 man is dumping his emotional problems to you. Some women see that as weakness. A lot of women see this as music to their ears. Oh my gosh. He's so vulnerable. Oh my gosh. He's so emotionally. He's able to emote his feelings. He must be emotionally mature. He must have relationship skills. See, folks, when somebody is venting their problems, there's nothing wrong with venting their problems. What's worse is when they actually complain.