 Did you know that confusion causes the brain to be in a neutral state? Now, I'm not talking about every once in a while in life, we get confused, sure. I'm talking about people and a lot of society right now, at least in what I'm witnessing, are living in states of confusion. And that is actually creating a hypnosis. So being in a state of neutral for our brain is a state of hypnosis. There's a difference between us driving our own consciousness and someone else. Ultimately, long-term confusion allows others to do the driving of our consciousness. And I don't know about you, but I'd rather be driving my own consciousness. So thank you very much. I'm Tiffany Barsotti, a spiritual counselor and medical intuitive. I'm a clinician and researcher and have been working in this field of subtle energy sciences, biofield sciences and energy medicine for the last 17 years. And I've helped a lot of people unravel the sources of confusion. So a little clue is confusion is always coming from outside ourselves. Say that again. Confusion is always coming outside of ourselves. In this video, I'm gonna offer some watch words of some things that I have found. It's really, really simple for things to watch out in your own inner dialogue or outer dialogue and also with other people. This topic is tricky business and it has a lot to do with our own personal sovereignty. So first of all, I'm not a medical doctor. I am not here to diagnose or treat or do anything that I should not be doing. I am offering guidance and wisdom based on my own journey and to disseminate information I have found to be helpful. So if you are somebody that is in a mental state of emergency and you need help, please get it. So I'm a regular on Gaia TV and I love Gaia TV. It's probably the best spent $10 I can imagine. So the show that I'm featured on and in fact I recorded another episode of with Regina Meredith on Open Minds and that is going to the new one is gonna come out February 10th of 2022. So this will be my fifth episode or interview with her but we recorded it in September and so much has happened in the world since we recorded that interview. So I wanted to bring a couple of things that in the way the interviews go, oftentimes we don't get to some of those ideals or some of the places that we would like to go if we always had a plan. She and I just have a beautiful discussion and it's quite rich. So confusion leads to disempowerment. So if somebody else is doing the driving of our consciousness, it's not ultimately us that is being empowered in driving our own ship and navigating our own ship or driving our own vehicle. There are people in institutions who want to own all of our attention and intentions. What a thought. It's a bit mind-boggling because I think that probably if you're resonating with me at all you probably really value freedom. And confusion is one of the ways in which there can be an inroad into our hijacking of our mind. And these are always outside forces that seek to essentially overpower or want to control. And it also seeks to sort of take advantage of our naivete, thinking that that person always means well. For the most part people do. However, a state of confusion is a clue that there's something going on. Something is around us is in our midst to wake us up and make us pay attention. So just as a little backup, your confusion can get going in early childhood. And a parent that beats their child or a child that has abuse. It's very confusing because essentially by all laws of creation our parents or those who have given birth that may not be the people who actually raised you. But the parent, they give birth to us or create us out of unconditional love. So when something happens that is a total disconnect such as abuse, it argues with that value state of unconditional love. But what happens in our nervous system and is our psyche is that those two things come together. Oh, so this is what love looks like. It could be a state of confusion. It could be abuse. And so we end up going throughout our lives until we heal this, recreating those same scenarios. Sometimes confusion, sometimes abuse. Ultimately they're unhealed traumas. And this really creates an opportunity for us to go deeper. So like I mentioned earlier, confusion puts the brain in a state of neutral, especially if there are unhealed traumas. And that is what I'm witnessing so much out in the world right now. Man, I could spend an hour talking about that but we're gonna keep this short here. I just wanna give some watch words and some tools and skills that I had to learn along the way as well. So we all have the power to change. We all have the power to undo where these patterns got going. So people who are confused will often say, I don't know. Every once in a while of saying, I don't know, it's fine because it's okay to say, I don't know. It's a good thing to actually admit that we don't know something. But I'm talking about people who do this on a regular basis. It's a regular occurrence to not choose the food you want or to defer to another person or to not know what path to take or I don't know where to go. Let's go wherever you say or things like that. That's not us encouraging driving our own consciousness. And even also questions that can make us think back in time that can cause a state of confusion. So these are just things to be paying attention to. I believe one of the reasons that we are in since this Gaia interview, there's been much more that is being put forth on this mass formation or mass formation psychosis or menticide. And I specifically spoke to menticide when during this Gaia interview. But the psychosis of this kind of time in society and politics and all of that, I see linked to unhealed traumas and people are being easily confused because of this, because of what I explained just a bit ago. So now confusion can really unravel our state of wellbeing. And it kind of puts us in the hands of another, which can be a narcissistic agreement, a victim narcissist or a codependent narcissist arrangement. Those are not the same people. Different people, but they're in a relationship. I call it the match made in hell. And for those of you that have lived it, gone through it, you know what I'm talking about. So now, but I also wanna say that confusion can also lead to a really high state of transformation. Why? Because there can be kind of a glitch in the matrix. So all of a sudden we get confused about something where we hadn't been confused before. And it's like, oh, wow, okay. Kind of stirred for a moment. So in that little bit of a glitch, we call it a pattern interrupt. That is a time where you can take back some of your own power if you recognize it, if you catch it. So what requires us to be able to do exactly that to start taking our own power back and be attentive to this type of detail is to question and to use discernment. So question everything. Not everyone has our highest and best interests in mind. I believe sadly that we're living in a time of menticide. I, as I mentioned, I covered that in the Gaia interview. Menticide is a genocide of the mind. Well, that kind of sounds like we're being put in a victim position, only if we allow it, only if we allow it. So the first piece is to be aware of what's going on. And hence this conversation we're having. And enlightening ourselves to, wow, that little wobble I have about, I always knew exactly what to do with my body. I always knew exactly where to go or who to talk to or anything like that. And now I don't. And so that creates a bit of a state of confusion. So you come back inward and you check in. Narcissism also falls in this category because narcissists cause confusion so that they can control. And in that control, it's about what they want in their agenda, not what is for the good of all. It's not altruistic. It's because they have their own agenda. So we're all gonna have to become super conscious, super aware. And it's time to break out of these patterns of hypnosis. But first we have to become absolutely aware of them. So the media knows this little trick. And the trick is that if you repeat something three times at different phases of time, different situations, different contexts, by the fourth time you've heard exactly that same thing or they're about yielding the same result, we take it as a truth. We take it as a truism and it may not be. And that's what needs to be questioned. Personally, it took me years to unravel confusion as a child. And since then I've helped a lot of people be able to realize the sources of confusion so that they can heal. And I really believe all healing is self-healing. By the way, I'm just a guide on the side to help ask questions and to help bring awarenesses to things that we may not have thought of that are linked together. So anyone can begin unraveling confusion. Anyone can begin unraveling confusion. Just by beginning to ask and also paying attention to watch words of I don't know. How much are you saying that? How many times are you hearing that from others? I've worked with a lot of people but that's their answer for everything is I don't know. And if you're familiar with hypnosis sometimes we ask the question of, well, what do you know? And it's a very frustrating position for the person to be in because they really don't know. There's been something that has been turned off. And the reality is, is that inside we're never lost, we're never confused. But that access to grant, I'm pointing to my heart to get to back to that to what the heart knows. There's many Peruvian teachers that say think with your heart, not with your brain. And that's what I'm talking about is making that connection reconnect what the gut feels like to know, you know what you know. And that's just something for us to work on for our inner compass to be turned back on to rewrite our north. And always with any wounds that have been caused there's a genius in there, there's something to unpack. So the way forward is to question motivations of others. And we also must question the motivation within ourselves. Some key questions I have that I will bring to you now and we'll summarize this as well is why am I doing what I'm doing? Why am I doing this? Is it healthy? Is it good for me? Is it good for all living things? Our values come into play here. And that's really another topic I could go off on that but that's another topic for another video. Values are really important and there's a whole teaching I do of removing vows, establishing values in order to work on virtue. And I believe in humanity that that's where we're going. Oh, we gotta undo the confusion. We gotta get clear about who and what we are and where we're going. So stay tuned, stay sane, stay connected to yourself above all, believe yourself over anyone else. And if you don't know how to do that that can be your next assignment. So to summarize, confusion puts the brain in a state of neutral so that an outside source can actually be the driver of your vehicle. Just say no, start to question, have discernment, feel what feels right to you, question all motivations. This does not mean become paranoid but it does mean that we need to go deeper inside so that we can reestablish that connection to undo confusion because it's just a habit, it's just something that we learned in order to get by from another time. Listen for watch words in yourself and for others and question, why am I doing what I'm doing? Is it healthy? Is it good for all living things? Another kind of piece around this is, and it'll be another recording as well, ego watch words. So when we are asking ourselves the question, is it healthy for me? Is it good for all living things? The ego will sometimes step in, well, I have to do this. I need to do this. I ought to do this. I should do this. Thou shall not should on thyself. Something that we always said in graduate seminary to each other, thou shall not should on thyself. And that really means just to be attentive to where those shoulds are happening, where the ought to, the need to, the have tos are happening. There, that's not of benefit. And that is the ego sort of having an agenda. So unpack that a little bit for yourself and it'll be another discussion. So your mission, should you choose to accept it, is use this information to be helpful, to free yourself from any kind of victim energy and to get to be sovereign, to keep our sovereignty and not get caught up in the mental side or the confusion or the things that others want us to believe because that is getting on the drama triangle of being a victim and nobody wins, nobody wins. I'm Tiffany Barsotti, a teacher and a guide on the side. I am grateful for your listening. I'm happy for this time together and the action that you take, hoping that you will. Truly the world and humanity benefit from all of the work that we do on ourselves, for ourselves, so that we're not passing on our stuff to the next generation. So if you like this content, please like, subscribe, do all of those kinds of things that's kind of the normalcy of stuff. There's all kinds of resources on my website of heal and thrive, all kinds of tools and resources that are there for easy consumption. And remember, please, to use your own inner compass. And if you need help with this, maybe join one of our next courses. I'll look forward to seeing you again. Thank you.