 سعد بن عبی و قاسر رضی اللہ و عنوی used to cry a lot and he was very soft he used to cry a lot he was very soft one day the prophet صل اللہ علیہ وسلم was seated with some of his companions and he said if you want to see a man from جنہ he's the next man entering this happened a few times in the life of محمد صل اللہ علیہ وسلم one of them سعد بن عبی و قاسر رضی اللہ و عنوی walked in سبحان اللہ and so عبد اللہ ابن عمر ابن العاصر رضی اللہ و عنوی he was very young he decided i'm going to go and find out what's this man all about how come he's from paradise i also want to be from paradise so he went and he asks him he says you know what this is what the prophet peace be upon him said just before you walked in so i want to know what's your deed he says i don't really have so many extra deeds i'm just a normal average person normal you know those who are noble always believe they are normal the minute you think that you are above others that's the very moment that you are probably below them all may Allah forgive us remember this we need to ask Allah for goodness but when you get the goodness don't let it get to your head never never let it get to your head if it does that's your test fail may Allah سبحانہ و تعالیٰ grant us forgiveness so he said something interesting he says three things i always ensure are clean my tongue my heart and my wealth i make sure they're clean with my tongue i never abuse i never say anything i constantly remember Allah i use good words and i make sure that i don't hurt people with my tongue with my heart i make sure that i don't have malice and hatred for anyone no jealousy for anyone i make sure that i search and remove from it even the spec that is beginning to show i take it out my heart is clean my tongue is clean and my wealth i make sure it is absolutely clean and pure never pinching never stealing never usurping never deceiving nothing at all whatever came alhamdulillah through hard work and sweat so those are three things we learned you want to be from paradise i want to be from paradise i promised you if you were to look after these three you would help yourself get there by the will of Allah سبحانہ و تعالیٰ