 You have no money y'all and then welcome back to my channel guys. It's your girl Coco styles and on this channel We talk about beauty fashion lifestyle and styling. So today we're gonna have a little Nightcap I'm gonna be doing a quick little I guess Spaceship I wanted to just really use my new Steamer by Dennis gross back to Dennis gross you guys see this in the last haul So I'm gonna use it today and just kind of clean my face and I'm gonna use my mask as well I showed you guys this the other day. It's so bright in my bathroom. So I Wanted to try out and use my steamer today and My New it's not what is new, but I've tried it before I told you guys this is the Kiehl's rare earth Deep poor cleansing mask. Love it. Love it. Love it. So I'm just gonna get started I don't have anything on my face, but I am still going to Pre-cleanse just to get anything that may just be sitting On my face if you do not have a pre-cleanse girls get your pre-cleanse. This is the one by Dermalogica I want to say it's like forty five dollars possibly but Absolutely love it. I have a towelette You guys already know I love my Clean skin towels Let's show you guys close this up You guys already know I love my towelette. It's so like raggedy in here like the lighting but I Got like I'm just gonna wet my face just a smidge it Actually, yeah, I have a little just here just Just damp it across my face and then I'm gonna put a little bit of this on But I wanted to talk about everything that's going on such as little chit-chat with me while I'm in my face shoes So this is like a unwind with me if you will so if you guys Are not living under a rock you guys have seen I take top and Teresa sees the story God Let me tell you guys when you are dealing with Anybody and this is for a man dealing with a woman a woman dealt with a man Girl or girl man or man, whatever if you're dealing with the one who has Any narcissistic traits any personality disorder anything Run for the hills. Okay, because it's like it's really hard to deal with them and her story Was very oh my gosh Her story was very Very sad She did say that she was desperate and You know people were like in the comments Making her you know just saying things that are just not nice And I feel like if a person can come out and kind of say exactly what they were feeling at the time Not really caring about what others are thinking Then why say something like just leave it alone, right? so I'm just gonna kind of get all in in here Just see what Get on the hair So right now in my hair I have Allover aloe plant the actual plant and this garlic treatment that I usually pre-poo my hair with I got that from these Dominicans in New York. This garlic treatment is a bomb Digity hold on So it's kind of like You hear in her story and at first I did not know what to expect from it But I know for sure wasn't expecting that so for me I think that She was very brave to come out with that story Risking people judging her and stuff and just a lot of stuff and I don't know if Women and men Really really have Really good discernment if they know a sign when they see one because let me tell you something And anybody can say oh I would never do that. I was in that situation Blah blah blah blah. I don't believe it Well, let me not say that it's not that I don't believe it I just feel like you don't know until you're in a situation her tire blowing out was a Telltale sign for a lot of people For others it was not a telltale sign. You understand so That was one thing He appeared to be You know decent because he came help her with her tire and stuff like that and then I believe COVID happened They were like quarantine and I think for quarantine most people who were in relationships ended up not staying together just crazy and then people who were afraid to kind of like be lonely and ended up in Relationships or dealing with somebody that they really didn't want to deal with so As I'm listening to her story just the stuff about the money and stuff that was just like You know, I pray that she really does heal from this because I am a hundred percent sure that That was very very draining for her like and I don't even think it was over a year But love bombing is so real and if you are a girl who met a guy recently He feels that things are moving kind of fast. You might want to pump your brakes. Okay, so He pretty much love bombs her got up in her home I don't know he actually She said he had his own place. I'm like, did he really have no place or was he like Hoping from house to house and really need it You know some some way to stay Let me watch my face guys. Oh I'm actually just gonna do this now I just want to do that preclin but I am gonna put my steamer on Just for a little bit Before I get the second cleanse in Um But it was kind of like You know, he moved in during COVID This one is a lot easier to take out than the other one that I had let me just pour some of my What do you call this spring water that I brought downstairs me brought upstairs He kind of weasels his little way in. All right So I'm just gonna take it and we're going to what is everybody in there? Okay I'm just gonna turn it on. It's all I'm gonna be talking so Yeah, he moves in and it was you know for her she felt good. He was paying bills and He had to have had a real job because he was paying bills now. She did say the bills weren't a lot of money, but This thing heats up really really really fast if you it heats up really fast Like I already hear it and the smoke is coming Yeah, yeah, let me just sit it down here Yeah, let me tell you it was just like Crazy how Many things she let slide And it's not her fault. Trust me. It's not right Let me just do this she she like I said she let a lot of stuff slide and I mean, I I want to say I get it, but I have met women Who rarely rarely I'm just gonna turn it off just a little bit just to loosen up a little bit I've met women and slide that over who really really really wanted to Settle down, you know and they really don't like Pay attention to the time man Now, I think I've dated a narcissist before I'm sure he was he just had like Tempered I Tempered temper tantrums like a child. I've never in my life seen anything like that before like literally like a kid and What one thing they will do is like I said they will love bomb you I Don't know what it is. I kind of feel sorry for them Because I know it's like some sort of imbalance or something but honey When I tell you oh, I was so glad When I finally Was able to like It took me about two weeks good two weeks, I want to say a little less. I'm gonna say two weeks But oof draining I think he had mommy issues Just a lie, I just think he was a liar Well, I know he was a liar But it's the same thing with her and you start to Second-guess some of the things that you know they said Child the girl so she didn't even know who she was after a while, and I'm sure I'm sure Okay, let me watch my face but It was a 50-part series. I didn't think I could do it, but I Did it I did it and I think if you haven't watched it What I would say about it is that it's not for everyone to listen to However, I do feel like there's certain things that will Be Something that will help anybody. I don't care if you are Super Have super discernment. I just feel like just it's a good story to hear and also you never know What part of her story would resonate with you? Something as simple as him wasn't about all these houses like he wasn't serious He had no money y'all and then it comes to find out this is gossip but I Think the bank statement that he was showing Someone found a copy of it on Google like what that is some serious level of delusion and Like sick a bit right Now he's all of them through social media. I have not watched his videos. I'm seeing it through other people's pages I would not give him that But she did end up getting a trip to Paris. It's one of the girls. I don't know her name She said she'll pay for her flight there and back, which I thought was really really good nice of her and kind of like Just kind of get the things that she wanted to get with him. She was pregnant lost the baby. That was another sign You watch my face y'all sign after sign I have my new um Skin situation I Had this so I had it in the freezer because I don't have a Oldest stuff I got in my bathroom. I don't have a refrigerator for my stuff So I Think you're supposed to roll it on Let me see How to use use store-bought a freezer for hours before you remove and ice the inflammation. I Don't know if you put something in your skin Because they don't have no I'm gonna rub it on Before comes a little card and just a little card black on Nothing really on here So I'm just gonna actually take it and remember to cross my face because it really doesn't say much Just use on dry clean skin Which my skin is clean And it's dry. I'm looking down cuz I have a mirror down here so I had an a fridge already, so it's cold and We're just gonna kind of go From here and Oh, this reminds me so much of my own Oh This is cool. Yeah Oh, this is too cold It doesn't tell you what's going to do it. I'm gonna go under my This sucker is cold And I'm trying to think when she did Let me say how long you say for So Yeah, like for me, it's just it's I'm glad she came out with it because She came out and then I think his ex wife came out I think somebody son came out the ex-wife son. I believe and that was crazy It's like a nice little easy grip. I'm gonna go around here. It might be only two minutes I'm gonna leave it like that and then you just when you clean it off They say you rinse it off with water And put it right back in the fridge for the next few so let's slide that there All right, so the next thing I'm going to do is I'm gonna do my my mask. I Don't even know if you guys can see that Can you guys see that? Yeah And for this let me see if my face needs to be a little damp because it's so thick I'm just gonna do that. No to me. It's just like very um Very just a lot like this the whole story was a lot I'm just gonna grab like a scoop out of here with my little situation All right, just leave that like this Let's get all this off here. I might have to get another. Oh, no, I don't have a little rag here I'm gonna let it sit for a while and then I'm gonna put my steamer back on actually and then Take it off But the bottom line is oh boy was having like a time of his life fabricating these stories and For me, it's just like How What's the word I want to use how messed up in the head that you have to be how much up in the head You have to be to do something like this to somebody now I I do feel like like I said that there is something wrong with People who I like this like he is a child. What's funny? He's like a sociopath Narcissus, I mean that's a bit extreme, but probably But anyway, what do you guys think about the story have you guys listened to it Like have you guys just like you're gonna pass on it? It is 50 videos But I do feel like it's something that everybody should listen to many women are watching Listening taking key things and I cracked the joke the other day. I said listen every person Who's out here lying to people men and women? They're probably with somebody right now and saying to themselves abort a mission saying to themselves abort mission because The person is probably now On alert with every single thing Lying is so dangerous. I feel like people who lie Will lie about anything. I don't care if it's your boss. I don't care if it's a relative liars are dangerous people period they will lie and get themselves out of a Situation okay, so steamer back on and I'm just gonna let this loosen up just a bit So I should have some water still left in there Yeah Let's see should be a little bit This thing heats up so fast Who's things up? Let's see this just I just want to loosen up just a little bit. I love it cuz you have this just pull it to the side and That's it. All right, so I'm gonna rinse it off And come back put some of my Gren toner I like this one. I got a huge one. That's a brand let that drive it and then I use my trusty Neutrogena So I've got this this is my normal one, but I got the other one by accident. Do not like it at all And then I'm just gonna put on Some of my this is a quick video So, yeah, so if you haven't watched her 50 videos Definitely give It a watch so that's my vitamin C and then a lovely skin fix And that is it guys, but yeah, if you haven't watched her series definitely give it a watch I'm all over this video because I'm just like it The story is just so crazy now. He's coming out But be aware be aware of ladies and gentlemen because let me tell you there's women like that as well like Pathological as and I don't know what that is. She said that his family was saying that he's been lying since he was a kid And it's like what is that I do feel like all kids be like they lie about little stuff, right? But when it becomes extreme The parents should really step it at one point, right? Because you you're gonna see when a kid lies I used to go to school with somebody in the sixth grade. This person lied Lied lied lied lied lied and I just couldn't understand it So in my head as a sixth grader, I said to myself this person has to be the same way at home But they lied about every single thing and it's just like they're not about test scores they lied about just like things that you wouldn't even think up to lie about but Those are special people and I feel sorry for them because I don't think they can control it pathological liars, okay? Just just lying I hear any street line really sad though, but She did get a trip to Paris someone purchased her ticket. It did like a go for me Not a go for me She had a cash app the people is asking for a cash up one thing I will say about The world's like even though with all the craziness going on People really felt like she deserved a trip, you know, so they just kind of chipped in for I think I believe was her hotel and stuff and probably just extra money to spend just for her telling her story and taking the time to do 50 freakin TikTok videos and In the middle of her birthday, but I definitely think it was worth listening to and If you didn't take anything away from it I'm sure everybody did even if the girlies who never get caught up and stuff like that. It's just very interesting to hear how So many red flags she let them pass and She said it. She said she was desperate She came out she said what she said and I could appreciate her honesty She was she took accountability accountability. That was perfect and Now she's she's here. She got like a million subscribers followers now, which is great I want her to put a story on YouTube because at least people could actually sit and just watch it one good time a Good old hour, but watching it on tiktok is like ten minutes ten minutes ten minutes It's gonna feel like it's taken forever So I Wish her luck and I do feel like she'll be fine, but let me know what you guys think about the space shoe My skin is looking moist. I told you guys before if you do not have a good combination of a vitamin C and a good moisturizer Child, I don't know what you're doing to your skincare routine, but that's it Just a very very quick quick video me getting ready for bed. I'm about to wash my hair. I do have on a Pretty clothes plastic hat under here with the aloe and the garlic treatment Wash my hair twist it up, and I'm going to bed guys. So this is just a quick video using my new steamer, of course and Just a quick little face shoe for the night and actually using my new Crayon Ball I just stick it back in there, but I gotta rinse it off. So cryo ball is by skin By brown Lee She is black on so if you do not sometimes this is like don't don't zoom in. This is my other lens, but Yeah, that's it guys. So again, let me show you guys everything that I use today Dermalogica Then I use my trusty trusty Nutrigena you guys already know I swear by this all the time I used Nutrigena hyaluronic acid Water gel, what is it called water gel? Yeah water gel. I used the Kiehl's Depors Cleanser I also use my ren toner And I also used My image MD. Yeah What else? Oh and of course My trusty thing But that's it for this video. If you stay to the end of this video, please comment Coco. 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