 Quick question. My boyfriend has an avoidant attachment. Know all about that. We have different comfort zones of distance. How can we come to common ground without pressuring him or pushing him away? So avoidant attachment style for everybody that doesn't know is somebody that kind of pulls away and avoids things when they start feeling pressure or they start feeling a lot of kind of like negative emotions. And what they do is they pretend like they don't have emotional needs. They pretend like they don't have needs in regards to relationships. And so you're asking how can we come to common grounds without pressuring him or pushing him away? Well, what you need to do is communicate with him and communicate with him and just talk to him about like this is what you should do. What you should do is you should talk about what your perfect scenario would look like and ask him what his perfect scenario would look like and just ask him what he wants and what, you know, what would it look like and how would it feel? And and just kind of talk about your wants and your desires. And just, you know, just start coming, just start communicating, start having the conversation about it and just keep communicating and communicating and communicating and doing what we talk about in this video and doing the framing stuff that we talked about. It's very important communication, talking about.