowed him to be involved. That's the reality. But let's go back to, as a kid, you don't know, you're just getting these messages. You know that dad is not there and mom's always bitching about child support. That's what I knew as a child. In a single mother household, I was told, don't let anyone tell you you can't do anything because you're a girl. Hi. Okay, well true. There are some things that I could not do because I'm a girl, right? I was, I'm in the guard now, but I was in the army. I was active duty. I was a firefighter. And let me tell you, there are some things that I could not do. Didn't hurt my feelings that I couldn't do them. Because at the time I was 110 pounds. There's only so much I couldn't lift. So much I can do. So are there limits to what we can do as women? Yes. And if that offends you, the door is right back there. Because if you think that society needs to cater to you because you're a woman, because you're weaker, there's probably something wrong with you. Biologically, we're different, right? But you can do anything you want. Don't let anybody tell you can't be what you want because you're a girl. Well, we're kinda facing that on the other side now, right? Men want to have babies. Don't you let anybody tell you can't have a baby because you're a man? Well, guess what? You can't have a baby because you're a man, right? So you deserve to be treated like a queen. That's a big problem that I see. If you wanna be treated like a queen, you better do things that warrant you to be treated like a queen. Because being a woman in and of itself does not confer any sort of special deference upon you. Contrary to what a lot of women think, it does not, right? If someone does not accept you the way you are, there's something wrong with them. No, there's probably something wrong with you if you feel that way. But this is the message, right? That feminism tells girls. You don't have to, don't change who you are. You don't change who you are. There's something wrong with him. He doesn't appreciate how special you are. Never mind, there's probably something wrong with you first of all, okay? We look at statistically, look at the women. Personality disorders on the rise, mental illness is on the rise. I've never in my life seen so many women coped up on Xanax to tolerate their life as we have right now. And I can tell you guys, I'm a divorce lawyer. I get the records. I look at everything. It's a hot mess. But they deserve to be treated like a queen for no other reason other than they're a woman and that they're this person's wife. Well, he should respect me because I'm his wife. Is that, what you got? What you give him to respect? Coped up on Xanax all day? No, nobody respects that. Nobody wants that. You can do better. Girl, you can do better, right? We hear this all the time. Girls talk to their girlfriends. They talk to their family members. But he just doesn't treat me with respect that I feel like I need, right? Like, he comes home all day and I've been home all day and like, doesn't even like, give me as much attention as I want. You know, your girlfriend's like, girl, you deserve better. You sitting at home having all of your bills paid you sitting at home not having to worry about anything. You can do whatever you want. You can go to the gym all day. You can do whatever you want. But you're right, you deserve better. And what does that usually look like? You deserve better. How about you get a divorce and you get your tail off and get yourself a job and you pay your own bills and then you don't have time to lay around all day. You don't have time to go to the gym. But nonetheless, right, we listen to our friends. You deserve better. You deserve somebody who's gonna cater to you. You deserve somebody who's gonna work all day and come home and rub your feet. Now, you don't deserve that. And your real friends, by the way, that wouldn't be their advice. But nonetheless, isn't that what society tells us as women? You deserve better. You can do better. And the goal is to become an independent woman. So this is what I was told is taught as a small child. I imagine most of you in here as well. Is that you don't need a man. You don't wanna rely on a man to pay your bills. So you need to, you delay relationships, right? You gotta get an education. You gotta get education. You have to have the means to support yourself. So you delay all these relationships that maybe you would otherwise biologically want to get into. Work two jobs if you have to, girl. But be independent, girl, all right? Girl, I'm independent. If I gotta work three jobs, I ain't gonna worry about no man to pay my bills. Okay, well you work three jobs. Cause I'm gonna go get married and have a husband. And I'm gonna have a life. But you work three jobs, you bat self, right? So get an education, delay relationships, work two jobs. This is what feminism looks like. Where in, anywhere in this does it say, you gotta be a good wife. You gotta be a good mom. How about a decent human being? Cause in my experience, feminism teaches you the opposite. So let's look at the constant indoctrination. And I'm gonna blow through this cause people have already gone over this. But there's television programming. Look at the television shows. Men are all these, they're all bumbling idiots. They can't take care of kids, right? Men are referred to as babysitters in these sitcoms. Look at our commercials, right? Men in the commercials, they're an afterthought. Look at the television programming, sex in the city. What did sex in the city tell women? Live a superficial life. Just have random, careless sex. Pay your bills, live in a small apartment by yourself, but as long as you have lunch with your girlfriends, you gotta going on. What about those programs facilitates healthy relationships? Nothing, none. Again, education, I think other people have hit on that. We go through formal education, public education. And you guys read, now they're teaching, what is it, third graders about masturbation? No, my kids won't, if I can't help it, my kids will never step foot in a public school, nobody's gonna teach my child about masturbation, it's absurd. We're not learning about healthy relationships, but what is the public school system doing anyway, teaching our children about sexuality? But yeah, someone who said earlier, we need to get back to, what about home economics? They're not teaching that anymore. I remember when boys used to take shop class, learn how to rebuild carburetors, they're not doing that anymore. So education has really slipped over into social indoctrination, that's where we are. Now, the mental health profession, I was a child therapist before I went to law school, and I'm actually getting a PhD right now. And in one of my courses, just a couple weeks ago, we are on a Zoom, and this is Liberty University, Christian University, and we're on a Zoom and this feminist agenda comes blaring through my speakers, I'm like, what? I unmuted my mic. So I'm paying a lot of money to this university, not to have you force some feminist Kool-Aid down my throat, talking about how women are oppressed. Women are oppressed, I'm sorry, in America, women are oppressed. We are some of the most privileged women in the world, is American women. There's a little girl in my class from Nigeria and we had a private conversation and she said, I have never heard an American woman speak the truth like you just did. She goes, American women don't realize how privileged they are, because we don't. But I made it clear to the professors, to the class, I'm not paying you money to force this feminist Kool-Aid down my throat that I know is a lie. This is a PhD program. So I'm an attorney, I cross-examine experts, I try to retain experts, but there's no good ones. So I'm usually cross-examining the bad ones and these therapists will come in here and they're all, right, they're professionals. Oh, I hold a master's degree. Oh, how impressive, a master's degree. Oh, the PhD. So we go over their opinion. In my opinion, it would be detrimental for the children to be with dad. And why is that? Well, I just feel like mom is just more nurturing, women are more nurturing in general, which is not true. And I think that going back and forth between the households would be detrimental to these children, it's not true. So you go back and you say, okay, is this your personal opinion, is this your professional opinion? This is my professional opinion. Okay, so site one journal, site one research paper that supports your position that it's detrimental for children to go back and forth between houses. That's what I get. So I'm just asking you, I mean, there's so many out there, misprofessional. I'm just asking you to site one, just give me one, nothing. I asked them, are you familiar with Richard Warshaw's work? Who? Yeah, that's what I thought. So you have these professions who come up through the formal education and they don't know anything. They're in there with a degree in their hand and they're giving these opinions, these professional opinions. They know nothing about child welfare. They know nothing about raising kids. They know nothing about co-parenting. They know nothing that could contribute to the best interests of this child. The mental health profession. I was responsible for, I don't know how many divorces because this whole mindset where, girl, you can do better, girl, you deserve better, you should leave. Therapists are saying the same thing. These women go in and they say, I'm just, I'm not happy and I don't know why. When my experience in reading through these transcripts deposing them, they tell them why. You know why you're not happy? Because your husband doesn't respect you. He doesn't. He doesn't. He doesn't, does he? And all of a sudden he's the bad guy. The mental health profession is junk science. I've never had a mental health professional on the stand that I didn't impeach. I haven't impeached, like show that they don't know what to talk about or show maybe they're lying. Because it's junk science, right? And the law, I don't know what's worse. The mental health profession or the law, I'm not sure. Maybe the law. Because I want you to think about the legal system. First thing you think about are laws. So you read the laws and you're like, this is fine, what's wrong with this? Are people attacking the law? It says right here, people present their evidence to the judge, the judge makes a ruling. It's in the best interest of children. What's wrong with this, right? You have to look at who's making the decisions. Everything's discretionary. You've got lawyers, how do lawyers make money? How is it? So if you come in and say, you know what, I think I want to divorce my husband but I'm really not sure. So what I say, I only represent dad so I have men that come in and say, I just don't think this is working. I mean, it's been a couple of years and we've been to counseling. Have you talked to your pastor? Well, yeah, we've talked to our pastor. Which therapist are you seeing? Some of these, they'll tell me. I'm like, this is the worst therapy. No wonder you're on the verge of divorce. That therapist herself, by the way, has four divorces and lost custody of her own kids, FYI. You need to go somewhere else, right? But I never rush into divorces, never. I'm actually very pro-marriage. But most attorneys that come in, listen, if you're not happy, why are you wasting time? You can be $5,000, I can change your life, right? There's some lawyers that do that. Lawyers make money. The more contentious the situation is, the more contentious your life is, the more money they make, right? And judges, who are judges? Judges are lawyers with a robot and that's all they are. There's no special training. You're bound by their personal perceptions, their personal politics. You have a feminist up there? Guess what kind of rulings you're gonna get? It's gonna reflect feminist ideology, right? So let's look at Marie Claire. Anybody read Marie Claire? Of course not, you don't, because it's a feminist rag publication. That's why you don't read it. It's crap. But a lot of young women do read it. So in April, 2021, there's an article that says, 23 ways women still aren't equal to men. Well, wait a minute, what if I'm 19 years old and I pretty much think we're equal? And I'm like, well, wait, I didn't realize we weren't equal. Okay, well, let's see. So I took some excerpts out of here. Women pay more for common household items than men do. They don't, shampoo, deodorant, a 10 pack of socks. You guys, I went to Amazon, right? Now, you can buy some generic shampoo, a woman's shampoo, or expensive men's shampoo. There's a disparity. You can change that around. Now, I think women have more products because we as women like different scents, different colors, whatever. Men are less high maintenance when it comes to that. But that's not true. There's no citation. According to an analysis by Marie Claire. Oh, sweet, that's nice. But you guys, they're reading this. Marie Claire, relatively reputable, well-known at least, magazine, right? When women enter male-dominated industries, the pay decreases. Well, where's your citation on that? Where's your citation? Oh, the New York Times. Oh, the New York Times confirmed it. Oh, well, that must be true. Now, what happens is to, as in any field, anytime you have market saturation, it drives prices down. You look at the legal profession, right? Overwhelmingly, women are entering the legal profession in droves, right? Especially in the divorce world, it's driving the prices down, which is a good thing. But you know why it's driving the prices down? Because probably 80% are completely incompetent. But you can't say that wouldn't be politically correct. But it's the truth. But does this have to do specifically when women entering male-dominated industries? It makes it sound like we're just being discriminating against women. We're not. Anytime you get market saturation, that happens, and there's other factors. Women make less money than their male counterparts. Okay? So, this equal-paying argument, it's like a hearing about it, but if I work at an architecture firm, and a man works at an architecture firm, but I'm a receptionist and he's an architect, he's gonna make more money than I make. I can cry about it, or I can just go be an architect, right? Now, look at this. This was at a high school. Jake was drunk, and Josie was drunk. Jake and Josie hooked up. Josie could not consent. The next day, Jake was charged with rape. We're putting this in our high schools. How do we know Josie didn't seduce Jake? How do we know that? I mean, I've been helping men a long time, and I have seen regret, sex, turn into rape. Women say, well, I wasn't able to consent. No, you regret having sex with him so you're screaming rape, and it happens. Innocent men's lives are ruined because of things like this. But you put this up in a high school and it becomes part of someone's mentality. Well, this is okay. Oh, no, it's not okay. Men, listen, we need to teach our men to protect their sperm. Teach my son that when he gets older. Protect your sperm, because guess what? It can be used as evidence of rape even if the sex was consensual. So a woman says I was raped. Which was the first thing they do. They do a rape kit, you get the physical evidence. It's the first thing they do. I don't know the stats, but I can tell you in my private practice, about 70% of the time we can disprove false allegations of either domestic violence, rape, whatever the case is, 70% of the time. And I'm just a lawyer, I'm not a private investigator. I'm not a forensic anybody, 70% of the time. Men usually lose when it's a he said, she said, legal battle. Men usually lose. In my experience, women are better actors than men. Women can get up on the stand, they can turn the tears on, the judges usually get sympathetic. Emotions tell stories. Men tend to be more very matter of fact or men tend to show their emotions in more in frustration versus tears. So women will cry when they're frustrated. Men might get more upset and not even raise their voice or show their frustration in a way that judge says, you know what, you need anger management. You're making her cry when they have the same emotions going on. So I tell my clients, we go to court. Emotions win cases for women. Emotions lose cases for men. This is the truth. The double standard exists everywhere. That's a result of feminism. And then of course you're at the mercy of the policies and perceptions of your judge or your jury. Look at the Me Too movement. The hashtag believe her. If a woman makes an accusation, we need to believe her. Oh come on, women lie, we all know that. Women know what they're doing. Women know exactly what they're doing. Women know how to use their sexuality, they know how to use their bodies. Women rally together. Women call their girlfriends. Do you remember when he hit me? Girl, if you need me, remember, then I will. You should see or hear some of the recordings that have come through my office. But men protect your sperm because what if this happens? Unwed pregnancies you guys are through the roof. Now if a man has a child with a woman he's married to, there's some legal protections there. But if a man has a child out of wedlock, you understand that apps is some sort of legal intervention. He is no more that child's father than I am. And having to explain it, people say, well, wait a minute, but I signed the birth certificate. Doesn't mean a darn thing. Means nothing. Now what does child support mean for a woman? Free money. Free money. There's women out there that will have babies with different men. Men, they make thousands of dollars a month tax free money. They don't claim it. Oh, and by the way, when these men pay it, they don't get any tax benefit. They have to pay taxes on it. And then they give it to her and they get no deductions on their taxes. This is free money. Free money. So we've all seen those women out there. Four kids, four baby daddies. And for some reason, I mean, if I was a man, first of all I'd stay away from all single moms if I was a man. But if I was a man and some woman came to me with three different kids from three baby daddies, I'm not gonna be baby dad number four. I can see the pattern. There's a pattern there. So men, ladies, we need to teach our boys, teach our men, protect your sperm. Let's talk about some of the red flags. So here's the thing is we say, well, how do I pick a woman? We say, well, you wanna pick a woman, which is right, right, it's true, with shared values. You wanna pick a woman who's family oriented. You wanna pick a woman who's not a feminist. But I can't tell you how many men said, but I did that. I don't know what happened. It's like we got married and then we had a baby and all of a sudden she's a different person. So what I've learned over the years is I don't care what somebody says. I don't listen to them. I watch their feet. I watch what they do because that's important. We have all heard the term as cliche, talk is cheap, talk is very cheap. Now let's look at some of the red flags. People who are intolerant of opposing opinions. Here's the thing is am I intolerant to feminism? If you put it in my face, I will be. Put it in my face. You'll see how this conservative woman who grew up in the trailer park, I ain't go trailer park real fast. Get out of my face. So am I tolerant? Yeah, just keep it away. Do what you want, it's a free country. Keep it out of my yard. Now there are some women that will separate men from their friends and family. Huge red flag, okay? I don't care what she says, what kind of a person she is, how family oriented she is. If she's separating him from his family, him from his friends, huge red flag. A lot of times it's overlooked guys, but it's a huge red flag. Same, at the same time, the same person is probably a woman is perpetually at odds with her own family. So she's family oriented, without family first, other than she's always fighting with her own family, trying to alienate him from his family. So where's this family first? Like where's this come in? When's this family first? Oh, when we get married and have our family. No, no, no, wait a minute now. You guys, there's red flags waving in the wind, right? Justifies failures due to her gender. Well, you know, I would have done better in the Army, but I'm a woman, or you know, I think the Air Force treated me differently, because I'm a woman. You hear this all the time. You guys, I spent 13 years in the Army. I can tell you, this is not the case. And you hear these women, like there's so much sexual assault in the military. That's funny, I haven't seen it. But what I have seen is a girl I was in the Army with who took to social media talking about all this sexual assault that she tolerated back when she was in the Army. So my husband, I remember her being a, she was, we referred to her as the dumpster whore. That's what she was. There was nothing unconsensual about, so I responded, then you get blocked, whatever. But just because someone says it doesn't mean it's true. Women get what, attention from being victims. We do, we get attention from being victims. All right, women who are critical of other women with traditional values. And these are red flags, you guys. Red flags are flying, okay? Most of the time we look at the other way, we try to justify them. But women who are critical of women with traditional values. If you wanna be a stay-at-home mom, be a stay-at-home mom, I love it. I think if you have the opportunity to be a stay-at-home mom, you should take that opportunity without a doubt. But women who are critical of women who do that, and if you're a man looking for somebody, or if your son is dating this person, right? You need to teach him before he falls head over heels, because I think as your children get older, we get less and less influential. But these are red flags. I'm teaching my son from a young age. Refuses to justify her own opinions and life choices. We see this a lot. We see in court these women will come in and they'll be so critical of everything he does. He can't do anything right, can't drink water right. Well, wait a minute, so the two of you agree that you're gonna be a stay-at-home mom, but when your son was six months old, you went back to work and he asked you what changed. And you said, don't question me. You're trying to control me. You're abusive and controlling. Wait a minute, wait, wait, I'm just, no. Huge red flag, huge red flag. Supports, hashtag believe her. That's a red flag, guys. Is anybody in here, women are master manipulators. They are, look, I've seen it. I was raised by one and I've spent my career watching them, they're master manipulators. So there's so many people say, well, if a woman says she was raped, she was raped. What does a woman possibly have to gain by lying about being sexually assaulted or being raped? And she has to gain a lot. It could be custody of her children. It could be alimony. It could be the house. I mean, it could just be a lot of social media likes. That's a big deal to people. That attention, there's a lot of women that crave attention. And if you have a woman who believes that American women are oppressed, I would run away from them. I don't even wanna be friends with this person. I'm just gonna be honest with you. I have time for this. I've got a husband, I've got a children, I have a career, I'm time for this mess right here. And what happens, you ever heard that phrase? You lay with dogs, you're gonna get fleas. You lay with this, you're gonna get more of the fleas, I can tell you that. What do men get blinded by great sex? This is what I don't understand, is that so many men come in and they're like, yeah, well, we were dating about six months and she threatened to shoot me. I'm like, wait a minute, wait. So you've been married for eight years. At six months she threatened, she's threatened to shoot you. Yeah, but she didn't actually have a gun. I mean, I didn't, she was upset, okay? So go through all these things. She actually did shoot at him, by the way. That's what he was in. He's like, well, she actually did shot at me, but she missed me. She hit over my shoulder. So I said, after all these things that she's done, what made you stay? Well, I hate to admit it, but initially, the sex was great, apparently crazy women have great sex, they're great in bed. Have you guys heard that? I've heard it more times than I can tell you. Sex is a huge motivator for men. And especially younger men, when they don't understand the repercussions of a continued relationship, what I'll just call crazy woman, they don't understand the repercussions of taking it blinded by great sex. Now, women know what men find to be irresistible. I mean, we can all sit here and say, no, yes you do. And we all know women who use their sexuality to manipulate men. We all know it. Sex is used as a weapon of control. Sex is used as a means of rewards. Women, that's what women do, women use sex. One of the worst things a woman can do to her husband is withhold sex, right? And you see movies and people joke about it and be like, oh, well, women will say, if you want to get any for the next six months, you'll be doing XYZ, and the audience laughs. That's one of the worst things you can do is withhold sex, right? But it's used as a weapon of control. Here's the thing we need to teach our boys. Proximity is power. Proximity is power. I can't tell you how many men have come in and there's allegations of domestic violence or I see them on the horizon, you guys, I've got a sense for this. I said, listen, you stay away from her because all she has to do is make an allegation that you hit her, that you raped her, that you threatened her, and you understand, you'd be kicked out of your house. You can lose everything just based upon an allegation. Okay, okay. Well, a couple weeks later, come in, be like, well, I got served these papers, I got them out of my house. Wait, what happened? Well, I mean, she promised me, she just wanted to talk. She came over, one thing led to another and we ended up having sex. Proximity is power, especially to someone you're vulnerable to. So a lot of these men, when they come in, they're vulnerable, they're hurt, they're still in love, a lot of them want to justify this behavior and to a woman, proximity is power. There's no reason to be like, well, you have a knock down, drag out, police are called, call up and say, will you come over? I think, let's just talk in person. I need closure. I think we owe it to don't fall for it. Don't let your brothers, your sons, go over there. Proximity is power, especially when you're vulnerable to someone. All right, blinded by great sex, I guess I'm not gonna beat the horse when it comes to false allegations, but it's amazing to me how men will make themselves vulnerable for great sex. The false allegations that you see, you guys raised anywhere from he threatened me, he pushed me down the stairs, he hit me, he molested my child, he raped me, you name it, across the gamut. It's one of the most abused allegations in family court are false allegations. Why? Because they're effective, we call it the silver bullet. When you have allegations, especially of child molestation, the courts tend to err on the side of caution. I get that to some extent, they tend to err on the side of caution. Once that ball starts rolling, it can take years, years to clear it up, if ever. So we need to make sure that our guys understand where they're vulnerable, and they'll put themselves in that situation. All right, unplanned pregnancies. All right, we all know about unplanned pregnancies, goes back to child support, and then there's a lot of guilt and regret. I think we all think we live in a free sex society, I mean, I'm not married, I can go screw whoever I wanna screw, I'm not married, it doesn't work that way. There's a psychological component for men as well as women. There's some guilt and there's regret. Now, the warm, wet hole versus a real woman. So when I was about 12 years old, my mother says, you know, she's, I call it, people say, what's wrong with your mom? I just call it a walking DSM, because I don't know, I couldn't narrow it down. But she says, you know, if you don't have sex with your boyfriends, they're going to leave you. If you don't have sex with your boyfriends, they're going to leave you. So by the time I was 12, I knew that I had, she had lost control over me completely by the time I was 12. But if you don't have sex with your boyfriends, I didn't internalize that, but maybe my sister did, started having sex at a young age. So what I learned from her was there's two types of women. There's a warm, wet hole. That's all you are, right? If the only thing you have to offer a man is sex, that's what you are. And guess what? Guess who else has a warm, wet hole? Every other woman out there, right? What a horrible existence. If you subscribe to that mentality as a woman, what a horrible existence. Versus a real woman. You get a good, strong, healthy woman. You can catapult a man. I can do so much. We are very, we're powerful beings as women, we are. If we use it in the right way, in the right direction. Some of the most successful men have admitted, but for my wife, I never would be where I am. You have very successful men who have children who turn out to be amazing, and they say, but for my wife, my wife enabled all of this, right? So, and you know, I've had people get offended and they say, you know, that's horrible. That's horrible, you say warm, wet hole. I'm like, well, I mean, if you have one and it's not warm and wet, you might wanna seek some sort of gynecological, I don't know, intervention, but let's be honest, let's start talking real talk. There are some women out there who believe that their sexuality, their beauty is all they have to offer, and you see what a shallow, horrible life they live. All right, so then, right? We have a guy, we have a man who ignores all these huge red flags waving, right? Ignores them, we justify them, and then they get married. But, all too often, the red flags start to wave after the marriage, right? You know, there's more men who are victims of domestic violence than women. That's what the latest statistics show. So, women believe that they're victims of domestic violence if they're told, perhaps. You know, I don't like the way that you did this. You doing it this way, it really, it makes it difficult for our family. What, you don't try to control me. That's abusive and controlling. You don't tell me what to do, okay, then this power struggle ensues, right? Or, she might come back, I have one recording, man brought in, and this was her evidence that she was being abused. As he said, look, who's your own social media, you're flirting with all these guys. Here it is, we're married, we have four kids, and you're flirting with these guys, and she's like, oh, really? She goes, you're trying to control me now? She goes, this is exactly why, I want out of this abusive situation. Never mind, she got caught in the fair, and apparently the military gets upset when you try to bring drugs on post, or she got caught with that too. But somehow and all that, she's the victim. She's a victim, right? Well, she comes back at him, you're just a fucking idiot, you're a loser. She degrades him, he's a very highly decorated soldier. Who's abused there? Like, I'm so glad, so glad you have this, right? Because who's being abused? But men don't take it that way, men grossly under report. But yeah, the latest stats are that there's more men abused by women. So let's, I'm gonna talk briefly on the divorce. 79 to 85%, depending on what stats, women institute, women initiate family court actions. They're the ones who are the plaintiffs, they're filing to end the marriage. Women are awarded custody about 80% of the time. Don't tell me that 80% of the time women are better parents, I won't believe you. I think we've seen what single moms have done to society, right? Somebody asked me, well, name one thing that single moms are good at. I'm like, I guess raising future inmates? I mean, they're really good at that. And then like the feminists get all mad you just see some of the messages I get, right? But it's the truth. It's more than 80%, by the way, I think it's more closer to 90% of our inmates were raised by single moms, right? But men can lose everything before they step foot in a courtroom. You think, well, no, that's not true. There's this thing called due process. And I mean, you get to talk to the judge first. Well, the domestic violence industry is just that it's an industry. It's like a huge corporation. Where all you have to do if you're a woman, really, you go fill out, well, okay, I'm in fear for my life. He told me he was gonna kill me. Yeah, he said he was gonna take our kids and I was never gonna see him again, check, check, check. And they file it with the court and they get something that's called an ex parte order. Ex parte means that the judge rules on it before you even know it's there. You don't get a chance to answer anything. So I had guys come in with this piece of paper and they're like, what happened was I got on from work and I literally caught her in bed with another man. And next thing I know, I'm getting arrested. It happens all the time. Happens all the time. So I'm an ex parte order. A man could be kicked out of his house, restrained from his house, restrained from his children, restrained from their school, restrained from contacting them. Oh, by the way, you have to pay all her bills, which she says are about $5,000 a month. Oh, you only make $5,200? Sorry, it happens all the time. But you know the sad part is, is you don't know it until you get there. And you know who some of the best advocates are? For men, women. Second wives, man, the second wives are awesome. Second wives are awesome. They're like, wait a minute, I'm not letting this happen. Mamas, sisters, I have mamas call me all the time. I have sisters come. So you women here, they think, well, I mean, how does it really affect me? People say you don't have a dog in the fight and you're a woman. Well, I have a son and I have a husband and my neighbors are men. Some of my school teachers are men. This affects everybody, this affects everybody. Allegations are evidence. I always say this, allegations are not evidence. And the judge said, well, as soon as we swear her in and she raises her hand, then it becomes evidence. He said, she said, in perjury, not punished, not punished at all. We did a podcast where we asked the family court judge, if we can prove that this woman is lying. We show, we prove that she's lying. Wires, there are no punishment for perjury. I mean, she had a hard time answering my question. She's like, well, actually, I guess it comes out in the court's order. No, perjury, which means jail. You go to jail. If we actually started enforcing punishment for perjury, we wouldn't have so much of it. Fatherless children, 90% of runaways, are runaway children are fatherless, 90%. And by the way, what does it mean to be fatherless? I think we think that it's somebody who doesn't have a father. I don't know who my dad is. I haven't seen my dad in two years. Now these are dad-deprived children. You know what's dad-deprived? Is having contact with your father less than 35% of the time. That's every other weekend schedule, my friends. Every other weekend schedule that the courts are so in love with, dad-deprives children. Then we end up with these stats. 90% of runaway children, 85% of children with behavioral disorders. Look at these numbers. I'm not reading them to you. 90% of adult arsonists, come on. But yet, till this day, moms are fighting tooth and nail to relegate dads to every other weekend. Why? Well, an almighty dollar. Money and control. That's why I tell my clients, if you're not, I get this question all the time, I don't know why she's doing this. Why would she do this? You can put everything she does into one of two categories, money or control. Then you've got some greedy lawyer in the background, like pushing her into this. But look at these stats. We've seen what happens when we take fathers out of the lives of children. Look at our society. It's a mess. Some say it's an irretrievable mess. I don't know. But people like us have to wake up. You think, well, I'm not a man. No, it's gonna affect you. It's gonna, your sons, your brothers, your sisters. We need to protect our men. What I tell people, what I tell clients, what I tell people trying to protect the men that they love, is the best time to build a case is when there's no case at all. If you can see this coming, check your state laws, but you wanna start recording the conversations that you're having with some of these women. Record the conversations, screenshot their social media. Because it's funny how, as soon as a court case is filed, it's funny how everything changes. Communications change. Might be only text messages. And you can only have a conversation one time. There's so many conversations that some of my clients have had with their exes, like she told me, she was gonna fuck my life up. She told me, I'm never gonna see these kids again. She told me, if I don't get it, I'm like, well, did you record it? No, but I could call her again. Oh, it's, you can't have a, remember the conversation we had a month ago? What did you say again, right? There's some conversations you can only have one time. So the best time to build a case is when there's no case at all. Record, record, record. Again, check your state's recording laws. Some states, it's called a two-party state where both parties have to know they're being recorded to make it legal. Other states, only one party has to know, but so but up, check those. Get security cameras. Put security cameras in your house, right? If there's, if the police are called for a domestic dispute, it's a he said, she said, generally who goes to jail, you should know this, men. It's the men that go to jail. Men can have marks and scratches on their bodies, and they'll still go to jail. Put up some security cameras. It doesn't matter if it's a one or two-party state if you have security cameras inside your home. Tracking devices, right? A lot of people use tracking devices, be careful. If you put a tracking device on a vehicle that's not registered in your name, it's illegal, okay? So those of you who would want to help these men, or I tell my clients, you can't track a car that your name isn't on. Now, email accounts, texts, social media accounts, things like that. A lot of family members, especially second wives, right? And mamas, they like to help their sons who are going through a divorce. Don't check her email. Don't log in to her social media accounts as much as you want to. You get some really great evidence. It's illegal, right? There's a lot of federal litigation going on right now. That's illegal, don't do that, all right? Our guys can't concede custody. So many people, they come in and they say, well, you know, she told me to get out. I mean, so I, I mean, I left. Well, how many kids do you have? I have three kids. So the kids have been with her exclusively for a month. Yeah. Have you seen them? No, I haven't seen them. I haven't seen them in a month, okay? Courts love status quo, and a lot of people thinking they're doing the right thing, they're not. Because once you move out, once you leave, all of a sudden, this new normal gets put into place and the judges say, okay, we'll just keep it like it is. Dad, you keep paying child support, and temporary orders have a funny way of becoming permanent orders within the courts, okay? So there's so many men that think they're doing the right thing, and they're really shooting theirself in the foot down the road. Big one, you guys don't engage. Response versus reaction. May determine the outcome of litigation. So, let's, you know, I'm just, I'll just use like, I call them feminazis. So the feminazis come after me all the time and you just see the emails that I get, and they're, I mean, they get these personal attacks. And so, I'm very calculated in my response. You're like, wow, she reacted. No, I didn't, I responded, I really did. But there's a difference in outcome of that, okay? So if someone gets up in your face, right, and someone says, look, I'm gonna, and they pull a knife on you, for instance, okay? Your central nervous system kicks in, right, and you're reacting, right? Our response takes a little more cognition. So it's almost, I feel like it's the same thing because you're just, it's antagonistic when these women will just push a button, push a button, push a button. They're wanting him to respond. They're wanting him to respond. Do you wanna see your baby? You don't wanna see your baby. You didn't ask me since yesterday, and she's been on and on and on and on. I said, respond back. I sent a proposal to your attorney. Please have your attorney respond. But yes, I wanna see my child. Oh, that's what I get. You don't give a shit, I'm all on and on. Just wanting their response, wanting that engagement. Don't engage with people who don't have control of their emotions because they're wanting you to do the same thing. No matter, woman, man, whoever, don't engage with people who don't have control of their emotions. Again, right? If they can get you to react emotionally, that's control, it's control over you. Don't engage. And of course, document, document, document. So here's a quick story. So women, a lot of times, so I get these recordings and I hear them like, you know, they're bouncing their foms and they're, you know, they're threatening and they love to attack me in these recordings. Oh, you're gonna call your lawyer? You can call that bitch, okay? I get it all the time. But then in court, they're just, they always were pearls for some reason, but they're really meek and mild, really, really, really sweet. So we had a recording of a woman and she was, I mean, it's a long recording, I had to condense it, but she is going off, oh my God, cursing at him, threatening him and you name it. Well, we're in the hallway of the courtroom, waiting to go into the courtroom and she's waiting for her lawyer and I'm sitting there with my client and she was, I hear her over there. I know you got recordings over, bitch, I hear her. She goes, ain't nobody gonna hear those. Ain't nobody, they're never gonna see the light of day. Nobody gonna hear those recordings. She's like, my lawyer, I told me, okay? So anyway, she's over there wanting to get a response, not responding. So we go inside the courtroom. Judge hears everything, judge says, okay, we need to stop right now. We need a GAL for these kids. So all she was concerned about was that these recordings never see the light of day. Very confident. She's like, you ain't got shit, Mrs. A. You ain't got shit, Mrs. A. You ain't showing anybody. So what's the biggest thing that people watch in Alabama? SEC football, right? So she was having a big football party, her family owned a business and so what I did, so I took a recording and I condensed it and I made it into an SEC commercial and so here's what I did. So the first time she heard it was actually a SEC football game and she heard her family was there. Yeah. And a certain, you know, when I was in the Army, one of my, this just popped in my mind. One of my drill sergeants was talking to another soldier and he said to the soldier, he said, fuck me? No, fuck you. And I was like, yeah, I was right. Anyway. Did she think you were a bit? The what? I said, did she think you were a bit? Oh, yeah. But before this, I imagine what I am after this. So anyway, oops, did I say that out loud? Okay. Some of your recordings can be the very best thing because there's one thing that people hate, especially narcissistic women, that's what I deal with, I think, all the time, is exposure. They hate exposure. They wanna control the narrative. They wanna control the perception of who they are. Well, okay. So, biased family courts. Again, men are granted custody less than 20% of the time and they're only account for 3% of alimony recipients. Look how many women are in the workforce. Women are in the workforce. Women are earning. Women are more professional. Women have all of this stuff. Yet, men can't get an alimony award. I would say this, men don't want anything from women. Men typically don't want an alimony award. Just wanna show you how unfair the scales are balanced. All right, teacher's sons. Choose a woman whom they share morals and again, look at how they live their life. Look at their relationships with other people, okay? So rather than just communicating what their morals are, look how they live their life engaged that way. Get a prenup, guys. I mean, you guys gotta tell your sons, tell your brothers, get a prenup. There's easier. Maintain separate bank accounts. Maintain separate bank accounts. Why do I say that? Because money is an issue in almost every case that I have where separate accounts aren't maintained. Look, guys, stay away from single mothers who alienate their children's father. Stay away. I don't care what kind of a story. A lot of men like to be the knight in shining armor. A lot of men like to, like I'm gonna show her what a good man looks like. It's not worth it, you guys, stay away. Stay away from women with a victim mentality. There's a lot of women who are perpetual victims and then this happened to me and then I got in this relationship and then this happened and then I lost my job. It's like at some point I gotta check out. I'm like, I'll just, you guys, mid conversation. I'm like, I gotta go. I gotta go. Those people drain you. Stay away from women who are abused by every man they've ever been in a relationship with. You know what's funny, these poor guys come in and they say, you know, I don't know what went wrong. Our relationship was going amazing and you know, the first three, the last two husbands and boy from before that, they were physically abusive. They beat her and I said, did you know them? Did you know these other men? No, no, that's what she told me. What makes you any different? You're telling me that the three before you were so horrible and you thought you were gonna be different? I mean, how does this work, right? And all of a sudden, everything she said about the other men, all of a sudden he was that person. Stay away from screamers, right? Not a woman. We need to teach our boys and I will teach my son. If this happens while you're dating, mm-mm, gone, done. Leave the first time she abuses you. Leave, leave, men stay, men tend to stay, right? The longer you wait to leave, the harder it will be. All right, so we've got about, I think nine minutes if you guys do have any questions. So feminism has all but destroyed marriages and we know this, okay? But not only has feminism infiltrated the mindset of a husband and a wife, feminism has infiltrated the legal profession, it has infiltrated the way judges rule, it's infiltrated the way lawyers conduct their cases and you can get a child therapist, you can get a court-ordered psychologist, guess what, feminism is there too, it's everywhere. So this is beyond just teaching our daughters, it's beyond that. It's teaching our men healthy boundaries, healthy limits, it's teaching them what the red flags are. I think it's easy to say, well, you need to find somebody with family values and you do, you do need to do that. But what does that look like? What does that look like? Cause so many men have said, but I did that. I'm telling you, we were on the same page up until we got married and I said, well, tell me about her family. Oh, her dad left, had nothing to do with the family when she was about five years old. Oh, does she remember that as she was told? These are red flags for me now, the red flags are going off because this stuff is generational. It takes a lot, right? It takes a lot to break generational curses and that's what this is. So we have to teach our men healthy boundaries. We have to teach them to recognize what is toxic and understand it's not just the family unit, you guys society, every part of society, every profession that I've been a part of is infiltrated with toxic feminism. I have a, my husband's cousin. He was a helicopter pilot in the Navy, well educated, while he was away. His wife was doing drugs, they had two children. Anyway, he came back and he got legal custody of the girls. Mom saw the girls every weekend, he made sure of that. I found that quite beautiful that he was able to educate his daughters, they're both done beautifully, one's a CPA, they're just beautiful women. And I'm happy for him that he was able to do that because he's so proud and I think that that's beautiful. So I feel that in many cases, men should be the ones who get full custody. But it's a battle, so how can a man win? How can he win? A man could be the best man you've ever met in your life, have the best case with the best evidence and still does. And that's the most heartbreaking part of this profession is because there's behind the scenes things going on, there's relationships that lawyers and firms have with judges, there's campaign contributions back there. I have contributed in 15 years to one judicial campaign and this judge is amazing. And he was on the bench for a while too to make sure that he stayed amazing because he was a really good lawyer and I'm like, you're gonna make an awesome judge. But I still gave it a little while to make sure he was an awesome judge before I gave him anything, right? But one judge in 15 years, I'm not that lawyer that's gonna go around and write checks, I'm not gonna write checks even if it's gonna make easier for me to win cases, I'm not doing that because I become part of the problem. So it's sad how many amazing men that are out there that are kept from the lives of their children. So there's legislation that we've been helping draft for like the last 10 years where it's 50-50. So if parents divorce, absolute clear and convincing evidence the judge has to order 50-50. Of course demographics and all that come into play. But then you have the domestic violence industry that wants to come in and say, you want to give custody to a child abuser. Listen, stop bringing up the rare exceptions. Most men are not child abusers. In fact, more children are abused and killed in the custody of mom and mom's boyfriend than with dad. We don't want to talk about that though, right? We don't want to talk about single mothers. Mommy, unless you shouldn't talk about single mothers. Shut up, I'm gonna talk about single mothers and how detrimental they are. I was raised by when I get this, I get it. I see good men all the time that come in on the brink of being destroyed. But you're right. I'm glad it happened that way in his situation. I'm glad. But you're right. And dads generally, they're not the alienators. My dads who have custody, they're very concerned about making sure mom still has contact. I'd like you to comment on the fact that the early feminists like Betty Friedan and such said women needed their freedom and their liberty and to be in the workforce because they were so vulnerable to the man who walks in and divorces them just ceremoniously gives them the heave-ho. And now we have the situation where it's the women it's, and they do it in much more frequency it seems. So, and this is the fruit of this feminist notion. I just want your comment on that. Well, women are financially incentivized. Women have nothing to lose if you think about it. They go walk in a court, they file something. They're like, okay, I need this much a month and spouse to support. I need this much a month and child support. And you have laws that when you read them again, the laws read like, well, that's fair, that's fair. It's the application that's the problem, right? And you have generations of judges who, and I've been told, well, hi Melissa, I understand you take issue with this, but this is the way we've always done it. This is the way we always done it. One of the most dangerous phrases I think can be uttered, but we've always done it this way. So, the problem now is the states make money off of child support. There's something called Title IVD where let's say you go to court, dad is ordered to pay child support for mom. The state makes money off of this dad paying child support. The federal government reimburses the states for collecting child support and dispersing it out. So you think, wait a minute, so if we had 50-50 custody, if we had kids are with mom half the time or dad half the time, which by the way research shows is the absolute best for kids, what happens with child support? It's greatly reduced or there's none. The more child support, the state can reel in, the more the federal government pays the states. It's a business you guys, you think child, and then of course we've got the feminates out there saying these dead beat dads, these poor moms, no number one, these poor moms fought against a dad trying to get equal custody, which would have relieved her burden, which that's how they refer to them, so burdened with this, fought against it for more child support and control. And who makes the money other than mom? The states, the states make countless, hundreds of millions of dollars from the federal government. But we don't talk about that, do we? We don't ever talk about that. All we want to talk about is dads who are not dead beat, they're dead broke, right? They have to pay on average about 25% of their gross income in child support. That's on average. If you have more kids that seem to go higher than that, they get no tax deduction, and the states make them money. The law has very little of anything to do with it, but it's best for children and families. It's about that almighty dollar, that cash flow. It's what it comes down to. So we need to change our legislation. So I've spoken with countless legislators from all over the world, okay, there's other advocates, some of them are here that have spoke with legislators, and some of the legislators are very honest. Some say, listen, you're wanting to undo something that happened way back in the 60s and 70s. That's exactly what I'm talking about. But the legislators also know cash flow is important, and imagine if they didn't get that cash flow anymore. The average is 66 cents for every dollar in child support. How many hundreds of millions of dollars maybe is paid in child support? 66 cents of every dollar? It's even more if they get child support and things of that nature, and not child support, like welfare, food stamps. The state's made. This comes from the federal government. No, yes, it comes from the federal government. It's called Title IV-D of the Social Security Act. Oh, and by the way, folks, they're raping the Social Security Fund. All this money is coming from the Social Security Fund. Title IV-D, and then there's Title IV-B, and there's Title IV-E if you look at foster kids and things like that. This is all coming out of the Social Security Fund. So you notice how these child support enforcement agencies started popping up like in the 80s. You know why? Because they expanded out the Title IV-D in the 80s. Expanded it out. Why do I have to pay through the state if I'm ordered to pay child support so the state can track that so they can get the reimbursements from the federal government? All right, so, and here's the thing too, is the judges know about Title IV-D, and some of that Title IV-D money comes back in the states and goes back into the court system. So essentially they might be, well, you know what? They could think, well, we need raises. We need more child support money. We need more Title IV-D money. It's financially incentivized. So you look at that. Why is it that women, women just, they go in and they file, they're so free to file? Because it's almost a sure thing, you guys, and that's the way it is. If you go in there and you argue a bias, all right? Oh my gosh, they're not gonna have that. When there's so few attorneys out there speaking real. It's just 10% of lawyers, if only 10% stood up and said, no, we're not doing this anymore. You're being biased and started calling these judges out. I think we'd see a huge change. We're lucky to get, we can get 1%. Why is that? Oh, okay, wait, lawyers are making money too. The more cases, the more child support, the more contention, the more money. So, but again, the problem is you don't really know that until you get involved in the system. You get trapped up in the system. They don't talk about Title IV-D. It's the first time you guys have heard it, right? So that's what I think that one would think and I think that's how they probably, how they spin that. So, Title IV-D was initially means-based. So, basically women had to show a need, right? So, it was means-tested, look, I've got food stamps and this is what I need. But then in the 80s, people figured out, wait a minute, they're giving reimbursements if we collect this. Let's just make everybody do it, right? There's women who are professionals who don't need child support, yet their husbands, ex-husbands who make less than them are still ordered to pay them and they make far more. Not because they need it. I'm thinking the state makes money off of that, right? So, that logic really doesn't work and they can't show us numbers to justify that. They've said that, by the way. It's a very feminist point of view. They've said that. The fact is, is that most men who can pay do pay. But we have a lot of men out there. You guys, they make $10 an hour. They're ordered to pay $400 a month in child support. You can't be living in your car. By the way, they don't care. They'll let you live in your car. So, every state has child support calculations and every state has a formula and the formula spits out a percentage of what he will pay regardless of his expenses and that's even in Virginia. Oh, regardless of her expenses. Regardless of her expenses. Right. No, that's not how it works. Whoever makes the most money doesn't pay child support. So, let's say mom makes more money than dad and mom gets custody, dad still has to pay child support. Right. Correct. If you don't have 50-50. If the judges, no, I'm not licensed in Virginia. If the judges follow the calculations, right. So, I'm not familiar with that. But in a 50-50 situation, if there is child support ordered, I will say this, in 50-50 situations, when moms make more, they usually weigh the child support. There's usually no child support. In 50-50 situations where dads make more, they must always pay the child support. It's rare that a woman has a child support order that she actually pays. It's rare. If you look at contempt proceedings for child support, it's full of men, and it's full of men that go to jail. All right. If men can't pay their child support and they're put in jail, the state still makes money. They get paid for every day of this dad's in jail. You think that doesn't make any sense. If a dad's behind child support, why are you gonna put him in jail? Then he can't work and he'll lose his job. Well, the state makes money if every day he's there. All right. I mean, go on. There's nothing fair about this. If you really delve into the child support guidelines, you would see that they're not fair in every state. There's experts that have gone over this. There's experts that have non-presentations and then research of this. It's not fair. So we can try and justify child support. Fact is, it's a big feminist notion, so they'll lie and all it's doing is allowing the states to make government and it's bankrupting fathers. Was that due to child support? Was that due to child support? We're saying that it's better for there to be a 50-50 custody, right? Correct. There's better to be a 50-50 custody. Financially speaking, maybe the female, just looking at the other sides, back against the wall and going, gosh, if I don't keep my children more, which I'm used to doing, because I've been a stay-at-home mom and I don't have any career basis, I go out there and I work. I'm not going to be able to afford this apartment or whatever for my children if I don't just make the split difference so that he can pay me more so that I can have the amount of income to survive. So what you're talking about is nothing to do with the best interests of kids. It's in your financial best interests. That's what I'm saying. And you're confusing child support with alimony. You don't confuse the two. When you confuse child support with alimony, exactly what you're doing, that's where you get disparate custody awards and that's where our children are turning into statistics. You're confusing the two. Child support has nothing to do with your ability to earn. Child support has to do with. No, I didn't say anything to a ability to earn. I'm saying that the female didn't have ability to earn possibly, so then she's making an error judgment but with a financial need to go after her ex for more custody possibly because she thinks, and she's right, she doesn't have the capacity to go make the living on her own. So Beth, what you're saying is that there's a mother who doesn't have the ability to make a decision on the best interests of her children because she's putting money. No, no. That's exactly what you're saying. No, no, you're twisting my words. No, I'm not. You're confusing alimony and child support is what you're doing. I'm not talking about her, I think we're missing each other. 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