 Please stop saying this to single Christians. Singleness is a gift, a blessing, enjoy it. Bro, hold up, wait a minute. Yes, the gift of singleness is a gift, what Paul had. He didn't have the desire to get married. He was very content with being single his whole life. Undesired singleness, however, though, is a blessing from God, as all things are, can still be a trial in someone's life. I fully recognize that we should rejoice and give thanks in all things, and recognize that God is at work behind the scenes. But that does not mean that everything that happens to us is yippie-skippy. You don't have to see everything in your life as great and wonderful just because it's part of God's plan. It is a part of God's plan, but it's also hard. Just recognize that it's not wrong to see a trial as a trial. It's actually only when we begin to acknowledge that we're having a hard time can we give those feelings to God. We thank God in all things, but we can also recognize the emotional and mental challenge that undesired singleness has on a person. Look, all I'm really trying to say is...