 Hey, ziktors, do you have a crush you wanna ask out? Are you pretty new to asking someone out on a date? Where do you begin? Well, there are a few ways you can approach asking your crush out. We're gonna break down a few ways on how you can. So here are a few tips on how to ask your crush out. Number one, ask them to a particular event. One way to ease into that important question you wanna ask your crush is to ask them out to a particular event. That possible awkward silence may be shortened if you mention the event you wanna take them to shortly before. Let's say you have tickets to a concert. You might ask them what kind of music they like. Then you may bring up the specific musician whose concert you wanna go to. If they mention they like the musician or band, then you can hypothetically say, me too, I love them. I was gonna go to their concert this week and have another ticket. Do you wanna go with me? Then they'll hopefully have two reasons to say yes to your request. Just make sure to bring up that it's a date later on before the concert so they know. Number two, compliment them first. Instead of approaching someone you find attractive and immediately jumping into the, will you go out with me? Catch their eye with a smile. You want them to know you've been looking at them as long as it's not creepy. So smile and make a good amount of eye contact. I wouldn't aim for staring but let them know you're saying a friendly hi to them with your eyes. Then approach them with a compliment. Let them know why you like them. If you've been talking for a while, mention how you appreciate their passion for what they do, their talent, their personality or something else. Compliment their outfit or a feature you like. Then ask them out on a date. Good old Si may say something like, I really like your smile. Then they would reply with perhaps a, Oh, thanks. And Si would reply with, Would you wanna go on a date with me sometime? It's a simple approach and either they'll say yes or no. Muster up that courage and confidence and simply ask. You don't wanna regret not asking them at all. Number three, get to know them better or befriend them first. Are you friends with your crush? This may make it easier to ask them out or more difficult. Situations vary. But if you hardly know your crush but often see them, try to befriend them a bit first. That way they get a chance to get to know you and perhaps see what makes you attractive and unique. If you're afraid of the friend zone, simply try to get to know them a bit first before asking. Try to have a few moments and conversations with them that are more than small talk. This way they'll get more comfortable around you and may find that they wanna hang around you more, perhaps on a date. Number four, give them hints that you like them first with flirting. Have you ever felt the awkward silence after asking someone something they didn't expect? Or maybe you've heard rumors about it. Well, to avoid this, give your crush hints that you like them so they're not completely caught off guard. Try a bit of flirting, good eye contact, a few compliments. Maybe try the classic, look, don't look, look. Nope, I have no idea what I'm talking about. You simply look their way, they look back, you give a smile and then look away, still smiling. This often happens naturally but with much more panic. Instead, embrace that flirty smile and then look away. You're giving them a quick hint that you like them. Now time to approach them with a compliment and then ask them out. Number five, talk about something you both have in common. Then mention how you wanna continue the conversation somewhere after. If you're still a bit fearful of that transition into asking them out, this method may help. You can start up a conversation with them, preferably a good one, and then mention how you should both continue the conversation after work or school, that this nice coffee shop or diner you love. This way you can ease into the question or statement a bit easier. They'll hopefully wanna continue the conversation and at the nice location you mentioned too. If they say yes, give them the address and time or tell them you'll meet them somewhere so you can walk or drive to the place together if they're comfortable with that. Number six, ask them out when they're preferably alone and in person. So things are more comfortable and so you're not interrupted during your conversation. Try asking out your crush when they're alone or have a moment away from their friends or coworkers. This will give you both some privacy and make responding and exchanging information a lot easier. It's also a good idea to ask them out in person as it can show you care about them and are confident in asking them out. It will also give them a chance to see your expression, how much you like them and give you a chance to see how they react. If you can't seem to find a moment alone with them but have their number or follow them on social media, a message or text works almost just as well. And number seven, find your courage and stay true to your initial feelings. Asking someone out can take a good amount of courage sometimes especially if you're not used to it but finding your courage and making that step to ask your crush out can be worth it. An important part of asking anyone out is also to stay true to yourself and your feelings. Don't be afraid to smile if you feel like it and show them that you're happy. You're holding onto your confidence and feelings by doing this. You know how you feel, you like them and if they say no to your request and let you know that they're not interested in you romantically then respectfully accept this and try not to take back your offer, deny your feelings or appear as if you don't care at all. For a moment, in a way, you did care about them so you should respect their feelings and decisions and respect how you feel as well. You could tell them no problem and smile at the fact that you had the courage and confidence to ask. Then you can try your best to move on. As they say, there are plenty of fish in the sea and people's lives are often filled with many crushes. Perhaps there's someone out there crushing on you. So how will you ask your crush out? If you don't, will you regret it? We believe in you. Feel free to comment your idea on how you wanna ask your crush out in the comment section down below. 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