 And that's the point that a lot of men are making, like a lot of these contingency plans that we're seeing women may go into the sperm bag and shit like that, it doesn't make sense because on the face, you're tabbing this idea that we don't need men. But the reality is women absolutely need men for survival. I agree. Listen, it's the message right here. Black boy tell me how you really feel, cause I just wanna build with you. Girl tell me how you really feel, I wanna keep it real with you. I wanna live better, eat better, I wanna love better, sleep better, yeah. I wanna feel so aligned. What I'll say is this, kind of like I mentioned earlier, it's a, I think it really boils down to a value thing, like a value question. Because even you're mentioning like, you know, where does the critique end, right? Where, when are we good enough? I think what you're describing is just a, the tip of the iceberg of masculinity. Back in the day, the complain is that men were too macho, they didn't show enough emotion, they spent too much time at work, just this and that. Nowadays, the complaint is men spend too much time playing video games, men are too soft, they're not as hard working. So like men in a lot of ways have made peace, some peace with, will never be good enough for you. Even, even the popular narrative on TV and the media is, there's some way he's fallen short, but I'm just here. You know what I'm saying? Even, he watched cartoons with like family guy and shit like that. There's always the narrative of the, the idiot dude who got a wife who's way out of his league mentally and physically, right? Like that is the prevailing narrative and guys have had to kind of make peace with the fact that, you know, I'm quote unquote not the prize. You know, I'm quote unquote never going to be good enough for her. You'll hear dudes say, she's my better half shit like that, right? Now on the flip side, I can't even tell you to make a sandwich without being misogynistic. Oh my gosh. That's not true. I can't, no, no, no. I'm not saying me personally. I'm just saying these are, these are the things that, yeah, these are the things men are saying. I can't even tell you, I don't like that dress. I can't even, like I can't tell you shit, whether it's a romantic relationship, whether it's a platonic relationship, whether it's a family relationship, and men are starting to realize, especially nowadays when there's now an abundance of options, men are starting to realize that, hold on, wait, this ain't the best I can be doing. I don't have to use my time and effort critiquing somebody who doesn't want to listen. I'm going to just take my, and that's where you see the passport bros and shit like that. And a lot of the passport bros, they're not going to white women. They're going to black women just somewhere else. Because the reality of it is, the cater to you song, Beyonce, and her saying she's going to brush her hand, put his do rag on, is like monumental. In other countries, that's standard. And then on the flip side, what you have to do in the West to keep a woman happy, doing that there is like making her dreams come true versus here, it's like, you know, you see the videos of, oh, you're not going to pay for me and my 18 friends. You feel what I'm saying? So we're not having an equitable conversation. And all black men are saying to our women is, you expect me to come into this with optimism, with grace, and with open mindedness and the benefit of the doubt, right? And I'm supposed to value and see value in you versus on the flip side, that's not reciprocated up for the, I would say even the majority of men, their experience and not just in romance, I'm talking about just, you know what I'm saying, hotel clerk, I'm talking about grocery store, I'm talking about just every day, their experience tends to kind of mirror some of our experiences with white people. We ain't shit until proven otherwise. So the operating premises, I'm waiting for this show me that he ain't shit. And we feel that energy. And even if it's in a relationship, even if it's, you know what I'm saying, you can even walk her down the aisle, it's, there's some way shape or form that I'm falling short. And this is the first, and I think this is why it's hurting women's feelings so much. This is the first time men have had the opportunity to even gain the language to articulate that. Like we've been feeling this for a long time and we'll chop it up with our boys, but a lot of us didn't even have the language. We didn't even know what was going on. We just thought it was normal. Oh, she's just gonna complain it is, what it is, it is. But then we're looking at it like, yo, I don't like this either. So even like one way you mentioned, you know, it's easier with the white man for instance and shit like that. And I'm not saying that with certainty. No, no, no, listen. I'm saying I could see possibly how it could be. No, no, no, that's absolutely true. No, no, let's not beat around the bush. No, it is absolutely true. It's easier to be with a white man. Absolutely. Now, are you thinking about that in historical context? Right. Are you thinking about that from his perspective? Right. Why is it that he has an affinity for an abrasive woman who's more domineering and more, you know what I'm saying? Like there's a reason why compared to black men, he might be an easier. And then the part, and we're talking about Eve, the part that's even the most infuriating for me, especially when I think about young boys is you spend so much time touting a certain archetype of black man, the soldier, the two-pock, the negorated pop off this, this and that. And then when boys follow your lead, because young boys are led by their penises, when they follow your lead and become that and ruin their lives, end up in a jail cell, end up in the ground. Oh, now, men age. After being a shitty mother to a boy, after being a shitty, you know what I'm saying? You know, carrot for young boys. Now you run to this effeminate white man, whose personality you've run over in black men. Serena Williams ain't marrying a black version of Ohania, whatever his name is. Eve ain't marrying a black version of the whatever white dude she's with. So that is the part that is so infuriating. And you'll see, for instance, black men, they'll marry like a fat white girl or some shit like that. I think what it should tell black women is that, yo, men are willing to go down in looks to go up in cooperation. And our women are spending so much time, energy and effort just trying to look the part. You want to be the bad, baddest bitches on the planet. But how sustainable is that long term if you are looking for long term companionship? Nobody's really thinking about that. Yeah. Are people really looking for long term companionship? I think that whole roommate shit we're hearing some women say they want now. I think it sounds good on paper, but I've observed women in groups for a long period of time. It's not sustainable. You're saying they want two separate rooms? Is that what you mean? No, no, no, no, like I'm talking about the cattiness. Oh, okay. I'm talking like women now some women are saying we don't need men. We're just going to get an apartment together and shit like that. And it's like it sounds good in theory, but even you saw a video go viral recently of one girl who wanted to fight her female friend because her boyfriend came over. That's jealousy. Yeah, that's not, yeah. But I'm saying like female nature is there is some cattiness. Yeah, but that's very unnatural as well. I don't think so. I don't think having a roommate, a woman, especially when you have a roommate piece, that's very unnatural. But they're using it as an alternative to having to change themselves to be able to be in partnership with a man. I agree 100%. And I think we talked about this a little bit. That's where I think that we will be going. You will see a lot more of that and I don't think it's black, white, whatever. Basically, there's a lot, there's a sector of women who don't want to commit a relationship. They don't want to get married. They're literally older women that are telling young women, don't get married. It's not worth it. This and that. Don't have kids. Gold of your life, this and that. And the roommate thing, it's going to be, they're going to find a way to capitalize off of that. I think it's going to be a big moneymaker for this country. But it is very unnatural. I mean, especially if you're like in childbearing years between like 27 and 32 from like a, from a primal perspective, what are you going to share, share resources in this house together, especially if there's a man that, which even sounds crazy too. So you're a roommate, but you're inviting your boyfriend over like what? That'll even make no sense. But, and that's the point that a lot of men are making. Like a lot of these contingency plans that we're seeing women may go into the sperm bag and shit like that. It doesn't make sense because on the face, you're telling this idea that we don't need men, but the reality is women absolutely need men for survival. I agree. And it was clearer back in the day when your husband was also your mechanic and he was also your accountant and all kinds of shit. And now you feel like, you know what I'm saying? You can go pay for what happens during a hurricane, right? Who's going to come rescue you when, when, when there's, you know, somebody outside your door, who do you want pulling up? And it's like, you know, this girl power shit is cool, but like y'all have to start telling the truth as well. We're not built the same for the same shit. So unless, unless you want to die on this hill that men have no value in anything you could do, I could do better. And you know what I'm saying? Girl power, this, this and that. Now, if that's the case, cool and do that. But this double speak of I want to be a strong independent woman, but I also want you to pay on the first date and treat me like a lady and shit like that, like pick one. Yeah. Yeah, I agree. I agree.