 How many people do you know that actually want to change in their lives? How many people do you know? Well, I can tell you from my vast experience that barely, barely any Because wanting change, wanting something different in your life It's not like Doing something. It's not like when you work out or when you meditate or whatever the fuck you do Wanting change is when you just can't stand the fucking place you're in And you want something different You know that you're actually Desiring change. You're actually going for it When every fucking day looks different That's when you know you're fucking changing But all you fuckers basically live in the same reality every single day And I don't care if you're in self-improvement or if you're just not doing anything. Even the guys in self-improvement You don't really want to fucking change If you want a good estimate of where you are in life and where your life is going Look at your daily actions. Stop the lottery mindset that you can just keep doing whatever Just keep doing the same thing and one day It's going to be changed One day I'll get to where I want to get. I Don't know how I don't know when I just know that if I keep doing these things These things that feel like I'm moving forward. I'll fucking change. It will happen It's not the way it fucking works You're either changing daily Towards your goals straight line Through the fears Through the excuses through every single thing that's holding you the fuck back Or you're not changing. It's really that simple Either every day is a new adventure and you don't know what's gonna happen, but you know, it's gonna be big or You're not fucking changing Either every night you barely can sleep because your brain is so full of new ideas Or you have to sleep because you're so wound up and tired or You're not changing Get out of the lottery mindset get out of the fucking fantasy That by wishing upon change change is gonna happen And that's where the idea of Wishing versus Deciding comes into place. You can either wish something would happen or you can fucking decide that will happen Difference is very simple and I'll assert now That most of you have never made more than a handful of decisions in the entire fucking life Because the decision is always simple wishing is complicated When you wish for something be mining relationships help whatever the fuck you want when you wish for something You kind of just hope it will happen. I don't know how it is supposed to happen because you want You might even take action But not directly towards it. Just take action regarding that stuff and hope who will one day show up Signing on their hand Without no question will I get there? Will I not get there? Is it gonna happen? Is it not? when you decide Exactly what you want to get what you want to do in a situation You're gonna get that Because the focus of your attention changes from I hope this happens Let's hope nothing gets in the fucking way To I'm gonna do it no matter what the fuck comes in my way You see one is hoping for a lack of obstacles because obstacles will stop you the other deciding is Maybe not happy about obstacles Nobody likes obstacles, but he says I will fucking move the earth To make this shit happen when you decide There's no more spectrum of believing or not believing when you make a decision It's just gonna happen Most people are too damn fucking afraid to make a single decision So make that fucking decision stop procrastinating stop feeling like you're moving forward because you're not Make a decision What are you're gonna do with your life right now? What's important for you? What's gonna happen? What needs to fucking happen? Wake the fuck up And then we'll talk