 The narcissist will steal your things. They will take away your things. Things that rightfully belong to you. They are envious of the things you own. They desire to have what belongs to you. Especially if it's something that is an expression of who you are. They are envious of your qualities and abilities. They are envious of who you are as a person. So they want to take away the things that they believe make you who you are. They don't want you to be you. Because it reflects on them and everything that they are not. Everything that they wish they could be. Everything that they are pretending to be. They will act as though they hate your things. As though it's always in the way. As though you don't really need it. They will say that you never use it. So you need to get rid of it. They will always pressure you to move your things or to get rid of your things. They will always let you know that your things are not safe around them. They treat your things with contempt. As though it's worthless and beneath their consideration. When really the opposite is true. They're envious of you and they're envious of everything you have. But they will act like it's nothing. Or they will act like it's an inconvenience for them somehow. They will let you know that their things are better than yours. And they will expect you to treat their things better than they treat yours. They might just throw your things around without any care. But when it comes to their things. They expect you to treat them with respect. You might have things that have sentimental value. Things that are important to you. Things that mean something to you. These are the types of things that narcissists will target. They will break those things. Or they will randomly disappear. They're not going to have any care or consideration for your property. Just as they have no care or consideration for you. Your things are constantly in danger. They will use it to hurt you. They will use it to gain an advantage over you. But their things will always be protected. They write the rules. But they are also protected against their own rules. Their rules cannot be used against them. Because they're afraid that you might do the same thing to them. You're never going to feel comfortable around the narcissist. You're never going to feel settled in a warm and secure refuge. You're never going to feel safe or sheltered from pursuit, danger or trouble. Because it's an environment that lacks any imagination, creativity and excitement. Where you're just supposed to deal with them and serve them. There's nothing else there. It all has to be about them. There can't be any other way. And although it makes you feel really uncomfortable. You're drawn into it because you're afraid. But they make you believe that being around them is the safest option. When they're the ones who are making this undesirable situation continue. They will do anything to keep you under their control. They will exploit everything at their disposal. To cause as much emotional damage to you as possible. They need to have all of these things that they can use on you. So that they can manipulate you. Your things are the basic underlying framework and features of the system that they have created. It's essential for that to be there. So that they can threaten you with it. So that they can use it to put you in a state of fear. So that they can get supply and then make you do what they want. But they don't want you going near their things. They don't want you to know how much they've got. While they need to know every little thing that you have. They always have a problem with your things. They're always trying to take your things away from you. They're always judging you based on what you have. Your things are always a target for the narcissist. It's always something they're going to use against you. Nothing is safe around a narcissist. You cannot trust them with anything of value. Because they're not going to take any responsibility. They have no regard for you. Or for anything you own. Thank you for watching. I hope this video resonates with you. Please like, comment, share and subscribe. If you would like to donate, my PayPal link is in the video description. Coaching inquiries. You can email me at coachingatnarksurvivor.co.uk Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon.