 Learn to keep short accounts build the kind of soul that does not let you hold on to stuff. I need too many older people who are bitter and twisted and and sort of Stooped inwardly and sort of all tight Inwardly and it makes them mean and it makes them unloving and it makes them suspicious and it makes them Guard and it makes them fearful it makes them nervous and it makes them judgmental and narrow all of that stuff. I think is a cause a consequence of Holding things that will not help you age well