 Hello everyone, welcome to another Narc Survival Live video. As you can see, I am in the jungle today looking out at this amazing view. Alright, so today we're going to talk about when they see you with someone else. How do they react to that? How does it make them feel? But first let's talk about how they do it to you. They triangulate you with someone else. And the reason why they do that is because they're jealous and insecure. That's where they discourage you. If the narcissist was so secure with them themselves they wouldn't discourage you in the first place. It's all about regaining control. But normally that's not why we do it. We do it because we've forgotten about them. We're moving on from everything they did to us. And we're just wanting to start again. We're wanting to start with something new. And really there's nothing wrong with that. I mean at some point you've got to move on from it. So, yeah at some point you move on to someone else. Someone who is hopefully better than what you were dealing with. At least. And yeah at some point the narcissist catches up with you. They realise that. They see you. And of course they get very jealous. And it may cause a narcissistic injury. It may make them very angry. And they may lash out at you in that moment. And I don't mean physically. They may attack you verbally. They may give you a backhand of compliments. It may be something under the radar. Or they may even just completely ignore you. They may give you the silent treatment. They may act like it doesn't matter. Or as though they're better than the new person you're with. Because remember they have these massive egos. Where they're better than everyone. And if you've found someone else then you're the fool. At least that's how they see it. But another thing they might do is it may trigger them to hoover you. Because remember these people have no morals or values. They don't care if you're with someone. They will pop right back in to your social media account. Or they may call you on the phone. And maybe they will mention what they saw. They may say that they saw you with someone new. And yeah, they might play it off like you look happy with this new person. You look like you're having a good time. Because they know that's going to catch you off guard. And just by them coming back into your space again it reignites all of those feelings you had in the past for this false character that doesn't even exist. And then the cycle starts all over again. Unless you're smart. And you know not to go through that shit again. Once is enough. But yeah, they will get jealous. There's no doubt about that. It will affect them. And they may become competitive. They may try to compete with this new person that you're with. And they may try to win you over. They may try to regain your attention again. You just got to think of these things like a narcissist. Put yourself in the narcissist shoes. Imagine what is going on in their minds. Imagine you're a crazy person. How would a crazy person think? And then you know. You know what they're thinking. You know what they're feeling. You know what they're about to do. So yeah, that's all there is to it. It may or may not cause a narcissistic injury. It depends on how they view you. It may amuse them. They may think it's funny. Because remember they're so arrogant. So grandiose. They're better than everyone. So they may even laugh. But that is just a coping and defense mechanism for how they really feel it inside. Because inside it's killing them. Deep down they can't stand to see it with someone else. But there's nothing they can do about it. But if you have moved on and you've found someone new I just have to take a moment to congratulate you. Because it's not so easy to do that. And you know you should really take a moment to just congratulate yourself for that milestone. Because moving on from a narcissist it's not easy. Not with a trauma bond and all of that. And if you've found someone who treats you right they take good care of you. And they appreciate it when you take good care of them. I'd say you're on the right track. You must be doing something right. Because I've got to tell you for a lot of people it's not that easy. It's easy to just move on and ignore the Hoover attempts and get yourself to the point where you're actually even interested in dating again. Because you thought everyone out there was a narcissist. For everyone's looking to profit at your expense. I mean that's what this does to you. It just makes you so paranoid and hyper-fidgety. I mean everyone's out to get you. But I've always said that on here. I've always tried my best to make that clear that not everyone out here is like that. They're not. There are good people out here still. There may not be many of them but there are some. But you have to catch yourself as well because often what can happen is when you move on from one of these individuals sometimes the victim can take on the role of being maybe not an actual narcissist but someone who is narcissistic someone who is more self-absorbed and lack an empathy that can happen as well because it's more comfortable for you to be playing out these roles and if someone else isn't going to be the narcissist to you then you may choose to be at least that role to them. And I'm saying this from experience I've noticed it in my own life where I haven't been so willing to invest in certain people in my life who maybe deserved a lot more than what I gave to them. So I think it's important to remember that because I think I speak for all of us when I say that the last thing we want is to become like the very people who did those things to us. I mean we don't want to continue this curse and spread it among other innocent people especially those who are just trying to help us. I'm sure I speak for all of us when I say that that is the last thing that we want to do. We want to put a stop to it. We want to cut this stuff out of our lives because it's no good for anyone. It's no good for us. Toxicity, it is not helping anyone. We want to promote more functionality, more good things, healthy relationships and you know that's really my mission right now is to do that and we definitely need more people out here like that. I think that's safe to say. We need more positive messages in this world because there's a lot of things out here that's... you know, it's really not promoting anything productive and I think it's affecting a lot of people. I don't like a lot of the things I see today on things like TikTok and Instagram. You know, these things they're not progressive, they're not productive. 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It's coaching at Knoxviver.co.uk I've already had a few propositions for that and I think people are already sharing the content right now. So the message is out there. It's spreading. Things are getting better every day but still at the moment we are not monetised on YouTube anymore. So one thing we are missing is financial support, investments. So if you would like to contribute to the channel, you can do that from my PayPal. It's PayPal.me slash Knoxviver and coaching as well. You can book a session with me through my website. It's Knoxviver.co.uk but yeah, you know, when they see you with someone else, most likely it is going to anger them. If not, then they must just see it as a joke because they're so arrogant. They're so full of themselves. Just coming back. Going back now. Another one. Got a new car. I like to change it often. Beautiful car, very fast. CLA 45 or black and red. Just the way I like it. But yeah, just take a moment to congratulate yourself. You know, if you have moved on from a narcissist and you've managed to find someone who treats you right, I mean, that is a great achievement. So really take the time today. You should be very proud of yourself because for a lot of people, it's very difficult for them to do that. And those of you who haven't moved on yet, you're not ready to date, that's okay. Take some time. Take some time to heal. It is a process. It's not something that just happens overnight. So, you know, the most important relationship in life is the relationship we have with ourselves. So focus on that for now. Get to know yourself. Get to know who you are. Learn to love yourself. You know, after everything we've been through with narcissists, I mean, you know, they do a lot of damage and that is not attractive to good people. You know who that's attractive to? Narcissists. They're seeking out people who have recently been injured, damaged. Those are the kinds of people that they're looking for weak, vulnerable people. But when you heal yourself and you become mentally strong, that is not so attractive to a narcissist then. They may be attracted to other qualities, but they don't want someone with strong boundaries, someone who knows who they are. They're not going to mess around with someone like that. But a good person, it's okay. They respect your individuality. They respect your boundaries. I mean, of course, everyone wants compromise. You have to find the middle ground, but there's going to be that mutual understanding, respect. So, yeah, it's very important to focus on that relationship with yourself. Get to know who you are. Now is the perfect time to do that. All right. I don't want it to be all doom and gloom. We've got to promote positivity as well. Moving on from these things, getting better, strengthening yourself, having new relationships. These things are very important in our lives. But yeah, that's it for today. Thank you all for joining me. And I'm going to head off now. You all have a great day.