 Hi, she was seven. I'm back. I know it's been a while You fix this lighting. Okay. I know it's been a while, but I've been on vacation It was my birthday weekend, but I'm back for don't worry so On my vacation, I was watching some YouTube and I came across this lady's channel and I really like her Okay, her name is a lot of Done chiva. I don't know if that's how you pronounce her name But I will link her video below that I will be referring to Throughout this video. Okay So Basically This lady is basically saying how to become irresistible To men and attract love to you the secret of female power When I saw that title, I was like, mm-hmm. Let's see what she has to say click So I clicked on it And she broke it down spiritually And physically. Okay. Why women need a certain type of man Um, she says, okay, if you're familiar with the chakra systems in your body Um, these are what balances you out um, spiritually mentally and physically So she goes into There is a certain chakra It's called this the sacral chakra and it's um in the lower half of the body which Generates that female power that sexuality that attraction that draws in men And she basically says when it's not in balance it cannot, you know, attract men or Also causes illness in the female Or a huge imbalance, which actually will repel men away from you No matter how gorgeous you are how smart you are how rich you are or whatever Um, and she breaks it down to a T. So I'm going to link her video below so y'all can go watch it It's very long, but you can kind of pause it and come back and watch it later In between whatever you're doing, but she makes points all throughout the video So even if you just watch 10 minutes, you're already going to know what page I'm on Okay, so basically She's saying if a woman Cannot be creative If she doesn't feel secure If she's always in survival mode If she's always stressed if she's always giving and and not receiving as much If she's the breadwinner and always working working working Her sacral chakra is not going to be in balance to produce this female magnetism that attracts men It's it's going to be giving energy to other chakras To produce more go go go work work work And to go produce more You know Survival Skills In which is more masculine than than it is feminine And also she talks about how when women get in, you know to their careers more And they don't have a partner or they're not balancing You know certain things out they become more masculine And when they actually do meet a man, they are actually repelling them because They're so used to being around so much masculine energy in the career place that they Have not really had to work on balancing that sacral chakra Because they're always in competition mode. They're always trying to outdo the next person And they're always trying to work and stay on top So when they get into a social environment and they're having a conversation with a colleague that they might like or a man They may like they find themselves correcting the man Giving him ideas to like how to improve upon this or upon that Always outsmarting or out trying to outdo him in the conversation or in wit instead of Kind of listening and being the receiving party of the information and it just admiring him um so She goes into all of that and then she also goes into how you can actually Make your sacral chakra even stronger to attract men To you things you can do by yourself things you can eat and such things like that like fresh fruit certain exercises Um Certain meditations grounding earthing all that kind of goes down if you're really spiritual you already know what that is But there's other ways too that she explains and it is through Pampering like getting your nails done getting your hair done doing your makeup dressing pretty Doing things that are just extra feminine taking a bath Um, you know having girls night out having fun having a creative outlet drawing painting You know sculpting designing singing dancing Pilates yoga whatever um feminine creative Thing that you can do to um balance out this chakra Now if you're not into chakras basically It's just becoming more feminine and feeding your femininity to where when you interact with other people It's going to ooze out of your pores. It's going to ooze out of your Essence so basically when you meet a woman who's tired who's been drugged down who's all always about work competition um, you know all of her Clothing is like black or gray or blue like a man's wardrobe She um, you know barely looks at herself in a mirror anymore. She just throws on some lipstick to look presentable Combs her hair cuts it. Um, you know doesn't worry about nails or toenails. She's just outdoor hurry hurry hurry That's the stressed out woman and her femininity is very lacking Okay, and then you have the one that's very competitive who you know tries to not Have an exterior that's distracting in the workplace. So she downplays her beauty Okay, and um And then you have the one that's really successful and really feminine But she's just like Given herself everything that she could ever need. So she kind of is saying, you know, I really don't need a man I'm beautiful. Everybody admires me. I'm feminine already but That is you know How a woman balances herself when she doesn't have a man or a partner So if she were to have a partner and she was feminine and successful He's gonna have to be even more successful than she is in order for her to Maintain a balanced sacral chakra or maintain her her current state of femininity Okay So basically That's why you see all these, you know, um women who have money They either go for the billionaires who have got a lot of money because they can still, you know Feel feminine underneath them um, and then you have The women who take care of men and who are always paying men's bills and you you'll see them. They're they look drained They're always depressed. They feel there's something missing out of their life. They're imbalanced. They have health problems You know, a lot of times they have so much stress that they their uh menstrual cycles are off They grind their teeth and their sleep They get premature aging. They have nightmares Um, they break out in acne Their skin is all messed up their hormones are out of balance because their chakral Chakra is Are there sacral chakra? I'm sorry. I'm like combined into words. It's out of balance because spiritually And physically the woman is naturally The receiver the negative energy and the male is naturally the giver and the positive energy And if you cross those roles for too long The woman is slowly going to be depleted of her femininity and her feminine energy and it's going to turn more masculine And her physical body is going to suffer because her body's not producing what it needs as a woman And it's kind of like being totally stressed out And it's not good for you if you ever notice a lot of women who take care of men and who um, you know Who are always You know in survival mode or who are always, you know I can't find a man because I'm too independent and I'm too strong and they just they're afraid of me. They always have either health issues stress issues You're going to find out that they're going to feel like something is missing even though they have everything And it's not the man It's just something they can't put their finger on it is their lack of femininity that has left and that they no longer Can feel it's just gone Okay, uh, they don't have that luxury of being vulnerable anymore They don't have the luxury of depending on someone anymore and feeling safe and comfortable in that dependency So they're you know, they're always stressed and they're always, you know, gotta go gotta go gotta get it They gotta get it. I can't trust anyone. You know, they have seen Men almost as an enemy now And so they're you know, they're sacro chakras. It's now basically Operating and giving energy to their other chakras and creating more of uh, you know an imbalance so Even if you don't have a man Pamper yourself love yourself be feminine within yourself Even if you just have to be feminine for no one but the mirror Or you know Facebook or selfies or whatever you gotta do it will help you balance out more so I really don't make these type of videos because a lot of people are not really Um, going to be into the spiritual side of why a woman needs a successful man a giving man A man who is strong in his masculinity This is why okay when a lot of women give men Things and more attention than a man gives a woman It messes up the the chemistry. Okay, if you are giving a man more attention than he's giving you You are feeding into his emotional femininity So he's going to become more emotional He's going to become more feminine because you're giving away what Is supposed to be given to you through him. Okay, he's supposed to give you the attention That's going to feed your sacro chakra making you feel more feminine and pretty and you know special But instead you're feeding him that and he's becoming more feminine Okay, so this is why you see a lot of men walking around all in their feelings and thinking they're equal to women because women have And men I'm not just gonna blame it on women but women and men have stopped thinking about The physical the spiritual and the mental and they have just started looking at You know, oh times have changed. Oh women are equal to men. Women are never equal to men. Women are complementary To men and men are complementary to women That is like saying two puzzle pieces Are equal to each other if you have two puzzle pieces that are the same exact shape They do not fit together. You cannot complete a picture with that. Okay and You know, even if if you are a gay or lesbian couple There's always one person that is more masculine and there's always one person that is more feminine So you're not going to have You know The colliding, you know, same Things bumping heads, you're gonna have one masculine and one feminine So you'll have to keep that in mind when y'all pick these guys and when you pursue them When you overly flirt with a man when you overly pursue a man when you overly put yourself out there You're giving away your femininity. They're supposed to chase you Okay, they're supposed to pay for it you Otherwise you are depleting your life force and your feminine essence And giving it to that man and what he does with it He stores it up if y'all watch this lady's video she she explains it way better than me He stores it up and puts it in his other chakra Which makes him a go-getter it gives him that energy to go out and pursue and make money And do this and do that. He has everything he needs. He feels like a man He has that confidence to go out into the world and now he can go make his millions and thousands of whatever dollars But you're still lacking because you gave all your feminine energy to him and you got nothing in return So ladies, you don't give your feminine energy away. You don't chase after a man. You don't openly flirt And give everything away to this man. They need to chase you. You don't present yourself in such a way where it's like Oh, hi. Yes, I uh You know, you don't do all of that To get the attention of the man. You're supposed to automatically get it Okay, if you have to fish With a fishing pole and throw stuff out there and pictures and overly flirt It's not real. You're actually doing it with the man. It's supposed to be doing Okay, so if you've been feeling depleted If men are only interested in you for certain reasons, it's because You have given them that energy And you have taken it out of yourself and you have been depleted and once they take that energy If they're not your main man and they don't give it back to you and you know Pampering you or gifts or anything like that. You're gonna go give it to another woman So make sure you the main chick if you are with some guy And don't be the side chick because you will always Be like, okay I'm losing out but I'm giving him my all and his side. I mean his main Woman is getting all the benefits So y'all keep that in mind and I'll see y'all later. All right Uh, don't forget to check out the girl's video. She's she's awesome. All right