 I think if you're like me and you have a long-term mating strategy and you desire a life partner, then what you're seeking in relationship is something we call serious, right? Now I bring this to your attention because a lot of human beings have a short-term mating strategy or they only desire a casual relationship and casual relationship might include monogamy and might include exclusivity but there's no real destination to the relationship. Now why is this so critically important to talk about the destination? Because what's the purpose of dating? What's the purpose of getting to know someone?