 Let's talk about this son-husband epidemic all the pictures messed up, but you see this picture. It should be fuzzy This is my censored picture here Let's talk about the damn son-husbands. Yo, all right This is Kevin Durant This is a picture of him smooching his mother That's his mama Now there are several pictures of this if you Google this There's several pictures of them kissing just like this. This is the one. There's about 10 or 15 Many men will win their championship and they will bring their wives. They might be solo they don't really bring a mama up and Do this type of behavior out in public, but people found this endearing. Oh my god Kevin Durant and the mom. Did you see them? They have a wonderful relationship This is a little past wonderful. It's gonna be a little bit bury a more uncomfortable type relationship But many men do have this relationship in the community that when they don't have a father They have to have this type of relationship with the mother Because they've gone through tough times. They've overcome the odds. I mean, I don't know who his father is But obviously she hit the genetic lottery or he did enough for him to have a seven foot eight wingspan and Had the athleticism of a five foot nine guy So she wins because she endured all of that enough for him her to capitalize on his ability his natural ability God-gifted ability and Thus she can take credit For making him that Now I want to watch this watch this if he became a criminal and thug whose fault is it? Daddy Dad's fault. I didn't have no daddy and all my homies got locked up or killed all that bullshit but because he was able to have God given ability because she She gave a man who had this genetic combination Access to her then she can say I did it and she and he actually credits her as Being the real MVP when he won the MVP award. He cried you the real MVP a Lot of men do that in the NFL because these people tend to come from fatherless homes If you look at it The son husband believes that the woman the mother can do no wrong She can do no wrong. She's the queen even when she's doing wrong There's an example of Tupac who has a song called Dear Mama in Which he says and I quote My mother was a crack fiend mama But now she is a black queen mama hold up Let's go back Wait a minute Does he get a pass if he was a crack fiend? Would he get a pass? He don't even get a pass for going to get a pack of new ports He don't even get a pass for going to pack a new port He gets to get all the damn it was your fault, but the mother's a queen The son husband believes that the mother is the queen no matter what she can do no wrong The other thing the son husband does He's afraid to confront women when they're wrong a lot of us do this as A natural sense of protection So you see a woman staggering and stumbling her way through an argument or a debate and I'm debating her and I'm giving her the business I'm whipping her into the rope and I'm giving her the big boot and then I take my elbow pad off Throw it into the audience bounce off the ropes and hit her with the rock bottom elbow drop You know who's gonna save her a Dude Now he should save her if I'm harassing her slandering her and so forth There should be no need for me to just be talking reckless about her But if she did engage in some sort of debate or an argument There was a car accident She caused it so I believe and I get in and say what the hell's wrong with you Here comes mighty miles here. I come to save the day and he will swoop in He will have seen the wrong done, but he would say We need to take it easy on this one When they're wrong a son husband believes They've done no wrong. They will not call their mothers out How many has how many men in here have perfect parents? Not many. I'm a parent and I'm far from perfect But how many men have perfect moms? everybody Mama almost knowing she made some mistakes When the father makes mistakes, we don't have any problems calling out That's what son husbands typically do another characteristic of the son The son husband is Have you ever heard somebody talk about somebody's mama your mama so fat Your mama hair so thin or your mama hair bald and The natural response that people have trained people to do is go crazy like a Tasmanian devil I know you ain't talking about my mama. I'll kill you if you talk reckless about my mama I know you ain't talking about my mama. You brought your mama in it. I brought What in the hell is that? It's just your mother now Do we do this? Need you know your daddy and you sit there and take it you believe yeah, my daddy is a piece of shit Okay, you don't have the same Come to the rescue since when people talk about Dad, but you will with mom You'll go to prison defending your mama. You'll go to prison defending your mom When just somebody's just talking about her that might not even know her that's not a big deal. Okay. That's what you believe That's what you believe You need to get off my mom. I just got off yours Should be the appropriate response and it's all here and then you might be a victim of some violence But the son husband goes above and beyond to defend The mother and we call these men P sitting down men This is what I call These are P sitting down in These men were taught in the absence of the father to P sitting down as to not disrupt the slumber of the mother See by time she fall asleep Then young boy gets up. He's 12 He can halfway hit the toilet with his piss When he pees it makes a lot of noise and the mother's like the hell is this shit? Don't make all that noise pissing and so he'll go in there three in the morning Pissing that toilet wake up the whole house because she lives in the one bedroom apartment with three kids And then she will say to him You know Why don't you sit down and pee just you don't need to stand up It's not because maybe biologically it might be better to piss it down. There's signs that might say that It's not because of that. It's because it's disrupting her now Just P sitting down And you'll be taught to piss sitting down And then you'll get back in bed with your mama and cuddle with her and cold co-sleep with her too We have that going on now many celebrities are saying I sleep co-sleep with my nine-year-old son We'll get to the edifice complex later How that disrupts the natural maturity of the son and breaks the father and son bond immediately