 Online dating tips for women. Hi, this is Helena Hart from commitmentconnection.com and in this video I wanted to give you some tips if you're online dating and really looking to attract a high quality masculine energy men. This is something I'm getting asked about more and more lately. You know, I met my husband online and the majority of my clients are meeting their boyfriends and husbands online now. I've seen a switch in recent years. I'd say more are meeting them online than just in real life. And a lot of people, you know, don't wanna try online dating for just a variety of reasons, but it really doesn't have the same stigma that it used to. And it just seems to be what everyone's doing and how people are meeting each other because we're all so busy and if you don't wanna date someone at work and you're not in school anymore, you know, or if you don't wanna just meet guys at bars and hope they're single and good men looking for a relationship, online dating is sort of what everyone seems to be doing. And, you know, I had success with it. So many of my clients are just having so much success with it. So I would definitely give it a shot and it's all about the way you approach it that will either have you attracting the high quality men or attracting the kind of men that you would never wanna meet in real life. So the first tip I wanna give you to attract high quality men online is your profile. You know, you want to stay in your feminine energy when you are even writing your profile and putting up pictures. That means using feminine energy language. So I would say have two paragraphs in general. You know, different sites have different ways of doing this, but if it's a site where, you know, they want you to write a couple paragraphs about yourself. Have the first paragraph be all about yourself and the second paragraph be all about what you're looking for in a partner. And then you wanna switch every sentence into feminine energy language, meaning you wanna talk about how things feel to you. So rather than saying the typical thing, like, oh, I like to hang out with my friends and I like to travel, you know, that's in every profile, most likely for men and women. So to attract those masculine energy men, talk about how it feels when you're traveling or how it feels when you're spending time with friends and family. That will actually make you stand out a little more from all the other profiles. And the next thing is your pictures. Pictures are extremely important when it comes to attracting the right kind of men. And one thing I see in pictures that's sort of missing from a lot of women that I work with is color. You know, I see a lot of women in black, you know, because they think it's slimming or flattering, but really, you know, the truth is a man when they're doing searches online, you know, at first they're sort of picking you out of the lineup of all the search results, right? So if you have some color, especially in your main profile picture, it's really going to make you stand out. The next thing I would say about online dating pictures is, you know, you want to show your character through your pictures because, you know, the truth is men are probably not going to read every single word in your profile, just like you may not do that as well in the men's profiles. So instead of talking about all the things you like to do in your profile, it is important to put some feminine energy language in there because of course, a lot of men do read the profiles, but show them what you like in your pictures. If you like to be outdoors, let's say you like hiking or rock climbing, having some pictures of you doing those things will really tell that story and make you stand out from some of the other profiles which are just likely the standard pictures that everyone has. And the last part about your pictures I'd like to say is character, really showing who you are, showing some personality in your pictures. And you don't have to have 20 pictures. You know, I would say just a handful, maybe four or five pictures is enough. Have a really clear one of your face, definitely have a full body shot in there and the rest you can kind of use your discretion. So I hope that was helpful in terms of your profile. Now in terms of how to do this online dating thing, there's so much that goes into it, but for the purposes of this video, let me give you a couple more tips. So you definitely wanna be in your feminine energy when you're online dating. That's what's going to attract masculine energy men. So rather than going out and searching for a bunch of men and emailing 50 different men every day, that can lead to a lot of burnout. It's very sort of forward-leaning masculine energy. So I would just spend your time writing a great profile, putting up some fantastic pictures of yourself and then leaning back energetically and seeing who shows up. You know, seeing what kind of men are picking up on your vibe and responding to you. That is really valuable information for you to have. So see who's picking up on what you're putting out there and then just respond to the men who show up in your inbox rather than you going out and being the initiator when it comes to online dating. Of course, it's fine to experiment a little bit, but in my experience and in the experiences of my clients, when you're the one to do all the initiating in online dating, it typically doesn't materialize. You know, you really wanna attract the kind of man who's going to show up and pursue you and move the potential relationship along all on his own rather than you being the one to constantly have to do that because that will show up later. I can pretty much guarantee you really want a masculine energy man who is capable of doing relationship and being the masculine partner when it comes to dating. So I hope that was helpful for you. We should definitely talk some more about online dating in future videos. So let me know if you have any questions about this and I hope to talk with you again soon. Thanks for watching. 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