 ہم گہتے ہیں، اللہ صبحانہ اللہ Connected吾تeking و recommendation告訴 ہم benefiting پون محمد صلا اللہabouts ہے۔ اللہ کا motherboard و خفم Centrehimنا گوزانان Mario بلحاikut سے کرنا ہمưaحا With نیک ہمievous بنائے ج feminine smile- نیک ہم بالانی ہونے because we ask Allah to bless every want of us to grant us all goodness to grant us ease to grant us good health to grant us the ability to worship him the way that he would like to be worshipped to grant us the ability to follow the sunnah of محمد صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم not just when it suits us but in fact in every aspect of our life may Allah strengthen us each one of us is weak we try our best to become better people we need to move forward as quick as possible because as the clock is ticking we are getting closer to our grave and the opportunities to gain closeness to Allah shall come to an end so we ask Allah to make us from among those who can continue doing good I mean my brothers my sisters those who may be listening right now and those who will listen to this later you know that marriage has been made very easy in Islam there is a proposal from one side and acceptance from the other in the presence of the representatives as well as the witnesses and at the same time mention is made of the gift that is given from the groom to the bride that is known as mahar something very simple the officiation of a nika does not take more than two minutes the reasoning behind this is divine one of the reasons is that nobody should have an excuse to commit sin because it has been made easy so remember one thing every time you or anyone else makes it difficult for your children or for anyone else to get married you are sinful the idea and the planning and the divine wisdom of Allah سبحانہ و تعالیٰ dictates that you facilitate a nika you facilitate marriage your son wants to get married make it easy your daughter wants to get married make it easy if they are growing up encourage them to get married the prophet سلام ایک ایک مطلب就���ہ جو 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سکتا ہوں ، میں اپنے صور پرزایاں میں محاکہ میں میے後ور پر ایک ملومات ہوتا ہے ، میں ریشان کو کھانا چاہتا ہوں اور میں پر کے بارنے میں ایک بارنے میں کھانا چاہتا ہوں ، پر اپنے بھی جانتا ہے ، ب ہندوہ پر پر ایک سبھالنے ساتھ نہیں سکتے ہیں ، اور دونیا میں نہیں گ어야 ہے ، بہت ہی ہی آخراongہ کیوں ، کیوں کہ میں مکر آخرا آپ صلاح باقیوں کو سبھالنے کو لیکن ، جو سکتے ہیں ، آپ کیا کروشتہ بہت ہے لیکن آپ کو دسپلنے کو مہار کرنے کے لے لیکن آپ دسپلنے کے لے لیکن آپ تو اچیف تھی جہاں بات ہے ، اللہ کی own ماقز کے بارے کی ہے کہ ہمارے بارے کے انہوں نے ساتھ عام کرنے والا سمجھنا کرتا ہے ، انہوں نے سامجھ کرنا ہے ، اس سے بات ہے۔ اور یہ نہیں مجھے فرمہ اور سمجھ کے لئے آپ اپنے بہت ایک بہت ، آپ جانا چاہتے ہیں کہ یہ یہ مدرہ سو zweقیت ہے کہ م판یوں میں نہیں کرتے ہیں۔ کہ میں اپنے بھائی ہے ، اور میں کی طرحہ کیا ہے کہ میں시는 کزا بما کے بارے میں جانتا ہوں میں اننیوں کی پر مرمانیسزم میں کرتے ہیں۔ اللہ کی کھانا میں کھانا ہوں اور ہوں کہ رسول اللہ حالی gaspsہ اللہ لیکن Psalm نے کہا ہے۔ کہ وہ لیکن میں مدرہ میں کھانا ہوں۔ کیونکہ آپ کے 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، ماشا اللہ ، look what happened how whatever you raised the child upon from the early stages is what will have an impact on the child then there comes a day when the ultimate decision is to be made what is it to get married to get married do you know that marriage in most cases determines your future do you know that your choice of a spouse makes you or breaks you your choice of a spouse makes you or breaks you it's a fact so choose well when the young man is choosing the young woman is choosing we need to teach them the guidelines given by Muhammad صل اللہ علیہ وسلم you see a pretty woman ماشا اللہ is the word you know that isn't it but some of the clever ones they say انشاء اللہ may Allah forgive us okay when you see someone you lower your gaze but that is not the only quality you see ماشا اللہ good looking you need to determine the level of faith the level of religion you need to determine that you might want to say سبحان اللہ this person is from a wealthy home you might want to say this person is from a wealthy home that might be attractive to some of the lazy lads wow she's from a wealthy home if I marry I can be after my father in law good idea انشاء اللہ brilliant it might be an attraction no problem it's not but that's not the only thing you should look at wow what else she might be from a good family nice name they have in community the minute some names you hear them everyone says wow I know that family big family ماشا اللہ you know but that's not the only thing you should look at it's not حرام to look at it but success does not lie in looking at those three things however the overriding factor is the level of dean what is the dean is made up of two things your relationship with Allah and your relationship with the rest of the creatures of Allah so if you have a good relation with Allah you fulfill your ڈبادہ you are a pious person for example or you have some sense of religion consciousness of Allah ماشا اللہ and your character and conduct is brilliant responsible person so you have a responsibility if you show that you are responsible wow you are sought after if you show that you are conscious of Allah you are sought after if you show that your character and conduct is exemplary how you talk to people how you کری yourself you are sought after that should be the deciding factor what this means is ماشا اللہ you saw someone really handsome but they've got no dean drop it you saw someone very wealthy they've got no dean drop it you saw someone handsome and wealthy or pretty and wealthy they don't have dean drop it you will come across someone who is good looking they have dean dean beautifies you more than anything else your character your conduct will develop as time passes by the will of Allah سبحانہ و تعالیٰ now comes sorry that was the advice given to the young people getting married when you are choosing these are the things you look at now comes the parents when your children are getting married make it easy don't make it difficult how do I make it easy they are many ways of getting married it is not one way in Islam many ways proposal can come from this side the girls family can insist or they can propose please we have a daughter we are interested it's very good to do that nothing wrong at all sometimes the boys side can come and say you know we have a son we are interested in your daughter please they can say yes they can say no if they say no it's not the end of the world you can push off somewhere else you might get something better سبحان اللہ but it needs to start and sometimes after 1015 requests one whom you are supposed to be with they will agree except and you move forward in the name of Allah سبحانہ و تعالیٰ but it's not wrong for your son or daughter to come to you and to say dad I want to marry someone hey who are you to come and suggest you want to marry are you not a good girl you're a Muslim how could you do that my father my beloved parents wake up and smell the coffee we are Muslim in there is nothing wrong in the woman herself showing interest to marry someone don't be embarrassed take it up Allah is going to ask you if what they are asking you to do is fair and acceptable in the eyes of Allah why do you want to block it why do you want to stop it your job is to facilitate what Allah has allowed sometimes we fail dismally because we did not adopt what Allah said we are following our women's and fancies and our desires we are following our women's and fancies and Allah says hang on I gave you a child you knew that you had to bring this child up you knew that you had to follow our way but when it came to marriage you did not do that you followed your own way what did you do you destroyed the child's life in a lot of cases destroyed the child I have come across thousands of cases where people after marriage they say and I'm talking about thousands not hundreds it used to be tens then hundreds now it's thousands they say I really didn't want to marry this person but my father pushed me to do it how I think that father is going to stand on the day of judgment he's not going to have an answer to Allah I forced what did you force what did you do how would you feel if your wife told you or your husband told you ten years later I never wanted to marry you it was a big mistake I was forced by my mother or my father and we think that is Islam and we think that is what Allah wants from us you guide them you were supposed to have guided them you did not play a role in their life until the last minute and then you came up and you want to suddenly push your way if you had a good relationship from the beginning with your child they would have made you a part of their decision from the beginning but no you did not want that what you wanted is you wanted that you just come where it suits you in their lives impose certain matters and walk off make their lives difficult and Allah says you know facilitate it you facilitate it will become another problem we have in our communities across the globe Muslims are guilty what do we do we delay the nika the people are ready to get married girls side is happy boys side is happy when are you getting married after two years two years for what that two years is a window period for zina and adultery and nothing else that's why you are not supposed to delay the nika once it's ready just like janaza janaza is there what are you waiting for no two years family hasn't come they are coming next week if it was that they are coming soon few hours maybe perhaps we can wait but you want to wait for one week for what which Allah has told you to do that are you following what I'm saying مے اللہ سبحانہ واتعالیٰ Forgive us so don't delay the nika for no reason we need to know this it is very important it is a powerful message because it's not up to me it's up to Allah Allah told me what to do I need to follow what Allah says سبحانہ واتعالیٰ Yes if your child is really going astray and they are really doing something that is not even acceptable in the eyes of Allah then you might want to be a little bit firm in the way you guide them that's not wrong but unreasonable I've come across people who grew up together they child wants to marry either sometimes it's even a family member sometimes it's a business associate sometimes it's someone just because they have a different origin ethnicity except they just say no I'm not interested no ways no ways and you don't know the boy and the girl have had a relationship for so long before they involved you in it because they were scared of you you don't even know that and you just came in suddenly one day you said no سبحانہ اللہ مے اللہ سبحانہ واتعالیٰ Grant us goodness and guidance and may Allah open our doors I have spoken for 20 minutes more than 20 minutes but you know this topic no matter how much you say it's very interesting there's only one problem every time I speak about marriage I see the older people looking at me like too late man you should have spoken this when I was younger you know now it's unfortunate I'm already so old you know and they look at you with so much of desperation in the eyes I pray that Allah give us happiness I pray that Allah give us joy and Allah سبحانہ اللہ makes us from among those whom when we look at our spouses we just feel this coolness of our eyes we feel so happy we feel really you know your spouses sacrifice a lot that sacrifice overtime becomes the point of love do you realize this as we grow older all of us we lose our shape and our size and we sometimes lose our looks you have to you become old you wrinkle you become gray but you look at your spouse with all that gray and you have so much of love for them because they sacrifice their lives for you and for your children and so much more now you are maturing you become a person who's more responsible you start loving people for the right reasons it's no longer about outward beauty it's more about the inward beauty I want to cry when I'm talking because wallahi I'm sure that those who are slightly older they relate with what I'm saying right now wallahi pray for your spouses make dua may Allah bless them may Allah grant them goodness may Allah grant except from them all their sacrifice somebody's daughter look after her in the case of the wife somebody's son respect him look after him as well look after each other respect each other don't use abusive language I want to end with one piece of advice for the groom and the bride today in the verses the imam is going to read you will hear one verse cooloo callan sadida after that which is upright be careful because 95% of the problems in marriages are to do with the way you use your tongue use your tongue wisely go out of your way to say beautiful words lovely words to your spouse every day tell them how beautiful how pretty they are how lovely how much you miss them how much you love them how much you miss them how much you love them how much you care for them and let it happen you know we are living in a generation way to tell them 10 times a day is no longer enough I think between last year and this year it's shut up by two 12 times a day by next year it will be 14 times and as the time passes you will have to have an hourly message I love you and it won't just be I love you there are so many ways of saying I love you I adore you what else we can come up with all sorts of statements of affection today the world is filled with so much of materialism and it is being advertised and marketed in a very aggressive way that we need to reassure one another long back reassurance was not needed the fact that I came home I smile salam aleikum that was enough that salam I promise you when you walk in the house and this this happens I hope it still happens to some it should be happening to a lot of us as you enter your house you see your spouse you smile they say a salamualaikum that means I really love you they read into the statement in actual fact it means peace be upon you but the way you came and you were so happy and you smiled they did not need you to say I love you the fact that they saw you salamualaikum and that's your wife subhanallah that's your husband and they look back and say walaikum salam it was enough the kids never ever saw husband and wife or father and mother hugging before in the older generation but they did more than just hugging with their statements with their words with their expressions the problem with us is we lack all of this so therefore we need to keep on reminding one another may Allah bless you all it's a beautiful topic and I'm glad that everyone here is smiling at least because wallahi we can do much more to improve the condition of our homes I want to end with a little prayer to say may Allah bless you both may Allah bless whatever he gives you inshallah may he make it filled with blessing and may Allah subhanahu وatalah grant you all goodness and every one of us those who are married may Allah grant you happiness those who are not married may Allah grant you spouses who will be the coolness of your eyes those who have children may they be the coolness of your eyes those who don't have children may Allah bless you with good offspring I mean