 Hi, I'm Matthew coast head dating coach and founder at commitment connection calm and today We're going to talk about how to attract a man So if you're struggling to attract a man to you then this is exactly What you need to do so first is you need to find a man to attract and so if you haven't found a Man to attract yet what you need to do is go out and be open and available to men a lot of women go out And they aren't open and they aren't available to men And so they don't end up meeting any guys And so first thing you need to do is go out and find a guy by being open and available for him to approach and talk to you The second is getting his attention So if this is the primary step that you need to to you know attract a guy to you is he has to you have to get his attention somehow and And You know most guys won't come over and approach a woman. They won't come to a woman. They won't They won't pursue a woman unless They get some kind of invitation to do so and so what you want to do is You can get a guy's attention in a lot of different ways you can you know wear something that looks really good You can get make eye contact with a guy and smile You can you can go over and start a conversation with him There's a lot of different things that you can do to to get a guy's attention So the next thing that you want to do is encourage him to pursue you and notice when I say that I'm not saying you know to You know get a guy to chase you. I'm not saying that you should come on to a guy strong I'm not saying that you should act needy and desperate I'm saying you should encourage a guy to pursue you just you know when he does things that are That when he does pursue you Or he does things that might be considered him pursuing you. You know you You tell him that you like it you tell him it's attractive. You know you You let him know that you're sexually attracted to him You know tell him that he's hot or tell him you know something that he did was hot and attractive That's a very attractive thing to do with a guy and say to a guy And so if you do that that can be really attractive and he will pursue you more a lot most guys are stuck in the friend zone with way too many women and So if a guy doesn't feel like you're interested in him, he might not pursue you at all So you want to make sure that he knows that you are Interested in him sexually as a woman and a man as a woman to a man You know what I mean? so the next one is Creating an emotional connection with him. And so this is something that a lot of women kind of mess up on they Try to like logically convince men that they should be together and that just does not work That doesn't work ever. I've never ever seen that work because a guy Isn't attracted to you logically he's attracted to you emotionally and so you have to connect with his emotions And so there's a whole bunch of different ways to do that. You can tell stories You can be playful fun and playful with him. You can get connected with your feminine side. You can You can get in touch with your emotions and express your emotions without Expectation don't use expectations because that's incredibly unattractive and if you want more information on how to do this and You know how to attract a quality man into a committed relationship Make sure you go to my website at commitment connection calm and take the quiz there I'm Matthew coast and I'll speak with you again soon