 drove another few hours today As I seem to be doing every day now arrived At this other location I was looking for An Airbnb as I usually do as you probably know I don't like hotels too much anymore. I don't really like to be around too many people. I Couldn't find an Airbnb. I managed to find this hotel instead. It's a pretty nice room Got a big bed. It looks comfortable That's where I'll be sleeping tonight. And maybe in the morning. I'll be sitting here Writing up another video, but yes Let's get into this This is why Narcissus the spies Impoffs and I'm sure many of you who are watching this now you may identify with Being an empath as someone who has high empathy You're empathic You have this ability to share another person's feelings and experience The ability to put yourself in their shoes To know what they're going through and To know what you need to do To please them and make them happy You already know what you need to do to do that and Narcissus They have an inability to do that But for you it comes naturally it's instinctual it's hard-wired And because of this gift that you have you may not realize it But having high empathy Also kind of makes you highly sensitive To where you can partake and enjoy and find fulfillment Even in little things in life So I don't know about you But little things Like you might see in my videos that I just see That brings me more fulfillment than anything else Just doing little things like that And not only that But even just going out into nature Going by the beach Just listening to the waves crash against the shore Just going for a hike in the forest Or just eating a good meal Just little everyday things that most people might take for granted For me that brings me a lot of fulfillment It makes me very happy But Narcissus They think that by lacking empathy That they're winning But in actuality that is the reason why they are miserable It's what causes them to lack sensitivity To where they can't find fulfillment in anything They always want more and more Whether it's more of your time energy or money, or they just want to abuse you more and more But no matter what they are never satisfied It's never good enough for them They always want more So of course, yes This is why they despise us empaths Because they see how easy it is for us We can find fulfillment in the little things in life Things that we may get very easily Things that just come naturally to us It's like The Narcissus needs all of these things, all of the stimulation And even then they're never happy While I say empaths, we could just sit and watch the grass grow We could watch paint dry And we would still be a million times happier than they are And of course they look at us, they see us And They just feel completely miserable in comparison to us Because they know they're never going to find fulfillment like that They know they're never going to be happy But often what brings us to most fulfillment Is sharing it with someone else Having the opportunity to Please and satisfy another person To Make them happy and to give them what they need That may bring us more fulfillment than anything And of course the reason why is because we have empathy We have the ability to share another person's feelings and experience So when we see them happy, it makes us happy And when we see them sad, it affects us as well A Narcissus They're aware of it They know they can see that Yes, you can enjoy Another person's happiness Whether it's theirs or someone else's And they don't like it They don't like to see you sharing and enjoying that Which is why They will always be ungrateful Unappreciative Because they understand they see that you are an empath And they don't want to give you the satisfaction Of knowing that, yes You may have made them happy to some level at some point But they will never tell you that They will never let you know Because they just don't want to give you the satisfaction Regardless of how much you may have done for them And it's not just with them but other people as well They won't want to see you sharing that with anyone Especially if it's someone who's under their influence or control An enabler or a flying monkey Or it could be a family member or a friend Whoever it is If you Get close to that person And you use your Empathic abilities To see what they're missing, what they're deficient in And then you fill that space Then that person is going to have A much stronger opinion of you And then they may come to the conclusion that they don't even need the narcissist Because all the narcissist is doing is consuming and taking away from them But yes It's just the way that You just come across as such an innocent Naive and curious person It's like You're not fully aware of the dangers And how harmful some people can be to you You overlook that You can be maybe stubborn at times In that sense Maybe you lack experience And you're just looking to make people happy And you're very curious about them In a way that very few people in this world are today You're just fascinated About other people It's like you want to know what makes them tick What makes them sad So that you can prevent it What makes them happy So that you can fulfill their desires, goals and dreams The problem is the narcissist sees that and they target you for it They exploit your empathy, your kindness and generosity And the worst part about it Is that how they drain you of all of these qualities, these positive traits These virtues And then in the end they never give you what you wanted What you were looking for Which as we know with empaths They just want to know that they made a difference That they made a positive change They pleased someone, they satisfied them They made them happy They changed their lives for the better Because when you look at it, that's all we really want We're very selfless We don't think too much of ourselves and what we want Unless we can get what we want So that we can use it to help another person The narcissist are selfish Empaths, we are selfless But yes, as I said, it doesn't matter how much time you spend around them You're never going to get that validation, that approval Of knowing that you did something good, you did something right Even though they know exactly what you are Yes, they know that you are an empath They know that all you desire is to make other people happy And they will drain you of everything you've got But they will never give you that They will never give you the satisfaction But when you meet another empath Things will begin to make a lot more sense After everything you dealt with with the narcissist And it's almost like You will understand why they tainted you Why they desire to abuse you Because when you look into another empath's eyes And you see that innocence The way they look at you without any judgement They're not even seeing anything that could be negative about you They're just looking at you with curiosity and fascination To whether they're not judging you They just want to learn more about you And at the same time they are highly sensitive So any feedback or information you're giving to them They're highly attuned to it And it's like You may look at them and you know Whatever you say, whatever you do If it's something positive They're going to be really happy with it But if it's something negative You know that with this type of person and empath You could do something bad And get away with it They will just overlook it They will forgive you, they will give you another chance And they may not even understand it They may just blame themselves And of course narcissists saw that in us They knew they could get away with it If they didn't think that then they probably would not have done it If they didn't think that they could treat us that way And then we would still end up blaming ourselves But I don't know about you Those of you, if you have met another empath For me When I witnessed that innocence That curiosity Where another empath was Engaged with me Looking into my eyes Without judgment Just pure curiosity And I could sense that I was dealing with a very Highly sensitive person Who was highly attuned to me They were highly attentive And I just couldn't imagine Seeing that person going through any harm All I wanted to do is to Love and protect them And I felt like that was my mission in life So those of you who are empaths And you haven't experienced that yet Meeting another empath That's probably what it would be like And it's not something Where it would take away your energy Or where it would drain you In fact when you have that experience You will feel so full of life Just by making eye contact with them That exchange of energy it is very powerful It is an incredible experience And you will know it when you do experience that When you look into another empath's eyes And you just know that you're not being judged It's like for the first time in your life You have a clean slate with someone They're not judging you for your past And they just have a desire to learn from you It's just such a powerful experience And as an empath yourself you will feel drawn to them You will desire to Just put your arms around them and protect them From the world And I do believe that yes with that type of person You could quite easily fall in love with them And it would just make you look back at your experiences With the narcissist And you would realise why it never worked out with them Of course it is quite rare For two empaths to cross paths Although it can happen And when it does happen you will know it You will sense it immediately You will instantly recognise that You are dealing with a highly empathic Highly sensitive person And it will just draw you in It will pull you closer to them Because it's very warm It's very welcoming and inviting But you know that this person just Has this unconditional love for you They just want to take care of you And it's like at that moment you meet someone who The way that you always loved the narcissist Unconditionally despite everything they did to you The way that you cared about them That's how they love and care for you But as I said it's very rare When you have that experience It may feel like it's the first time In your entire life That you have ever experienced that And it's just such an incredible feeling But with narcissists They're always going to take us in Pass for granted They're never going to appreciate us And they will always hate and despise us And not only that But they won't want to spend too much time around us They're just going to come around And take what they can get And then they're going to leave They're just going to leave you high and dry And just forget about you Because they already know that They don't belong around us Like attracts like And they are nothing like us We desire to love narcissists They just want to abuse and exploit They manipulate us And that is how they get in And it's like no matter how much you do for them While they may well be satisfied with it They will never let you know They will never give you the satisfaction Of knowing that you made them happy They will just move the goalposts And then it starts all over again You're winning on this endless hamster wheel Trying to please them But when you come across a real empath It's like you don't even have to impress them You don't have to do anything It's just like this pure Unconditional love They see it in you And you see it in them And it just pulls you together And when you find someone like that You will be inseparable No one will be able to keep you away from each other Because even though With time you may grow You may change It's like you will always grow together Because of the empathy That ability to share each other's feelings and experience That's just one of the main traits That we need In relationships It's how we can grow together But yes that is why Narcissists despise us They do not like impasse at all It's just the way that you move through life In such an innocent way Without judging them You just have this desire to learn And you're highly sensitive And they exploit that They take advantage of it They use it against us They don't value or respect it And yet with this empathy And the way that we're highly sensitive We're highly attuned It just brings us so much fulfillment in life Which is why Everything you have Everything that you can experience They just want to take all of these things away from you Because you're constantly showing them It's revealing to them That they cannot get the same fulfillment Even from such simple things in life And it really gets to them It bothers them It just reminds them that they're not happy And at the same time of course it's very easy To make an empath sad All they have to do is Deny you of some ability or opportunity To make them happy To make you feel like no matter what you do They're never going to be satisfied And then that's it You're sad Or they can just make you feel like you've done something wrong And then it triggers your guilt and shame And then they've got you They've brought you down And while they're doing all of these things And they're trying to make you feel bad They're already fully aware That you are an empathic person That you are very loving and caring And yet They just don't care To them you're just an object, a tool Just something for them to use So that they can feel better about themselves Because just witnessing you going about your life In such a playful way It really irritates them Because they're always so serious They can't find fulfillment in anything Good to see you too Susan Glad to see you made the live video here today So yes that's it That is why empaths Sorry narcissists The spies as empaths And it's always going to be that way They're never going to appreciate us No matter what we do But I hope that those of you Who Resonate with this message I do hope that you will Move on And find another empath Because I do believe that We are meant to be together To empaths together It is an incredible thing It's very powerful Because of course yes as we know Empaths especially super empaths We have the power to heal Not only ourselves But other people as well So it's definitely a very magical thing And when you experience that You will know that you are experiencing Real love While with the narcissist They can never let their guard down They can never be vulnerable With an empath that comes naturally We are naturally Able to be vulnerable To be intimate To have deep emotional connections All of the things that the narcissist Never valued or appreciated from us But yes this is it It's why they despise us And as I said it's never going to change It's going to be that way They will never be able to just let go And accept us For who we are To give us space to be ourselves Or even Just to love them And to bring out the best in them They will never allow us to do that It's okay because you can do that With yourself Give yourself the love and empathy That you need It will replenish you And any hurt or pain that you've been through When you may become shy You may become closed off All of these things It will just attract another empath to you even more But they will decide to help you To make you feel better To satisfy you So don't worry about that too much The narcissist may have harmed you And made you feel like you are unlovable But when you find another empath They will be there for you They may even be running to you Just in the way that you were running to help the narcissist But if that happens When they do that Please love them Take care of them Look after them All they need Is just someone who appreciates and accepts them Someone who gives them space to be themselves And give them space to please and satisfy you To make you happy Because honestly there's nothing more an empath wants than that All they really want is to know that they've made a positive change in our life So give that to an empath And you will make their day Thank you for the donations Arlene's She says Send in hugs and well wishes To all beautiful empaths Thanks Chris for a dynamic video You are a shining light in this community Thank you again Arlene Although I do have to say I have been reading in the comments a lot People calling me Chris But I do prefer to be called by my Full name Which is Christopher So I just thought I'd put that out there So people know Because I've seen it in the comments a lot Yes it's really Christopher that I prefer But again thank you for the donation I appreciate it Alright so That's the message That's why Narcissists despise us It's getting quite late here now So I'm going to Have a shower And get ready for bed I've been driving all day It's actually 11pm now I had to get on here and share this message Thank you all for joining me On another Narcissify my life video If it was helpful you can give it a thumbs up down below Let me know your thoughts in the comment section I appreciate all of your comments I read them every morning Share and subscribe And as always I will talk to you in another video Very soon