 The next one is not every man who wants to be in a relationship with you will want to marry you. And this goes back to like men have issues too, right? And upbringing is really, really important. And you want to learn a lot about his relationship to his parents and his parents' relationship to each other and how he feels about all of that. And just kind of take a look, like especially if you're getting into dating a guy, you're thinking that he might be right, you know, just start asking him about some of this stuff and asking him about his relationship to his parents and their relationship to each other because he has an imprint that he got from when he was a kid in his relationship to his mother, which is a reflection of a lot of his relationships to other women in his life and then how he feels about his relationship to his mother and father and his mother and father's relationship with each other because it will tell you what's normal for him and what you may be experiencing if you end up getting into a real relationship with him because sometimes it's good, sometimes it's bad. Sometimes if it's bad, but he has kind of a negative outlook on that and he wants something different, then, you know, it might be a better situation. So you just want to learn a little bit about what's going on there.