 Yeah, I can't see that. Let me see. Let me make sure my volume working. There you are, the cute Scott Coastal. That demolisher, can y'all hear me? Okay, you can hear me, thank you. Oh, Raggedy IG. I did Instagram live today and somehow my sound was turned off. And the next time it worked, but I'm glad we got that. I was a little disturbed and the thing about it is when y'all see me go live sometimes, I'm honestly an introvert and I say that to y'all and a lot of people don't believe it because how you're introverted, you're a speaker. I heard Eddie Murphy is an introvert too, but I honestly don't like speaking but I think that's why the Lord have not let one of my tech company sell because he know my personality I might give up on my purpose and stop, you know, doing these videos but for now it's like I've got nothing else to do. I ain't got no, I gotta serve, you know? Ain't gotta retire to no island, my son's, my son had practice today so that's why I'm doing this and now it makes sense to me about that post that the brother had that saying, you know, with men, if you ain't got, if you got the money then sometimes you don't got the time and sometimes you got the time you ain't got the money to take care of your family because when my son practicing, you know, my wife, she could sit and she could take it all in and she could watch them practice. With me, when they practicing, I got a, you know, multi-task and I gotta look at them out the window and be writing something or doing a video. So I wanted to pop on here cause I haven't been on here in a little while and for those of you in the blessed tribe, I really appreciate you. The blessed tribe is me going live to do Q and A's and live chats and so only those in the blessed tribe can chat when I do these and I do that as well just because I don't want a bunch of randoms, you know, in the chat, being trolls and stuff. I'm not sure what you was asking. She's a queen. Say I saw it in the video, you post you and your wife on the way to dinner in the Maldives. I'm not sure if you asked a question before that or if I said something pertaining to that. But yeah, this is a chat and a Q and A. So I answer questions and I'll be chatting. One of the things I wanna see, oh, I saw how introverted you are. Okay, okay, that's interesting, you pick that up. One of the things that I wanna remind the parents is get your kids, get your kids. What's going on out here in this world and just, you know, how things going, you gotta make sure you're in their face and you gotta make sure you're talking to them daily and that you're really getting with them and that you're breaking down the game to them, that you're teaching them every little thing inside and out. You gotta really make sure you're doing that because the way this here world is and the music, raising these kids and the social media and YouTube raising them is getting real dicey. So you gotta make sure you're doing everything you can and my sons don't have social media. My 14 year old, he don't have any social media. You know, he gotta go look at it if he went in with his friends or something but he doesn't have, he got profiles but he doesn't run them. He doesn't have the login, the password, any of that. Of course one day he'll want them one but he'll understand how to use it but I'm just seeing and hearing too much. So that's what my video, that's on Instagram about. So I'll let that be that. And y'all go check that out, you know, when you get time. But if you have a question, make sure you put the hashtag Q in front of your question. And if your question has a, you know, need a lot of backstory, it's probably not the best for here. I had to come to practice tonight so I had a coaching session at 7.30 and I wrote my client and asked us, hey, can we push it back to 8.30? And she said, great to hear from you but I'd rather not push it back. So then I said, well, I'll gladly refund you. And so I refund her coaching fee because family come first, you know, family come first. When I made that 7.30 available, I didn't have to be driving at 7.30 because my oldest son was practicing from 7.30 to nine but now he doesn't practice from 7.30 to nine. My youngest practice from, you know, see it's starting to drizzle. And there's one thing about it. I am not one of them gung-ho soccer parents to where I don't like having a seven-year-old in the rain getting his hair wet and, you know, mess around and beat and got sick. So y'all got to forgive me. I got to sit up here a little bit and watch just to make sure they're gonna be practicing. Cause they like to have them keep doing that soccer in the rain cause they play in the rain as long as it's not lightening. But, but it's a bunch of parents and stuff right there. You know, you feel all right. Yeah, they gonna keep practicing. It's just a little light drizzle. They practicing that rain. Let me see. Now, what I've been doing now, I've been tied up. So I've been missing my videos. I've been trying to get to it, but my day's been non-stop. My text message backed up. I ain't been able to answer texts. I've been missing a lot of emails because I've been in the real world serving. I've been serving and doing what I do as a coach, as a mentor, as a crisis coach. So sometimes when you have crisis, you have to get on the plane. You got to get on the plane. You got to go to your client, you know, you got to stay in the hotel. And so I had that come up every now and then. And so I have to get going. And it's with celebrity clients, they don't like to do the phone or zoom a lot of times. They want to do in person. Want to do in person to make sure they're not being recorded, make sure nothing being, you know, screen shot or nobody else listening. They like to do in person just because of their profile and all of those things, just their trust there. Now let me see. Now let me grab this here. I missed this. Women learn about men from other women. What's the best way to learn about men more in depth than your videos? The videos, it really ain't no better way because I'm a married man and I'm a faithful man. So what that means is I'm giving you 100% of the game. The only other way to learn about men is trial and error. But with that, it's going to come STDs. It's going to come heartbreak. It's going to come children that you're raising alone. And so it's women who have all of those things and they've learned about me in the hard way, but I bet they wish they could do it a different way. So it isn't a better way. Then learning from the men that's willing to give you the whole game to tell you the whole truth. If some men out here that's talking on love relationship but they're not giving the whole game cause they still playing the game. So they don't want to tell you about themselves because they still will sleep with you. They still trying to touch you. So because they won't touch you then, you know, they ain't going to give you the whole game. Okay, that rain picking up now. Question, Tony God bless, A blessing not J.M. Can you please make a video on how a woman need to properly date after being single for a while? Like myself, I'm having a hard time and I love my peace and independence. Thank you. Well, if you're having a hard time then that mean you dating the wrong man and it's not meant to be. So don't get caught up in it. If it's hard, don't force it and just stay single. You know, don't get to a place to where you feel like you got to force it. And so if it's not happening for you, just focus on you, focus on your business, focus on, and listen, I pretty much got every video that could be shot on these videos. You have to, y'all have to click on, where I say Tony Gaskins gonna take you to my main page to click on videos. And then you could select the filter from oldest and then just every time you watching the video, just click that and go back to the oldest and just come on up and just keep going through it. I really don't address everything, but sometimes because I talk 30 minutes, 45 minutes an hour, I don't have a title for it. The title doesn't encompass everything that's in the video. So sometimes you just gotta do the due diligence and make it a part of your routine to be watching and learning like that. Boyfriend and I were doing great. He's been trying hard. We got in a fight. I started screaming, lost character. He asked for space. He hates fights. Give it time or walk away. I acknowledge I acted immature. Give it time, give it time. Or walk away, it's a personal choice. You know, if y'all got in an argument like that and you lost character, you went into screaming, y'all sound a little toxic. Y'all sound a little messy to me. So it might be time to walk away. It might be time to go on about your business. You know, if that's the case, then that's the case, you know? So to make that right, that'll happen. See with these sports and to God be the glory, I invested in this health sprinter. So what my wife do when I bring them some of the practice, she put their dinner in a little thing and at the end it's a microwave back there behind that door. And so that's a little tip for the parents. Now if you ain't got no microwave, just put it in something that's keep it hot. But that's a little tip for the parents who do sports. Instead of doing the sport and then wait until you get home to cook or to have to get dinner or eat at the home, eat at home, just bring it, you know, on top of where or something beforehand. Y'all gotta forget I'm gonna sit up here so I can see my son cause it rained a little bit. Christy D, God bless you, God bless you. I ended my relationship a few days ago due to his angry issues. He would have huge outbursts over extremely small issues. Scared me. He has no remorse and has never taken accountability thoughts. Yeah, that's the kind of man you wanna leave. That's the kind of man you wanna leave. That's the kind of man you gotta leave. That's the kind of man you gotta leave. I got a video that say five signs he's in love. Watch that. One of those signs is he'll apologize. Now you gotta have all five of the signs together for a man to be in love. And it may be some extra, but you need those five. And then some people say, oh, what's on it such and such, they apologize all the time. It ain't just that alone. It ain't just apologizing. It's apology mean you change, you new action. You have new action after apology. And it ain't just an apology. It's the other four things in the video too that I can't remember. But watch that video. If you sacrifice everything when you let God take control, like food, types, food, types, music, et cetera. No, I didn't sacrifice everything. I didn't sacrifice food. For me, it wasn't a struggle. So, and the reason why I'm late on the food one is because I had a six pack of abs, which I call a 14 pack. I had a eight pack of abs my whole life. And I just was like, I would eat anything I wanna eat. And I would always have abs. And I'm like, man, this ain't gonna never change. Cause where I went to school, you gonna learn about the body. You didn't know anything about metabolism and all this and how it works. So I just was like, I never did a sit-up. So how do I have abs? And I ate. And so I ain't letting the food. So when I changed my life, I let go of everything that had to deal with temptation in the area of women. Cause that's where my weakness was. And so I got that under control. And now is when I'm working on eating right, eating better. I don't eat terrible now. Cause if I ate terrible, you will be able to see it, clearly, but just eating better and working out more and doing those things. Cause a lot of times that stuff come from motivation. A lot of times to work out and eat right and come from motivation. You training for some, you trying to look good for somebody, something like that. But sometimes in marriage, you get comfortable, you happy, your partner okay with your body. You okay with their body. And things change a little bit. I'm forgiving. He would go days without calling me only tech. So I broke up that I do right. Absolutely. You did right. You did a hundred percent right. He asked me for number and offered to take me out. Haven't heard from him in three days. Red fat, red flag, just let it go. I mean, let it go in a sense of don't sit in and just think about it all day. But sometimes you also gotta take into consideration. I had a client who signed up for my year coaching program. And she, it was like on a Thursday or Friday or something. And I wrote it. I was like, hey, I'm gonna get in touch with you in a couple of days. And so with the year coaching program, you pay up front. And there's some extra little perks in there. And I said, I'm gonna get in touch with you in two days to check and see when we could schedule our first call. Now this is a year program. And two days had passed, but I didn't realize it because I had got real sick. It just hit me like a ton of bricks the next day. And so I couldn't really, I was just out of it. And then it was a Sunday. So it wasn't even business days had passed. And the person wrote me on a Sunday and was like, hey, Tony, I just had to write you. You said you'll contact me in two days. And you had didn't contact me in two days. And it had been like three days. You didn't contact me in two days. And so, you know, if this is gonna, if it's gonna be this unprofessional, please let me know. And I will gladly accept the refund. And didn't say, hey, Tony, are you, is everything okay? I could have died. I could have been in the hospital. I could have got hit with COVID. Anything could have happened, but she just assumed from whatever she'd have heard about coaches or whoever, or maybe the money had got tied on her end after she signed up and just went right to assumption. And like I'm a scam artist. And so I told her, hey, so sorry about that. For one, I should have said I meant two business days. And then two, look at my brand. Look at how far, look at how long I've been here. Whether how I'm gonna run off, if I run off on the plug, you'll be able to find a million articles on me like you see the other people who steal people money. I could have went at like that, but it showed me something that, okay, that's where a person is at. And the Lord said, Tony, you don't even want that situation. If a person can't look at you and see the best in you, if they don't know you, if you can't tell what this is about a person, then, or you can't be mindful to say this person could be dead, this person could be sick, this person could be anything, kicking out hostage, anything first before assuming the worst, then that mean you got to heal. That mean you still got to heal. That mean you still got to be mindful. So first you want to find out, are you living, breathing? Is everything okay? And then you want to see, okay, were you just ignored? Cause a lot of times when that happens, it is true. A lot of times it's another one. And he get, he tied up in that situation. I've been in the talking stages with this guy for about two months and his B. Day pass last week, I got him small gifts, but he did not come to get them, nor did I see him. Is that a red flag? Yeah, that's a red flag if it's, you know, if it's out of the norm, like if he close enough to come get you, to come get them, then, and you've been seeing him over these two months and all of that, and he didn't come get him and you didn't see him, then yeah, that's a red flag. If you've never met him in person and never seen him period, then no, it's not a red flag. Hello, Tony, I want to do what you do, speak on love and relationships, any advice. I always give you credit cause I don't want to seem like I'm stealing. Thank you for giving me credit and I try to do that as well if I could recall where I heard something at or who said it, because it is important because a message is attached to its messenger and a messenger in this space earns that message through their mistakes or experiences or what have you, but my advice would be is, really identify why you want to talk on it and so you should have a story around it and then you leave with that story and you tell that story. The only reason why I do what I do is because I wrote a book telling the truth about men to women. And I did that when I was 22 years old, I published it because I had been, a womanizer, a liar, a cheater and all of those things. And when I started to see my sister suffering, my mama suffering, my cousin suffering, women I knew suffering, I say, I help cause this damage in the world with other people. So I need to right my wrongs. I need to serve, bridge this gap, level the playing field, whatever you want to call it. And so that's my why, that's why I do this. I don't do this, see a lot of people today, they trying to do it for money because they think that it's money in it. They think it's money in it, but when they get in, they realize they're sadly mistaken. That, yeah, you could make money, but that's just, it ain't gonna be everybody. It's gonna be a select few that's gonna make real money. But my love and relationship and like my coaching, even the coaching I was doing, it's really not money that pays my bills that helped me. I had to create other streams of income. I had to, I done created 13 companies and over 50 streams of income to make sure my family could eat because you gotta be doing this out of passion and purpose. And so you kinda wanna have a story or something in there that you falling back on that keep you going. So when I started doing this, I made zero dollars. I made $65, my first speaking engagement at Bethune Cookman University. And then my first royalty check for my book on love and relationships was $320. And so in that first year, I think I probably got one other check or something like that. That first year, I probably made $800 talking on love and relationships. The next year, about the same thing, 2008. The next year, 2009, about the same thing. 2010, I think I made $1,500. So I was teaching on love and relationships, free old charge, really not making anything. And I had to, I was working a full-time job, 40 hours a week. And so today people see, they see it and they why is not connected to purpose. It's connected to a desire for a platform or something like that. So as long as you're not one of those people and you make sure of that and that you willing to do it for free and you willing to do it and there ain't no money attached to it until you are established and people trust you and people, they know you live in what you teaching or you ain't having no scandals and all that, then that's different. Let me say I miss one. When a woman is interested in a man, does she strike a conversation but also remain classy and wait till he makes the first move, right? You're correct, you're correct. And welcome, welcome. Thank you for joining us. God bless you. I know by that question you knew here. God bless you. Thank you. Glad to have you. Shawna, God bless you. Is it possible to heal while your ex is still around? I love him to build my relationship with God but he's recently started to see my neighbor. Only God could do that. If it's possible to heal in that way, it's the only God could do that. I related to an addict. It's like if somebody is an addict to, you know, that nose powder, if they live next door to the nose candy and they seeing all their old buddies and they seeing people go in there and they coming out and they got a little white powder on their nose, still they, and they seeing that every day, can they stay clean? Can they really, or do they need to move to another neighborhood, move to, you know, somewhere else in order to stay away from it? So me personally, I can't see somebody healing if they looking at their ex all the time. But anything is possible with Lord. Anything is possible with Lord. Make sure you put a hashtag Q in front of your question. What does it mean when a God says, I can't do this to you? Now, as you're assuming is what I'm assuming. And to me, I would only say that if it's a nice woman and I know I'm not ready for love or for a relationship or to be faithful and I don't wanna hurt her. I don't wanna break her heart. So I'll say, hey, I can't do this to you. So I can move on and do my dirt and be an immature grown boy. Or go to it, it might not be immature grown boy. Could be he doesn't feel you're his wife and he don't wanna string you along. So he wanna let you go to move on. That's what my assumption is, but I'm not sure. Do you think Facebook dating is the same as regular online dating sites? I know times have changed, but I really can't get with online dating. Yeah, Facebook dating is the same. If anything called dating, so you gotta realize this called YouTube. So how this right here, Alima Hayward. If Alima Hayward name on Instagram is Alima Hayward and if Alima had her picture, then Tom Dicker Harry could go to Instagram and search Alima Hayward and they'll find her. And they could see, oh, I like her picture from YouTube. Let me search her somewhere that I could DM her and they'll search on what's the color. And on Instagram or search on Facebook to find her then find that picture. So that's the way you could meet people online organically, so to speak, without being on something that's made for dating. If it's made for dating, you're gonna have nine shark in the water out of 10. So you got to be careful with that. My sister's husband of 14 years wrote her a letter saying, if she doesn't sing on the mic, there's other women that will. Also, he doesn't wear his wedding ring and gets mad that she wears hers thoughts. Your sister need to be in that, in that lawyer office tomorrow. It's a wrap. That relationship done for, it's a wrap. A man get that disrespectful and all of that right there, it's a wrap. And at the end of the day, my thing is I respect the woman who don't wanna sing on the microphone. You know, it's a nasty little thing. You know, it's not made for that. So if a woman don't wanna do that, that's her right. And if his little nasty self got to have that, then that's cause he nasty. And this the thing. If a man got to have that, he nasty. And the reason why he got to have that is because he might be either too lazy to do the real thing or he wanna picture another woman or he's a minute man and he think that's gonna take longer but it ain't like it's a whole different feeling. If the same ending is the same ending. So if something else going on, if he feel like he got to have that and then some men just try to find something to complain about. And so, and then he don't wear a wedding ring. You could never trust a married man who don't wear his ring. Point blank PRR, see me bought it. See me bought it. If you a married man and you don't wear your ring, I ain't, I don't respect you. I don't respect you, I don't care who you is. My daddy, my brother, my cousin, I don't respect you because that ring symbolize something. And I know what you're doing, you cheating. You cheating or you trying to cheat or you getting ready to cheat. And so he cheating with other women and then he mad she wear hers because they know of her and they say, well, and he telling them he not married. He telling them they separated. He telling them they are on the outs and then they seeing her with her ring on them. And so they questioning him why she wear a ring. Then he, oh, she just obsessed with just, she just don't want to let go and she just do that just cause she, she afraid to tell the truth to her mama and her friends and her coworkers. So that's why she doing that. That's funny business right there. That's funny business. Um, Priska, yeah, God bless you. That make you appreciate these videos cause y'all gonna be watching the videos anyways. So that make you appreciate these videos when I be gone. Jasmine, God bless you. We don't appreciate it when we got it now. The Maura ain't promised. So I still write an autobiography if it shares negative light on close loved ones even though their actions or lack there of shape who I am today. Nervous about backlash from my family. You could write your story if you want to write your story because you want to help somebody. You want to save somebody. You know, you want to, you want to be there for somebody. Then you could write your story. Now, if you just want to write the story just to sell out, just to be nasty then you're writing it for the wrong reason. But if you want to write it to tell your story to leave that legacy to help somebody who may be struggling, somebody who going through what you went through or about to go through what you went through and you feel it might take their life, it might take them out and you writing it out of purpose then write your story because you can say a family member did this to me and don't nobody know who that family member is. Now, if you say my father did this then they know who that is. If you say my mama did this, they know who that is. If you say my family member who is six foot one with a birthmark under his right eye and missing one front tooth, they got people who know you're gonna know who that is. But if you say a family member did this or a family member did that then don't nobody know who you're talking about. And the family member who did it know you talking about them but they're not gonna say anything because then everybody gonna know it's them. So that's how you write a book and protect yourself. You don't name names and you don't give enough details to where the person is identifiable. And especially if they still live it and what did you do about it? Did you stay or how does that go? Angel, God bless you first off. Thank you for your videos and I wanna know why won't he text back? I kind of feel like I'm annoying him but I don't blow his phone up though. He don't wanna have nothing to do with you, sister. I wish I could put it in another way but he tied up, he preoccupied. It may not even be you. It may be he said, might have the vid, might be working too hard. It just mean he preoccupied, he's not available. So just take that or he not here or whatever it is and just go on about your business. Hey, money, God bless you. Guy I'm dating says he's nonchalant about pretty much everything. He says he hasn't cried in a while not even when his kids were born, red flag. That mean he's super emotional that mean he's super emotional, that mean he's super soft and he just, he putting on that front. He putting on that front because he is emotional. And so that's why he telling you that cause he trying to be that, he trying to convince himself that he nonchalant but he forcing, he forcing that. He forcing himself to be that way because he think that's masculinity, he think that's manhood and he don't understand that a man's strength is in his gentleness. Being able to see your child be born and cry that strength because you understand the magnitude of what just happened. So a man without emotions is not a man. And so that, so that is a red flag. Then the brown God bless you. Thank you, Mr. Gaston. God bless you and your family. Hey, bless you. Now bless your appreciation. Carlos, God bless you. Now may God continue to bless you and your family. Thank you. God bless you. Hey, Tony, love your videos. Okay, that got, that message got to it. So I don't know if it ain't no question that the moderators deleted. So we're trying to keep the questions in the chat. So make sure you put the hashtag Q in there. Okay, I see. Now it looked like the same question. Hey, Tony, love your videos. I just recently hit 230 followers on my business page. I wanted to know how can I keep my followers intrigued in what editing apps do you use? Since I don't edit videos, I don't edit videos and I really don't worry about keeping nobody intrigued. I just, I just talk from the heart. You know, I talk from the heart. I talk on topics that I'm passionate about. I talk about stuff that I see happen in the world or stuff I'm dealing with in my own personal life. And I feel like that's the secret to being a content creator is it got to be authentic. You can't have this planned out schedule and all of these topics all the way planned out all the time. Now you could plan it out, but if it become a job, if it becomes monotonous, that's where that burnout happened. But when it's real, when it's authentic, when it's when you can do it, when it's based on life and it's fluid and it's based on the life you live, like I'm getting ready to work on something and I was asking my wife, I was like, should I do another page? And she was like, no, that's just another facet of you and just something else you doing, keep it on your same page. I was like, okay, yeah, you right. And so I try to make what you're doing not feel like it worked. Brace by Shauna God bless you now. If a new guy in your life compliments you on your hair, but it's not all yours, should we let him know early on? He might know it's not your hair. I don't think any man assume a woman hair is all hers. And if you're a woman and you get asked by a man, is that your hair? He is genuinely curious. He is genuinely curious, but we kind of at this point assume everybody got weave in. I've seen a white woman at the hockey game with her tracks showing. Now I would blow when I seen that because they had just grow flowingly. I mean, they had just be growing. And so when I seen a white woman with tracks in, it wasn't like a track track. It was like the hell was parted back there and she had a stanchion clipped in there. And cause there they put a little clip in there. She had a stanchion clipped in there and I could see the blight part where it was clipped in. I say, oh man, wow, okay. So everybody putting hat in their head. So I think at this point, me and kind of see that is okay. We understand now that it is low maintenance. You get it done. You just got the, you know, whatever bumping curl. I don't know if y'all watch it or whatever, but you just ain't got to be doing it every day. So I think me understanding that now. So he really, it's, so he probably assume it's not all your hair or not your hair at all. But he not gonna say, hey, I like, I like that horse hair you got in. Well, that's a nice horse hair or that's a nice human hair. Hair do you got like, he's not gonna word it like they're like, I like your hair. I love your hair, I love your hairstyle. But he kind of assuming probably. So I wasn't even, and like some women say it's mine cause I paid for it. So just, you know, but now I will tell y'all, I will tell y'all and this is a sad truth. This is a sad truth. Now, from personal experience, when I was looking for my wife, I was looking for a woman who looks as close to how she will look when she going to sleep and when she waking up. Because I wanted to be attracted to her. I wasn't looking for a drop dead gorgeous. I wasn't looking for the most beautiful being God has ever made. I wasn't looking for a washboard abs or a completely flat stomach or a perfect booty or perfect thighs. I wasn't looking for none of that. I just was looking for somebody that I could look at and be attracted to and say she's a pretty woman, blemishes and all. And so I was looking for a woman that looked as close to how she looked going to sleep and waking up. And I met my wife and she did not have on makeup. She did not have on makeup. I don't know if lashes was extension. If lashes was in in 2005, I don't think it worked. That's when I met her. She didn't have on lashes. She didn't have on makeup. And she didn't have in weave. Now she 25, no. Yeah. She 50% Indian. So Indian from India. And then she 50% African black. And both of her parents Jamaican. Jamaican ain't a race though. It's nationality. But her dad ancestors from India, he looked like an Indian man from India. And then her mama is her ancestor from Africa. And so she looked like me. She looked like a, you know, a black woman. So my wife hair is a kind of slight different texture. Cause you know different regions you have different texture of hair. And so it was growing, it probably was, you know, to her shoulder. She wore it in a real tight ponytail. Now her edge is one flourishing. And her hair wasn't all, it wasn't thick. And you know, it was, it was real tight little ponytail. And she had a hair, but I could tell it was her hair. And she had it in a ponytail. So I could see what her hair looked like. Now if she had in weave, then I would have had to wait a little bit to when it's time to take it out and get it done. So I could just see what she looks like when the hairstylist is booked up. Because you don't want to get Janet Jackson. And then Freddie Jackson. So if you approach Janet and then you lay down and you laying next to Freddie, it's gonna be, it's gonna be jarring. It's gonna be jarring. So what women, and this is the thing, men, visual creatures, women, visual creatures too. So at this, why I try to ask the ladies, you gotta think about this and what this would be like if you approach a man or a man approach you and he got a full head of hair, hair line on fleek and then amazing. Remember the old words I used to say, hair line pristine. And then two weeks later, he grabbed the front of that hair line and he pulled that man unit off. And all of this right here is bald. All that right there, bald. He gonna look different. If you take all of this right here, let's see my hair thin right here. So I have hairspray in there. Get the hair line put on. Now it ain't black magic, but it's just a little, it's fibers, but it's thin in there. And I went to get a treatment. The way they pull hair from over here and they put hairs up there. Like what D. Unsounder was bragging about on his own page some time back. Now imagine if all this right here is gone. I'm gonna look different. You see what I mean? And that's what's happening today. It's a very real thing when I tell y'all this. It's a very real thing is that men are leaving women because she looked like a completely different person when she take off her lashes and she take off her makeup and she take out her weave. And if you wearing booty pads, if you wearing breast pads, you look like a completely different person. That's not who he met. And so a lot of times women will come to me and they will say, he just left. It just vanished. And I say, let me ask you. And I have to ask this question. Although it's a superficial question, it's very real. I said, now did you change anything as far as did you have lashes and weave and a lot of makeup when he met you? And then you changed that. You took all that off. Yeah, and I've heard it a couple of times. Yeah, I say that honestly could be the reason. That honestly could be the reason. The makeovers that we see on the makeup channels and on the YouTube, that's not what you want to get into. That's not what you want to get into. You don't want to transform and be a transformer, decepticon and be a whole nother person. What you want to do is get you some hair oils for your edges and for your scalp and you treat your hair. Get you a nice face wash, some hot line acid, some moisturizer and you treat your face. Get you some lash volumous and you treat your lashes. If you want to put your suction cup on your lips and you want to sit with some ice on your lips or do something to get you some volume on your lips, they got chap stick and lip gloss that you can rub on there and get it to tingling and start to swell a little bit, do that right there. Get you the thing that you rub on your face like this to get that skin taut. Get your cream that you put under your eyes and you put across this here wrinkle, see this wrinkle. You know, get you some Botox if you want you some Botox, get it in your crow's feet and enhance you. The problem what we're doing in the world is instead of working on us, we just covering up. Instead of working on us, see instead of me getting a waist trainer or getting me a girdle, I'm just gonna work on my stomach. But what we're doing is we're taking and we're getting these waist trainers and we're getting these girdles and then we looking like a can of biscuits. And then the next thing you know when you take that girdle off, men and women wearing girdles and spanks and skims, what Kim Kardashian did, Kim Kardashian Semi-Check. Semi-Check, I just said the company name, Semi-Check Kim Kardashian. And you take that off and that man's stomach, if you see this man and he got a flat stomach and then y'all get to the house, he take a shirt off and then he take that stomach wrap off and that stomach just, you gonna be like, oh, I thought he was a vegan. It's a different person. And so that's what's happening today and that's what I'm trying to tell y'all, stop letting society ruin you because society got you going too far. And then when you meet somebody they don't know who you are. And it'd be Dr. Jekyll Mr. Hyde. And so we got to work on that. Men and women, because not a man doing it, not a man got the man units. I divorced my husband after 18 years of marriage. I've been single four and a half years. I've done my work. I consider myself as a high value woman. Should, question. Should I consider dating sites for vetting and collecting data? Nariah, God bless you. Welcome to the blessed tribe. God bless you. I see you, I see you new here. See you new here. God bless you. And I see you new to the live tonight too. Got on a little late, God bless you. I'm 100% against online dating. 100% online, against online dating. Too many scams, too many, no, just stuff out there. When you meet somebody organically in person, you get to read, they vibe immediately. Get to read, they energy, get to feel them, get to see how they talk, get to see them in real life. Trenise, God bless you. And to the moderator, thank you for not deleting that compliment. Sometimes you're working and you're doing all this here, you just need to see them compliment. God bless you, Trenise. Anything to do differently when dating shy slash introverted man, dating going fine. No, no, just date regular. You know, of course you don't do things like embarrass them, like put them on the spot. You don't do things like throw the mic to them at karaoke. You know, you don't do things like that. You don't do things like, you know, embarrass them in front of people, make them talk and do all that, you understand that. Like my wife, what she then did is she got to the point to where she understand them quiet. She understand that if we at a party, like for a birthday or something, she understand that I'm not a dancer, that I'm not gonna dance, that unless it's her party and I got to, you know, work up a lot of courage to do that. So she let me sit down and she let me be a wallflower and she dance all night. If we all in a bout at my son's soccer game, she understand I'm not gonna say a word to nobody if they don't come talk to me directly. I'm gonna say, hey, and that's it. So she don't try to brain me in a conversation and get my own lens. She let me be quiet, let me do me. And so that's what you have to do for introverts. Just letting them be them. And, Tressa God bless her. How do I open up and be more receptive to dating other ethnicities? You don't have to be receptive to dating other ethnicities because your ethnicity is also a part of your foundation. So it's ethnicities that is certain ethnicities that their foundational religion is a certain religion. It's certain ethnicities that their religion is Hinduism, Buddhism, Buddhism. Christianity, Islam. So when you go to getting other ethnicities, you're dealing also with different traditions, different religions, different belief system. There's nothing wrong with dating inside your ethnic race. You can't don't let nobody make you feel bad about your soulmate being black or being white or being Asian, whatever you are Hispanic. It's totally fine to have somebody that your culture is the same and you can build on that. Nationalities too, same thing. Cause I'm with the Jamaican and I get tired of these Jamaicans what see the difference between with black Americans. I'm like, listen, you ain't no better than us. We just made it all the way over here. They brought us all the way over here cause we was on the Nina. You was on Christina. Y'all both got a hole in it. They stopped at the island. We come from the same place over there. And so y'all had a different kind of, y'all had a slave over there in Jamaica. We had a slave over here. Y'all had that culture over there cause it's a melting pot. That's why y'all got people from China. Y'all got people from India. Y'all got people from Africa in these islands. Y'all all come together. Y'all kept y'all culture. You didn't have people as domineering as the Caucasians we had to deal with. Y'all might've had some Caucasians over there in the islands but it probably was a different kind. So from a different place. So they let y'all keep a little bit of your culture but that don't make you better than us. That don't make you the cream of the crop. They don't don't look at me like I'm dumb. I'm successful, I'm worthy. And so sometime with different nationalities you go through the same thing. They look down on you. They think they better than you, you know. And so it's nothing wrong with being with somebody that come from what you come from. That's of your, nothing wrong. Now if you meet somebody organically and y'all hit it off, then that's totally fine. That's totally fine but don't go out looking and making that a prerequisite and like hey, I gotta go get somebody of another nationality or another race because it's certain differences that are foundational differences and it's hard to build on that. It's hard to build if you don't have the same foundation. Somebody building on rock, somebody building on sand. Somebody building on this, somebody building on this hard to do that. Asia God bless, I'm part of the bless tribe but I'm able to view business videos. I've been a member for six months so I have to wait longer to view the business videos. It says I have to be a member, I am. So it's two different tribes. So you got the bless tribe and you got the bless business tribe. So up under my videos you may see over here under the bottom right I think where it says see perks or it may say join, probably say see perks. When you click that on the left side you're gonna see bless tribe but right up under that is gonna see you're gonna see bless business tribe. So the bless business tribe is something different to where I post a business video every week and not just to keep me from having to create a Tony owned business channel and having a whole separate channel and the business videos have a return on investment meaning I'm teaching you things that can make you money so that's why it's a different price point and I'm teaching the things of how I earn a living to people who wanna be authors, speakers, purpose-based entrepreneurs and things of that nature. So it's a different tribe called Anisha God bless you. I've been getting to know someone for six weeks. He won't spend $1 on any dates. Everything we do is free or I pay my way. He claims his ex use him for money and that's why. Gotta let him go. You got to say, hey, I'm not gonna be able to do this because you haven't healed. And you taking out on me what somebody else did to you and I didn't do anything to you and that's not fair to me. So I thank you for the time I've known you God bless you and I wish you the best. And when you go ahead and do that and you pull back and you don't reach out to him you don't contact him. And then the next few times he contact you you just let him sit. Then he gonna realize it's gonna push him into healing. He gonna realize I got to heal. He gonna realize that ain't me. I tried to join the business tribe but it wasn't an option after I clicked on C perks. What am I doing wrong? It could be where you looking from. So if you own an iPhone, you may wanna use a computer. If you own Safari, you may wanna use Firefox or Chrome. It could be your browser or it could be your device. And so it, cause it shows up differently. So if you own a desktop, it's more clear. If you own a phone, it could be hidden. And but it's on there. You just got to, you know, cause there's people in there. People in the blessed business tribe. So it's on there. So it just may be your browser or something like that. And then just click on contact us or help us on our YouTube and they, or just search how to join, you know, how to upgrade my membership on a YouTube channel. You know, they probably got a video on it. He's divorced with three kids. I never been married. Okay. I never been married or have kids dating. Seven months. He say he will wait, but he needs affection, kiss, rub, and hug. And he's a believer, but not zealous for God. You ain't got to force it. You ain't got to force it. If you zealous for God and he not zealous for God, then he might not even be a believer. He might be faking and getting in the draws. So you ain't got to force it. And you don't have to settle. If you've never been married, you don't have to be with a man who would divorce because he got soul ties, a different type of ties and bonds because he done been married. He got three kids. You finna be a daycare teacher. So you don't have to, you don't have to settle for that. It's plenty men that's never been married and don't have kids. So unless he just an absolutely amazing man. So here's the thing, you got a man who bringing other stuff to the table and he not amazing. That's what you, that's a definition of settling. If he's an absolutely amazing man, then that's different. It'll balance out. Colonisha God bless you. I believe it was a divine action for me to marry my husband. He has been and suspected cheating. I do believe that I heard from God to marry him. What do I do? Well, God is not a man that he should lie. God is not the author of confusion. God is not gonna put more on you than you could bear. What God put together, let no man tear asunder. If God tell you something to love your husband or submit unto your husband, as unto the Lord, then guess what God gonna tell him to love your wife is Christ, love the church. So that's not God's man. If he's not treating you the way God instructs a man to treat a woman, that's not God's man. So you didn't hear from God. You heard from you cause God not the author of confusion. God told my wife that I was her husband she didn't tell me that, but she married me. So I know she heard it in her spirit but look at the way I treat her. That's confirmation that I'm God's man for her. So God not gonna put you with a man of the devil. They ain't hot God work. So you got to understand that the word don't lie. You got to always get into your word. And when you're living through something, you seeing something, you got to ask yourself, does this have the attributes, the characteristics of the presence of God? When God is in the mix, you're not gonna be confused. Felicia God bless you. Now, Mr. Gaston, how do you deal with a guy that had had a crush on you for many years? And you did know I treated him as if he was lying because of past hurts. It's probably best to let it go when you don't deal with that guy. So if you was too hurt to be with him and you didn't let him have crush on you for years, after a while that go from a crush to a goal. It go from a crush to resentment. And the thing that women do is you heal years later or you get desperate years later or whatever years later and then you get this man a chance. And he dogged you out because of the time that you made him wait. Or he's built you up in his mind to something that's not real. So that then when you get with him and he realized that you're real and you're not the fantasy he's created, he walk away. Make sure y'all put a hashtag Q in front of your question. Should a man with grown adult children allow his kids to come over to the home at any time regardless of the situation between him and his girlfriend including intimate moments? I mean, you know, I would not know he should not but that's a sign that he wasn't everything he needed to be to them when they was children. And now he trying to make up to them by having an open door policy. So that's what that is. But a man who is a man in and out through and through here on mind telling his children, no. He don't mind telling his children, hey, call me before you come over here because I could be doing anything. This my house, I pay the bills. I could be rocking around with my Johnson out. So don't just pop up in here. That's what a real man who done did what he supposed to do, gonna tell his kids. He ain't just gonna let them be popping in there now. So understand that now. Husband makes enough to pay all the bills. Should he, if wife doesn't make enough to pay 50, 50. Yes, he should pay the bills. He should pay the bills, but what it should be is when y'all marry, your money go in a pot. So if he make, let's say his check is a thousand and your check is 500. Now you got 1500. So at that 1500, let's say you got 750 worth of bills. You pay that 750 worth of bills, now you got 750 left. And at that 750, now y'all have your grocery budget, your gas budget, your recreation budget, and then you have your personal allowance. So if he get a hundred, you get a hundred. When you married, you won. What's yours is yours, what's yours is his. Because if you were the breadwinner, he'll be willing to help you spend it. He wouldn't be saying, hey, let me pay 50% of the bills. If you made 150, he made 75. So it can't be the other way around. And, but men are funny about money. And now one of the things that is on average is on average now, women don't know how to deal with money. On average, I just, you rarely see a woman that's good with money now. Now you see something that's single and the debt demolisher will tell you, the debt demolisher TV, she'll tell you that she was making $110,000 at the end of the year. She had $10 in her account or something to that effect. And I know, you know, normal women, every everyday woman, I'm a married man. Now I'm trying to tell you, the way a woman spend money to get your ulcers because it's like a lot of women spend money like it grow on trees. And I done seen a lot of men, a man came to me and he said, Tony, I bought my wife a nice rain. She come to me showing me this other rain she won't. The rain I got her like $20,000, no, she won't rain that's $40,000. He said, Tony, I got my woman a nice infinity truck. She come to me, she won't arrange Rover. He said, man, look, I have bust my butt as a professional athlete and I can't deal with no woman that don't have a respect for money. He say, and Tony, the woman makes six figures and spend it all. He say, don't have, don't have nothing. And so I noticed that, because listen, I got a sister, I got a mama, I got a wife. I don't know what it is in the average. Now I know it's some women that's amazing with money. Some women out earn their spending, but on average, you'll notice a lot of men are frugal because when the weight of protecting and providing is on your shoulders, you look at things differently. So I put thousands of dollars a month on to the market for retirement. Every month, the blue chip stocks, that I'm trying to just be gambling and betting, the blue chip stocks that I know gonna stay steady and they gonna grow and in 30 years, they're gonna probably be double or went up 50%. Guess every week I put money into them four or five. It's an automatic withdrawal because guess what? I know it's gonna come a day I need it. But now, with a lot of women, I talk to a lot of men with a lot of women, they okay with that account being on E. And they okay. So that's the thing, you got to understand. Sometimes you got to look at your spending habits and things of that nature and you got to see, well, okay, is this why he funny with the money? Because of what I've shown him. When is your movie, Tony? Titles coming out. I saw previews on Ian's YouTube. Who is Ian? Who is Ian? LL Cool Cooper. I'm curious who Ian is. Who Ian's showing the preview? That's, I mean, I appreciate the support unless that's one of the actors now and I don't know the name. But it's coming out on the 22nd. Market calendar's not, it's gonna be a premiere meaning the whole thing ain't showing it's episodes. It's episodes. So on that first night, it'll be one or two episodes that premiering. So you'll be able to watch it and chat while it's on. It's not long, it's short little episodes. So it's not 30 minute episode. I ain't got my money done yet now because I paid for this by myself out of pocket. So we talking tens of thousands. So I'm buying double, about double 10 because next week is the premiere of it. Meaning for the cast and crew in Maryland. And then the next day it'll premiere the first one or two episodes haven't decided yet on the 22nd. And I don't know. Now I might have to do it like a TV show now. So don't come on here hollering by. Oh, why you gotta add? Will you watch a sitcom on TV? Do it have a commercial? All right. So now if y'all don't want me to have outside people ads for the next production, you email in and say, hey, what will it cost for me to have my commercial of my hair serum or my weave business on your episode, Tony? Don't call it a night. Because it'll be up there for life and it'll be edited into the video. So it'll be up there for life. So y'all don't want that. Then y'all got to be okay with me having YouTube ad on there so it'll make the money back so I can make the next one. Because it ain't cheap now. And I got a deal. Had the director, had the producer charge me what was supposed to be charged. I'll be out of house and home. What does it mean when a man is in a hurry to get married? Already a US citizen. I don't trust that. Unless y'all afternoon, unless y'all abstaining, that's the only way that I trust him right now. Unless y'all abstaining. That's the only way that I trust him rushing that marriage. But other than that, men don't rush marriage. Men do not rush marriage. We try to wait all the time in the world. You hear me? Men don't rush marriage. So typically the reasons for a man rushing marriage is he want to really, really, really hurt his ex or he wants to get into your money, get into your accounts or things is about to go bad for him and he wanna have some help. He need a roommate. He need somewhere to live. He need somebody that gonna be gainfully employed. He need some of that nature. That's typically what the deal is when a man is rushing a marriage. But other than that, men don't rush marriage. Men do not rush marriage. It don't matter how much he love you either. He'll marry now, but he gonna be a realistic thing. Get engaged and then the marriage is six to 12 months from now. If he really ain't tell you. The guy like is a PT at a gym. I met him somewhere else that similar. I signed up to get in shape and because of him, could he view this as being desperate? If he don't know that, then he doesn't. He don't know his desperation. Now one thing about them personal trainers is you got to be careful. Cause a lot of personal trainers is just like photographers. Lot of them guys that service women in the physical, they be nasty. Lot of them be nasty. Meaning they sleep round with them clients. They touch a lot of clients. And one thing a man is about, a man is about that money. So if he got to put that thing on you, the hell you doing that right, the hell you signing up for that training, he'll do that. And if he got to sleep with every last one of y'all to have all y'all on a monthly training, he'll do that. If he like you, he gonna waive the fee. If he like you, he gonna tell you, hey, I can't train for free here cause this they business, but I train at the park or I train at this gym over here where I could, you know, I just give you the workout to do. You know, if he like you, he gonna make it for free. If he charging you, you can't trust it. Will you be creating a Patreon for your artistic work, movies, et cetera? I'm not sure. I'm not sure. I don't think so. Just cause I just don't want to have to manage too much, too many networks, I hired an assistant. So maybe that's something that maybe she can manage but I really don't because right now I got the bless tribe. I got the bless business tribe. And then I got the growth group mastermind and then I got Gaskins University. And so all of those, those four things are monthly memberships. And so if I do another one on Patreon, then that'll be a fifth monthly membership. And then people start to get, you know, they're not all the same thing. The bless tribe is this right here, live Q and A. The bless business tribe is a weekly business video. GaskinsUniversity.com is courses that's already in there and you just pay monthly while you're going through them. And then the growth group is on TonyGaskinsAcademy.com, which is a separate site. And that's where we have a group chat on Slack. And we do a monthly Zoom call. And so it's a community to that one. And that's why that one is the most expensive. So if I do Patreon, then that'll be something different. And it just, you know, I wouldn't feel right if you own there for $5 a month. And that's all that view is worth is $5. But if I only produce one a year, then you're gonna pay $60 for that one project, you know? Now, of course, if I do a Patreon and I get more people on there, then I could do more projects. And I think that's what you're getting at. And that's a good idea. So I might set it up for that because I do see that's how y'all, y'all, the supporters have funded other people whole studios. They studio, they streaming app and all of that from them Patreon. But if it feel too much like a donation, I don't like to ask for it. As people, see people are blessed me and I'd be grateful for it, but I don't like to ask for donations. That's why I do my live on here instead of on one of the stream yard and all of this. Because where people do it and they had a PayPal on there and they had a cash app on there, I don't like to get in the habit of asking for money because I feel like it shifts your mindset to agree or to a beggar. I like to think abundantly, God got me. And I only wanna be paid for what I'm working for. And so if somebody feeling in their spirit to be a blessing, I gladly accept it, but I don't like asking for it. So that's the thing why I don't have a Patreon. And I used to have a Patreon a few years ago and that thing was raggedy. That thing was terrible. I'm like, how y'all to raise all this money? And this app is horrible. And this and the site terrible. I was like, man, it always was glitching. It didn't work, stuff was half could see stuff. I was like, but Patreon needs to do some work. And then do you know who reached out to me? And I feel like it was a law of power because why in the world will he reach out to me? Do you know who reached out to me about Patreon? Serena Williams, husband. And y'all remember when I was talking about Serena, her husband and I was telling y'all that never ever do you see white men attracted to black women who are black women like Serena Williams. Meaning full figure, voluptuous or whatever you wanna call it. You know, thighs, calves, glutes, arms, a strong woman who is black woman. You never see white men like that. And I was talking about that, how a lot of times people wanna go to another race, but a lot of times you're not good enough for that other race until you get money, until you worth millions. And it's just the same thing with these black men. A lot of times you see these black men, same thing with white men. It's a lot of times that certain people in certain races will go to another race when the person of that other race gonna see them like a prize and when that person of the other race got money. And when you see all of these Caucasian women with these black men who are pro-athletes, that woman would, it's a lot of them cases where that woman would never be with that man if he was not a millionaire. And that's point blank period. And I don't wanna be the person that wait till I'm 80 to tell the truth. I got to tell the truth at 37. And, but that's the truth. Now, yes, some that's organic. It's some that's real. It's some that's pure. It's some that it was before the money. It was some before you could see any fame coming, but it's a lot of them to wear old and old because you're gonna be a millionaire and now you good enough. And I was talking about that on the video because why we don't see that all the time? Why we don't see white men like Serena husband with black women like Serena? Why we don't see that all the time? Because it's not, it ain't, it's very rare. Now there's could be real. We don't know that. There's could be real if it, it could be real. And after I did that video, do you know that man deal me with him? And say, hey, Tony, I wanna talk to you about a Patreon. I said, do you work for Patreon? It was from his, it was from his verified Twitter account or Instagram account. I said, do you work for Patreon? Do you own Patreon? He said, no, it's just I know them. I'm on the board or it's friends. I don't have a stake in it. I'm like me out of all people. So you as a billionaire doing recruiting for Patreon. I said, you try and let me know that you see me. You're trying to let me know that you know who I am. So I keep my, keep your name. Out my mouth. No, I got to tell the truth. I got to tell the truth. I don't trust it. I don't trust it. I don't, I don't be trusting. Both approved me wrong. Hold on now. Hey, I got to go. About got to go. I think my son, let me see. About got to go. Think my son about done. Let me see. Now see, I draw, I just got my little boy here. But I got, I drive my Sprinter cause this month, you know, cause I could work in him. Cause I could work in him. But man, I know people be looking crazy. Like, why is he in that? What is he doing in that with one kid? Don't worry about it. Don't worry about it. We living on the level of excellence. And we, we embracing what God done blessed us with. Now this thing here I'm driving is 24 feet long. So I'm trying to bang up and it's caught right here behind me. So I can't get the whole thing out of here. So I got to do a nine point turn. And what I do, tell you what I do. What I do is I pull up, I pull up right up here to the front. And I pick my baby boy up and I open that door and I let them folks see. Because where I'm from, I'm from the South. A lot of times the only way like folks gonna make it down here. A lot of times the only way we're gonna make it is music or sports. And so I let them folks see like success. Because I want them to know. I want them to understand everybody don't rap. Everybody don't rap. Everybody don't play sports. We could use our mind too. And that's why I pull up and let them see that. Because a lot, it's a lot of them, other people who just like the lady in Lafayette, Louisiana. We got to end, end. And the boy said, his mama was yelling, we got to end, we got to end. They had a robber. And she said, yeah, I said, we got to end. We got to end like a roach. It's like this woman had made it to become a judge. And she's still using the n-word. She's still calling black people the n-word. And she's a judge. So imagine you go before this woman as a black man. What is she finna do for you? And so that's why I say, man, we got to work on these race relations. And if you know that you races, if you know you prejudice, if you know you like that, you got to work on your heart. You got to work on your heart. If you know you discriminate on people, if you know you looking down on people, and it's just like this right here. If you live in Africa or you from Africa or you was born in Africa or your parents come from Africa, if you from the island, stop talking bad about black Americans like we chose to be over here. Like we chose to come over here and like we signed up for slavery, like it was the army. So it's like, yeah, we might be bad with money. Yeah, we might be obese. Yeah, we might be this and that, but all of us stem from slavery. So don't feel like you better than somebody else because you didn't have their plight because your story is not their story. Or because your story played out different and you got different messages because a lot of people, it's just they where they at because of the messages they have received because of what has gone into their mind. Don't mean they less than. Don't mean they any worse. It's because of the message they have gone into their mind. So, hey, understand that. See, I'm practically supposed to be over 730, 738. Coach got these seven years out here running over in practice and then on top of that, right now they doing leg lifts, but now they done. But see, I have to pull up like this for my boy. So listen, what I'm gonna be doing, I realized Zig Ziglar helped change my life. Zig Ziglar helped change my life. He had a podcast and he had over a hundred episodes on that podcast. And on that podcast, he talked about being a good husband. On that podcast, he talked about being a good father. He talked about, huh? You scored three goals. You scored three goals. I don't know how to, man. It's cool. Just get right here. And you could just sit your ball. Oh, your ball dirty. Here, let me hold it. Put it back here in the bathroom. Wait, want me to put my coats too? Yeah, let me put it here. Hey y'all, God bless you. My son got on in here. So, I'm gonna heat up his dinner. I'm gonna get going. Now these here, now see how I told you these here. Sprint them. Microwave back now. Look apart, man. Got a toilet stool in here too, but why don't you use that toilet stool? Cause you got a little refrigerator in there. I'm gonna tie my shoes please. I'm tying shoes. And, and see the reason why I do this right here. Cause he, if I'm doing construction, a lot of my sons wouldn't be able to see this. They wouldn't be able to see this right here. So my son asked, my oldest son asked my youngest son, man, what your mama did with these? What kind of knot this is? It's the mama 3000KF force. It's because one of the people at, one of the grown-ups at the field tied it for me. Oh, okay. This ain't your mama knot. No. It's because he tied it. Right? Well, it came untied and then he. And I see y'all, let me tell you, y'all forgive me. One thing I'm gonna tell you, that the door to my sprinter, I still got it open. I let him see it now. Still got a, hey, get some tissue and blow your nose on. Here go the tissue box right here. Blow your nose. I still got that door open now. And see the reason why. Cause he knows it. So I let him see it. Yo, get your eye full. Get your eye full. Once supposed to make it, but God. Once supposed to make it, but God. But God, you better get to know him. You see what I'm saying? Hey, I got to go. Got to get my boy home. God bless y'all. Oh, but what I'm about to say, I let my boy see this. Tayden say, hey, can I see this? Hi. I let my boy see this. My oldest was on. He say, Tayden, you gonna be famous? Or you gonna be a celebrity? He say, yeah. He don't know what it is. And he say, what you gonna do? He say, I'm gonna do YouTube videos and do coaching calls like daddy. But I let them see this. So he see what I'm doing. He see I'm working. So that he know, son, you ain't got to sell drugs. Son, you ain't got to rap. Do gangster rap. Son, you ain't got to play sports. You could use your mind. You could serve. You could create business. You could do other things and be successful. So I let them see that because growing up, I didn't get to see that. You just got to see parents that was overworked and underpaid and that wasn't pursuing any entrepreneur things because they was tired from their job. And you got to see drug dealers and you got to see people who make it out in sports. But you didn't get to see nobody just, you didn't get to see people really too many up close and personal using their natural gifts. Serving, living a life of purpose. You didn't get to see that a lot. So, hey, God bless y'all. We'll talk soon. Got to go on ahead and get my son dinner ready. Get on going. So this right here too. Little bit of day in the life. Y'all see how the gas can. Got to make that happen. Hey, God bless you. We'll talk soon. Tayden, so you scored three goals.