 What's up y'all we're gonna talk about five ways to flirt with someone that you'll like so flirting is one of my favorite things to do in the world Basically, it's adult play two adults having fun with each other Okay, you're saying words back and forth. You're smiling. You're having a good time Basically, you're showing interest but not being too serious about it So one of the ways that you can use this is to see if somebody's interested in you See if they're willing to play back a lot of people if you do this right should be having a great time Also, what you can do to use flirting is you can make somebody if you do it, right? You have good game as we like to call it then if you flirt with somebody in the right way You can actually make them more attracted to you. Okay, or you can unleash the Interattractiveness with within that person. Okay, so I'm gonna give you five ways that I like to do this And if you use these correctly that you're gonna be having a lot more success in your next flirtatious encounter All right, so we're gonna get into the first one right now The first one is going to be deliberate misinterpretations. This is one of my favorite ones So I'll give you an example So if I'm hanging out with my girl or something like that and maybe I'm getting a little too full of myself She's gonna say something that's probably gonna try and tear me down like tease me a little bit Okay, she'll say something like you know what you're too skinny to be acting this arrogant All right, and I'll say thank you Basically, she wasn't saying it as a compliment, but I interpret it as a compliment It's one of my favorite things to do if you pull this off in the right way It comes off as a little bit cocky, but a little bit funny as well too and Everybody can have a good time with it So like deliberate misinterpretations is one of my favorites number two is going to be playful assumptions This is probably the one that I use the most playful assumptions is where you assume something about somebody Maybe you notice something about them, and then you're like pointing it out a little bit Okay, so if I notice that What's that good way of putting it one of my favorite ways of Saying this is maybe they'll do something and I'll be like, oh you would do that or you would say that Do not make this something negative Okay, this is where you have to assume the positive things about somebody and sometimes they'll be like well Why why do you assume that and then you want to go into an explanation about it? That's gonna lift them up rather than tear them down Playful assumptions is great get good at noticing things about people picking the positive things about that person and then politely pointing it out To them. Okay, your show shows you're paying attention to them It makes them feel important, but also makes them feel a little fun and pokes a little fun at them Okay, number three number three is going to be nicknames nicknames is great I like to pick nicknames that kind of embody the person, you know, whether they resemble a famous actor or a superhero You know just someone that you know I like to pick superheroes because I love superheroes I read comics when I was a little kid So and now that superheroes are more popular people can usually get my references before all the superhero stuff came out like Nobody got my references because nobody watched superhero movies or read the comics So I really really like that also you can pick someone that's like pick someone that might be unique or Maybe someone notice of something about that person that you know you has never been called out before So I like to pick someone that's gonna be positive like don't pick a nickname. That's like Ursula from the Little Mermaid or something like that someone that somebody wouldn't like although Ursula does get hot briefly in that movie But you know what I mean, okay Don't pick something that's gonna be mean and tears them down I would pick a nickname. That's actually going to bring them up. Okay, maybe comparing them to like Scarlett Johansson Supergirl or I don't know maybe an anime character with a lot of people of anime So I like to give nicknames to people that I think is gonna really bother If they give you a nickname back and now you guys have a little nickname thing going that's actually a pretty cool thing It's kind of like you guys against the world Kind of like feel between between the two of you and that really helps if you're trying to like establish a connection with them I think it's a really great way to flirt number four is gonna be cocky humor Cocky humor is one of my favorite you can especially pull this off if you're a guy But honestly you can pull this off for a woman as well, too Guys like women that are a little bit cocky as well in the right way Okay, if you're too cocky then you become arrogant people do not like people who are arrogant But they like people who are a little bit playfully cocky. I'll give you an example my You know if I'm out with a girl that I'm seeing and she's having trouble opening You know a bottle or something like that. I might take it from her open the bottle and then just like flex a little bit while I do it You know and as soon as I do that there's like little cocky humor like yes Of course I was able to open and she couldn't but like was it necessary for me to do that? Probably not so that's one of the ones where she's gonna like roll her eyes, too But like everyone kind of giggles and has fun with it So cocky humor is great if you know how to pull it off again Once if you do it too much though you get into the arrogant realm So make sure that you have a smile about yourself make sure that she knows that you're not being too serious number five is going to be playful arguments playful Arguments are another thing that I think is really great for building energy between the two of you So if you have a playful argument playful argument might be something like you know you arguing about what's the best flavor of ice cream? How bad did the eighth season of Game of Thrones suck? You know things like that things that don't really matter in life But you could have some playful energy between the two of you If you've noticed when it comes to flirting people like to tease each other people like to you know give Poke the bear so to speak a little bit and this allows you to kind of have that playful energy that competitive energy between the two of you Which is really good for building sexual tension However, if it gets too high up sometimes you get the argument goes here. She goes there you go there you go there You get there it gets up too high What you want to do is bring it back down a little bit for instance If you start arguing about like cookies and cream is a better flavor than Rocky Road of ice cream And you guys and if you can feel the temperature getting up to a pretty high level where you're like, okay I'm not sure if we're flirting anymore then you want to bust out like a really positive compliment or like something affectionate I'll usually say something like oh my god You're so awesome give me a hug and then like you bring that energy back down to let her know that you still got love for Even though you were having that playful argument get building up that energy and bring it down to something positive Is a really great way to flirt and one of the biggest reasons why I notice guys aren't able to flirt is their energy There's no playful energy and their energy tends to be very low and bland and boring This can get that energy up by having a little bit of playful competition between the two of you So play for arguments is great. Cool. Well, that's the five you guys again the way to get better at flirting I've said this before my videos is to practice honestly. I'll flirt with anybody, you know, I'll flirt with uh I'll flirt with an old lady. I'll flirt with a you know my friend. I'll flirt with women. I like I flirt with everybody I think it's fun. It's basically just playing between two adults It's not that big of a deal and if you practice you're gonna get better at it And when you do meet someone that you like you're gonna be able to have that playful energy So it's not just a normal boring like platonic conversation Which a lot of guys or even women can complain about they want people if you flirt in the right way You're gonna make that other person smile and laugh and that's really what it's all about It's like having fun with that other person bringing in that positivity in their life So if you practice you're gonna get better at doing that sort of stuff and you're gonna be a better dator cool guys Well, thanks for watching those are all the tips that I have for today if you want more There's links in my description box below you can send up from a weekly mailing list You're gonna get access to free trainings You can take my mating intelligence quiz to see how high your mating intelligence is and then also too if you want to reach out To me for coaching have a couple spots left well one left right now and yeah Just click the link in the description box below. We'll talk good luck out there you guys