 This is Debbie Daschinger, and I'm going to give you a little secret about creating dreams and getting things accomplished. What I've noticed is that in everybody's life, even these really great leaders and brilliant people who are doing a lot of great things, here's something that we all have in common. This is usually something we really want to do, be or create, and we have a lot of resistance for some strange reason to creating it. Who knows why, right? If it's about love, maybe we're not willing to get online or go do that date. If it's about our body, we're just not willing to follow through and create some way of eating that feels really right and healthy. If it's about finances, we're just not willing to get the help we need or sit down and sort it out and really take a look at it, we'd rather just pretend it doesn't exist. If it's about having some calm in our life, there are people out there who just won't meditate, although say every reason why meditation for some reason doesn't work for them because they can't shut off their mind, but they won't get the help they need to teach them how to do that. There's a million things you can fill in this blank with, but what is it you really want to create that you're just not doing, but it kind of sits in your car, it sits in your space because it's not being done, you know you want to do it, you know you want to have it at least, you may not want to do what it takes to have it, but here's my secret, and I have discovered this and it is easy and life changing. It's called accountability, but the piece of it is this. When I'm accountable to moi, I'm still going to do the same crapola I've been doing. I want this, I need to do something, I'm not going to do it, I resist it, I want this, I'm not going to do it, I resist it, I'm not going to do it, and that will go over and over until maybe at some point I'll just cancel out and go, I must not really want to do that, or it just sits in like that, right? So here's what's really interesting. I've been using accountability with a small group of people that is changing my life. You could do this with one person, but the bottom line is only one thing, you got to check in and be accountable, you can text somebody every day, let's say it's the meditation piece, you've said, I'm committing that I'm going to meditate, I'm going to do this every day and maybe you bought something online or on your phone and it's an app, or maybe you know how to do TM or maybe there's another methodology that you like to use, whatever it is, you commit to doing it and every day you write to this person and something happens, let me tell you, because you don't want to write to somebody and say, I didn't do it today, you feel really uncomfortable with yourself, it's promise you less about them and much more about yourself and having integrity and trust that you built with yourself. Here's another one, I really wanted to speak on stage and I knew, I knew, knew, knew that was the next evolution and what I do out in the world in media and in success and in writing books and being on the radio and all of that stuff and yet I couldn't do it, but accountability got me there. Look, they're booking me for a speaking gig right now, see how that is? Accountability folks, you could pick up the phone and that could be your next dream come true. Go to debbie-shinger.com